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      Lucid love?

      (this is going to be long so bear with me) So I guess this wasnt a lucid dream but ill keep going. So in this dream I was talking to a girl (who I actually have a crush on in real life) and having a great time. We laughed and played and we kissed a few times, but later in the dream I had a moment of lucidity. I sat down In a chair and just started bawling and Ashton (the girl) came over to me along with a couple others. When she asked me what was wrong I told her in these exact words " I'm crying because I know I will never get a chance with you in real life because every one treats me like shit." She then replied in the dream "I'm sorry that people treat you like that in the real world but I'll always be with you here in this world." I woke up when she finished. I'm just so sad that Ashton and I will never have a chance. Since that dream I have been majorly depressed. Even writing this post makes me teary eyed. I know this was long but I just need help. Is this a normal lucid dream?
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      Well, it depends on your definition of normal, I mean, normally people are like flying and stuff. BUT on a serious note, I know the same feeling, I've gone through something similar. And I mean even if it sounds pathetic I feel that you should take comfort in the fact that at least she's there for you in dream. PLUS, reality is only what you perceive to be real. Anyways, hope I helped and best of luck.

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      Awwww women.... How they have such an effect on most men. Don't get too down about it bud. You have to remember that you are a person worthy of being loved and respected, just like anyone else. Its not uncommon for people to experience strong emotions during a Dream, even to the point that they make you depressed. I mean, if they can overwhelm you with joy, then the opposite has to be possible as well. While I don't know the circumstances of your life I can say with almost absolute certainty that you can change things for the better. This girl is not the only girl out there, nor will she be the only girl you ever have feelings for. Cherish the time you spend with this person, whether in Waking life or in the Dreamscape, and remember that it won't be the end of the world if you don't end up with her.

      I would like to ask you more about your personal situation so that I might be of some comfort to you, but I'm not sure if you wish to write about it on the public forum. If you want, private message me and I'll be glad to communicate with you and give you some helpful words of encouragement and who knows, maybe it will help.
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      Just want to say to PlanesWalker how much I enjoy reading your posts. You must be a really nice thoughtful person.
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      These sort of things happen a lot. I myself have had this with many girls that I know and girls that I haven't known. I felt very strong emotions but I've understood that these emotions are just dream emotions, from my experiences I'd advise you not to get too attached to these dream emotions, and don't be depressed over them because its a waste of your energy, be happy.

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      Ask her out.

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