First, if you're having a severe side-effect from your meds, definitely tell the doc who prescribed them about it. They may be able to change you onto something different. Don't just stop taking them or resign yourself to living with the nightmares. The internet's a bad place to get specific advice about that sort of thing.
If you want to take control, keep a journal where you write down every dream you have in as much detail as possible. Especially the nightmares! You may find this process therapeutic in itself -- if nothing else it's a way to process the bad stuff and get it out of your head by putting it down on paper. However, recognising patterns in your nightmares can also help you overcome them.
For example, I used to often have nightmares involving confined spaces (something I strongly dislike in real life). Now, if I find myself in a situation like that I usually recognise it as a "dream-sign" and become lucid. This gives me three possible ways out of the nightmare:
1. I instantly become more relaxed, because I understand it's only a dream;
2. I have a chance to try to change the dream narrative, for example by believing that I have a key in my pocket for a door that was locked.
3. If (2) doesn't work out, I can usually wake myself up. Personally I do this by just shouting "wake up!" and stamping my feet, hitting a wall etc.
I'll wake up having defeated the nightmare -- a good feeling! And over time those nightmares have gone away, perhaps because I got good at getting rid of them, although I still don't like confined spaces IRL.
This works because of keeping a regular dream-journal -- like a lot of other thing it takes a bit of persistence and probably won't help overnight. It's a journey.
Good luck with it!
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