Why can't I have a wet dream after a sexual LD?

[HebrewHammer]

Ok, I have had multiple LDs where I truly felt like I came and while still in the dream I anticipate and I'm eager to wake to soaked boxers but end up waking up disappointed. I don't recall ever having a wet dream through puberty so I've been trying to achieve it through a LD. What's going on and how can I achieve this?

[EbbTide000]

Ok, I have had multiple LDs where I truly felt like I came and while still in the dream I anticipate and I'm eager to wake to soaked boxers but end up waking up disappointed. I don't recall ever having a wet dream through puberty so I've been trying to achieve it through a LD. What's going on and how can I achieve this? Screeeeeeem!!! Open a dream journal and Tell Me More! Tell Me More! Spoiler for off topic: ♡ ♩ ♪ ♫ ♬ ♭ https://youtu.be/HlgDbTpFYJc ♡ ♩ ♪ ♫ ♬ ♭ 1,100,249 views Under the Youtube Grease - Summer Nights (HD) By QuestionAuthority2* Published on Apr 21, 2013 Unforgettable song "Summer Nights" from the 1978 hit movie "Grease" starring John Travolta and Olivia Newton-John (in High Definition 1080P HD)! In this scene Danny and Sandy give two very different accounts of their summer romance. Summer Nights reached No. 5 on the Billboard Hot 100 and spent seven weeks at No. 1 on the UK charts. It was featured on the Grease original motion picture soundtrack (OST). Grease has found a new generation of fans by being featured in the hit show "Glee". Since an original official music video was never made for this song, the movie clip is the de-facto standard. Many people insist that the pop band One Direction ripped off this song with their hit "You Don't Know You're Beautiful" - you decide. Lyrics: "Summer Nights" by Jim Jacobs and Warren Casey Summer lovin' had me a blast Summer lovin' happened so fast I met a girl crazy for me Met a boy cute as can be Summer days drifting away To, oh, oh, the summer nights Well-a well-a well-a, huh Tell me more, tell me more Did you get very far? Tell me more, tell me more Like does he have a car? She swam by me, she got a cramp He ran by me, got my suit damp I saved her life, she nearly drowned He showed off, splashing around Summer sun, something's begun But, oh, oh, the summer nights Well-a well-a well-a huh Tell me more, tell m,e more Was it love at first sight? Tell me more, tell me more Did she put up a fight? Took her bowling in the Arcade We went strolling, drank lemonade We made out under the dock We stayed up past ten O'clock Summer fling, don't mean a thing But, oh, oh, the summer nights Well-a well-a well-a huh Tell me more, tell me more But you don't gotta brag Tell me more, tell me more 'Cause he sounds like a drag He got friendly, holding my hand She got friendly down in the sand He was sweet just turned eighteen Well, she was good you know what I mean Summer heat, boy and girl meet But, oh, oh, the summer nights Tell me more, tell me more How much dough did he spend? Tell me more, tell me more Could she get me a friend? It turned colder, that's where it ends So I told her we'd still be friends Then we made our true love vow Wonder what she's doing now Summer dreams ripped at the seams But, oh, those summer nights

[AnotherDreamer]

I've never had a wet dream either, as far as I know anyway. From what I've heard from people that do have them though, you and I are quite lucky. Apparently the cleanup afterwards can be annoying to say the least.

[Brite]

I think you have to have some sexual energy pent up in reality, not just in the lucid dream. My wet dreams were triggered by me going a few weeks without...well...you know...abusing the hose lol It just has to...build up. lol You know? Imagine a tube filling up with water. Faucet on one end, lid on the other. If you keep opening the lid and letting the water out, then the pressure will never build up. But if you let it fill up over time and let the water keep going and going and going... eventually KABOOM. The lid will burst open. Do ya see what I'm saying? lol >.< I hope my analogy wasn't too prude and was able to get my point across lol

[gab]

Ok, I have had multiple LDs where I truly felt like I came and while still in the dream I anticipate and I'm eager to wake to soaked boxers but end up waking up disappointed. I don't recall ever having a wet dream through puberty so I've been trying to achieve it through a LD. What's going on and how can I achieve this? I'm sorry, but I don't quite understand. Do you reach orgasm or no?

[HebrewHammer]

Screeeeeeem!!! Open a dream journal and Tell Me More! Tell Me More! Lol, will be doing this soon. I've never had a wet dream either, as far as I know anyway. From what I've heard from people that do have them though, you and I are quite lucky. Apparently the cleanup afterwards can be annoying to say the least. I guess a part of me kind of felt like I was missing out on the "every guy has experienced this through puberty" stories and now its about being able to consciously control it. Since wet dreams are somewhat involuntary, the idea of voluntarily achieving this while lucid seems like it would add to the realism of the LD. I think you have to have some sexual energy pent up in reality, not just in the lucid dream. My wet dreams were triggered by me going a few weeks without...well...you know...abusing the hose lol It just has to...build up. lol You know? Imagine a tube filling up with water. Faucet on one end, lid on the other. If you keep opening the lid and letting the water out, then the pressure will never build up. But if you let it fill up over time and let the water keep going and going and going... eventually KABOOM. The lid will burst open. Do ya see what I'm saying? lol >.< I hope my analogy wasn't too prude and was able to get my point across lol Lol, no I get what you're saying and you're probably right. I think the longest I've ever gone without was only a week or 2 since 11yrs old, so maybe that's why I never experienced it. I never correlated time gone without masterbating with wet dreams. I always thought it just happened at random. I'm sorry, but I don't quite understand. Do you reach orgasm or no? In reality, no. But in the LD, yes. In the LD, the ejaculation feeling was so intense and realistic that I told myself in the LD that you just came in your boxers. So, when I woke up and none is there I end up disappointed. I've had other sexual LDs where I've visibly ejaculated in them but the orgasm were never intense or realistic like these ones.

[Gr8God]

I had my first wet dream just a couple of months ago, it felt like I was there, like I was with another person having sexual intercourse and when I climaxed it felt like one of the best I've had. When I woke up all dazed and "relaxed" I felt my boxer briefs and instantly knew what took place in there was one hell of a mess. To make it even worst this one in my mates guest bedroom... I told him about it he laughed about it and calls me by my ridiculous nickname every now and then. Trust me, not nutting in your boxers should be a good thing.

[gab]

I dunno, maybe you guys are different. But as long as you climax... : D

[HebrewHammer]

I had my first wet dream just a couple of months ago, it felt like I was there, like I was with another person having sexual intercourse and when I climaxed it felt like one of the best I've had. When I woke up all dazed and "relaxed" I felt my boxer briefs and instantly knew what took place in there was one hell of a mess. To make it even worst this one in my mates guest bedroom... I told him about it he laughed about it and calls me by my ridiculous nickname every now and then. Trust me, not nutting in your boxers should be a good thing. That sounds like a real good night sleep. That's want I want to experience. But I'm also curious to see if someone can or has induced a wet dream while LD. I dunno, maybe you guys are different. But as long as you climax... : D Lol, I'll keep trying. Where's the appropriate sub for SP related stories?

[Gr8God]

That sounds like a real good night sleep. That's want I want to experience. But I'm also curious to see if someone can or has induced a wet dream while LD. My wet dream was induced from not "releasing" too often, I think at the time I hadn't ejaculated for 2 weeks. That was because I was overseas during the 2 weeks and yes wet dreams (or sex dreams without the wet part) can be induced in a LD, takes some time and practice but you'll be able to perfect. Things like being too excited or losing focus are big hurdles when it comes to intentional wet dreams.

[Rothgar]

I had an exciting sexual dream recently and was SO glad to wake up and find it was all in my mind and no physical repercussions. I had enough of those embarrassing wet dreams as a teen and like this much better. Guess i prefer to keep my two worlds of reality separate.

[ThreeCat]

In reality, no. But in the LD, yes. Just want to mention that orgasms in dreams are still "real" in the sense that they are a mental event, and (more than likely) release the same amount of dopamine etc. as an orgasm in waking. Also, ejaculation and orgasm are separate events, so just because you didn't ejaculate in WL doesn't mean you didn't orgasm. But I would second Brite. If you really want that, go for a while without physically ejaculating and see what happens.

[gab]

Just want to mention that orgasms in dreams are still "real" in the sense that they are a mental event, and (more than likely) release the same amount of dopamine etc. as an orgasm in waking. Yes. It's all in our heads : D

[HebrewHammer]

My wet dream was induced from not "releasing" too often, I think at the time I hadn't ejaculated for 2 weeks. That was because I was overseas during the 2 weeks and yes wet dreams (or sex dreams without the wet part) can be induced in a LD, takes some time and practice but you'll be able to perfect. Things like being too excited or losing focus are big hurdles when it comes to intentional wet dreams. Thanks for sharing. Alright, 2 weeks set to be my minimum and hopefully by then I'll see results. I definitely need more practice on that last part. Often I get too excited and get woken up by my erections. I had an exciting sexual dream recently and was SO glad to wake up and find it was all in my mind and no physical repercussions. I had enough of those embarrassing wet dreams as a teen and like this much better. Guess i prefer to keep my two worlds of reality separate. Lol, I find that I try to do the complete opposite and always trying to combine the 2. Just want to mention that orgasms in dreams are still "real" in the sense that they are a mental event, and (more than likely) release the same amount of dopamine etc. as an orgasm in waking. Also, ejaculation and orgasm are separate events, so just because you didn't ejaculate in WL doesn't mean you didn't orgasm. But I would second Brite. If you really want that, go for a while without physically ejaculating and see what happens. Really interesting, I'll take it. I've always thought of a male orgasms as an orgasm + ejaculation combo and never thought just orgasm could be achieved without ejaculation (unless some type of medical problems), but I guess it's possible for one to forcibly withhold releasing. Very fascinating and something I will look into. 2 weeks starting today..

[Michael]

I would rather orgasm in dreams and wake up dry than with a mess. Anytime I've had a wet dream, I wake up mid-orgasm