I think one of the main problems is that people who do seek to experiment with certain things are almost always met with people who are so definitive in their views that it "cannot" be done under any circumstances, that it may discourage the person, or otherwise make it a more personal search. I mean, we lucid dreamers of all people should know that anything is possible. Though input from others can be very constructive and no one should be easily discouraged, I find that at the end of the day you don't have to prove anything to anybody...

From my own experiences I have also noticed that I for one, tend to be unable to focus on one particular thing so easily. There's so much to do that there is often confusion in regards as to what should be a priority and what ends up being done. There are times however, that even though one may be focused and be seeking constantly and actively, one may not be ready for certain experiences. So I find that when the time is right the awareness behind the dream will present it for you. I'd say the majority of my life changing dream experiences, if not all, have come when I have let go of control and when I least expected...