Thread: Weird lucid dream problem and need help.

So i started to learn lucid dream about 45 days ago and i have about 17 lucid dreams and 14 of them were very short about 1 min. I Then after getting lucid dream from reality checks and i learned ada which gave me many lucid dream night. After dry spell i increaced my awarness and i started to become lucid in every dream. Yesterday all my dream were lucid. I just was aware of everything i stabilized my dream but couldnt control the dream because there was another character in my dream also in control i told him this was my dream and i lost bit of my lucidity i knew it was dream i could do all the simple stuff but i couldnt do much and there lucid dream developed storyline which where i fought for full control. Sometimes i was in full control and sometimes i was in dream but still knew it was a dream. All this was very vivid but now lets go to the true problem. About every 1 min i woke up and i stayed still and went back into the dream lucid this happened about 8 times. the story line changed later and i lost lucidity for awhile but i gained it later but i cant stay in dream long i just wake up and fall back to dream this is so annoying. When im lucid i am so connected to my body if i close my eyes i wake up i have done it accidentally few times. So to the question how can i stay in my dream when it starts fading it always start fading after 1 min when i become lucid? I have tried rubbing hands, grabbing to something i fell it slip away and spinning which havent worked for me because i cant spin fast enough. Thanks for all the help and to this site it has made life so much more intresting .



Also i have a very interesthing lucid dream experience in my past when i was child. I still remember it very vividly. Ok to the point
About age of 7 i had this weird dream when i become lucid and i was in this world full of zombies i try kind of things like jumping to the sky but back then i didnt know what i could have done. But this dream was very sad for me i dont remember all the details but i remember that it felt like months or years long. I was in the dream so long that i started to feel sad i was still a child and i wanted it to end. I started missing my family so i atemted suicide in the dream there was this huge black hole on the ground and i jumped in there and as i jumped in there i just fell what felt like months. In the wall of the holes there was these hands coming of the wall trying to grap me i was at first afraid but as i fell i started to lose scence of time. After awhile i woke in my bed and it was still a dream i was so sad back then and given up i didnt almost know anything anymore so i went back to the hole and jumped again same thing happened but i wasnt scared anymore i looked the hands in the wall and i just didnt feel anything anymore. This happened cycle happend over and over again i dont remember much but it felt so long. Then i tried one last jump and after awhile i woke up i was so happy and calm and i felt like i was older this dream changed me i appreciated everything more. I told this to my mom and she couldnt understand this she just said oh poor you. After that dream i stopped all my whining i never asked anything from my parents anymore stopped celebrating my birthday never asked any gifts or got any. Im now 19 and i look back to it and i just remember it felt so long and the feeling of happiness when i woke up. I always been the grown up in my family because parents alcoholic and i wonder was it all because of this. I can never be sure because memory changes but the dream stayed with me. I remember this weird thing when i was a child i used to be afraid under my bed dont remember why but one day i woke up and yelled im not afraid of you and punched a wall and woke up standing fist hurt and i never was afraid of under my bed. This is no story this all really happened nobody would have belived me if i told them.