 Originally Posted by Kersh7
WOW..... Thats actually the most interesting thing i have ever heard..... i have the chills now. I am surely going to pursue this and do much more research on it.
Yes! I was hoping you would say that. It will be a lot more fun helping you to lucid dream than trying to avoid it. 
What you said about having a nap during the day and then trying to fall asleep later is so true, this happened to me literally on Monday, i left work early went home at 10am i slept from 11am till, 3pm.... i went to my girlfriends house the same night and fell asleep on the couch and proceeded to bed when she woke me up.. it happened then as i jumped into bed the worst vibrations ever and loudest sounds coming through in a wavy sort of way...
Yes, that would make sense. You probably went through the first dreamless stages of sleep on the couch and then went to bed with your awareness up, ready for a REM period. Your schedule seems unusual. Do you work night shifts?
she told me through out the night i needed to be woken up..
Oh yes, I wanted to respond to this yesterday, but I had already written so much, and I didn't want to scare you away with an even bigger wall of text. It's actually quite clever of you to have worked out this way of letting your girlfriend know you need to wake up. Even though you normally won't be able to move while you sleep, it is actually possible to control your fingers and toes. So should you ever feel the need to come out of a dream, you can actually just wiggle your fingers or toes and tell yourself to wake up. But once you discover what's possible in your dreams, I'm sure you won't want to. Then you'll just want to make the dreams last longer. 
Okay i am going to read up on these techniques now and see from there!
Great! You know, normally we recommend that newcomers start out by practicing DILD, but since this is already going on, you might as well try WILD. You're already halfway there, since the hard part is being aware while you are falling asleep, and you seem to have a natural aptitude for that.
Once you let these vibrations take over you, will i then be able to control myself in my dreams or is it not that simple?
Yes, that's pretty much it. You will of course need to work on becoming good at is - as with any skill - but the times that you have thought, "I need to wake up!" - that was already a lucid dream. You may have felt yourself lying in bed, but what you were actually feeling was your "dream body", and your dream body is free from constraints of any kind. You will be able to get up from your bed, but just by imagining it, or telling yourself to. You can walk around. Perhaps you will find yourself in a dream version of your own home, but some things will be different. You can walk through walls, or just go outside anyway you feel like. Outside of your house you may find any kind of landscape. You can explore it any way you want, even by flying. You will meet people who are dream characters made up by your mind. You don't even have to visualize them, because your brain will still be working the way it creates a regular dream. But now you can change it. Dream control is a lot of fun, and we can help you with that too. Apart from the tutorials, people post new ideas all the time.
Another thing how common is this among people?
I don't know, I'm not sure if anyone knows, really. I think most people have the ability. A lot of people will be able to remember at least one instance where they knew they were dreaming. But most don't know that they can do things with that knowledge. We do know that children seem to do it naturally. More often than adults, they will just know that they are dreaming (DILD). From what I have read on this site, it also depends on the media coverage that lucid dreaming is getting in your area. I think one of our German users (StephL) said that it was much more common in Germany because they have had some documentaries on it. Elsewhere, I suppose that the movie Inception has had a good influence because it deals with a dramatized kind of LDing. But it is still relatively unknown, despite being scientifically proven. I think most people find out either by having a spontaneous LD, or - like you - by having some sort of problem related to sleep/dreams and researching it.
So now you have a few options... you could just think about what you have heard so far, and make a little plan for what you will do next time you find yourself in that situation. A little tip that took me far too long to discover: if you feel that you are having trouble getting out of bed, once you are lucid, try this: feel the mattress underneath you. Rub it with your fingertips. Or you can do it visually, just look at the wall next to you. Notice the colour and structure. This will make you aware of your dream body, and you will be able to get up easily. If all else fails, just roll out of bed, that's what I used to do when I got stuck . From there you can just go on an adventure. Everything goes on in your head, so you will be perfectly safe to explore. Sooner or later you will wake up - and then remember to write everything down immediately. Make a Dream Journal here on DV and tell us all about it. 

Or you could read a WILD tutorial, but perhaps you won't even need it. It seems that all you need to do at this point is to realize that you are safe and already in a dream. It is also a very good idea to sign up for the Intro Class. If you create a workbook and post your progress, you will lots of help and support.
Please let me know what you decide. I'm looking forward to reading about your experiences in your Dream Journal. 
Thank you so much for that response again..
You're very welcome! Your question was very interesting to me because it reminded me so much of what I used to go through.
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