Thread: Using the law of attraction to attract my soulmate?

You guys are still at this? I just wanted fall in love and get laid. Anyway, I believe in the soul for sound reasons, That are too abstract to be taken seriously by most people.

Why are we in the bodies we are in, Why aren't I you and why aren't you me. Ever asked yourself the following questions, "Why is that person born into royal family when I am but a lowly peasant". It's impossible to understand the nature of the soul if you don't contemplate such a question. You could've been anyone, But you're you.

An invention is never created using logic, But it always falls into the structure of logic - Albert Einstein (Or some other smart-ass). How can you debunk the LOA when you don't even know how it works?

Hell, Even Santa's existence could fall into the structure of logic. Everything that you could think of can exist because everything you can think of falls into the structures of 3 dimensional logic.

For example, Think about Cute reindeer with a swollen head raping a cookie monster while breathing fire into a gigantic mouse's butt hole Why'll hang gliding over the grand canyon which is being filled with a giant stoner holigraphic panda's piss.

I seriously believe this is 100% possible. Everything is possible.

You can get laid without falling in love, and I think its probably easier to fall in love if your not worried about getting laid.

That's not satisfying enough.

But why are you waiting, why are you pleading? In my opinion, if there are two things that stop manifestation from working, it's the belief that you need something in particular to get the feeling you want, and the attitude that causes "bargaining" with existence to make you just a little happier than you are now.

Don't be afraid to admit what you really want. A feeling, right? everything we want, we want because we perceive that it'll create a desirable feeling within us. If you can want it, that means you can already imagine the feeling. But then we let reality's little details inhibit us from feeling the satisfaction that's already within our grasp, simply from reveling in the desire itself.

Originally Posted by Original Poster

But why are you waiting, why are you pleading? In my opinion, if there are two things that stop manifestation from working, it's the belief that you need something in particular to get the feeling you want, and the attitude that causes "bargaining" with existence to make you just a little happier than you are now.

Don't be afraid to admit what you really want. A feeling, right? everything we want, we want because we perceive that it'll create a desirable feeling within us. If you can want it, that means you can already imagine the feeling. But then we let reality's little details inhibit us from feeling the satisfaction that's already within our grasp, simply from reveling in the desire itself.

We're are you getting at? Living in the moment takes alot of energy...My unused sexual energy.

Thread title is boring. I hereby request that it is changed to "Can wizard magic hook me up with a girl?"

Originally Posted by GavinGill

If you want to find your soul mate, you have to change your behavior and way of thinking until you become desirable in the eyes of your ideal mate. I can't hook up with my dream girl until I become the type of guy my dream girl would actually want to be with. I can think positively and visualize all I want, but it won't do shit unless I work hard to reach that goal as well.

Use the positive thinking to keep you focused on your goal, and use visualization to come up with ideas on how and where to meet the type of girl you're after (and to figure out what you need to do once you've met her). Run simulations in your head and constantly adjust, filter, and refine these simulations until you've got it down pat. You can learn almost as much about dating and relationships by simply running various simulations in your head, as you can by actually going out and doing so in the "real world."

This makes absolutely no sense, Why not just visualize a girl who likes you the way you are. If you don't ALREADY believe you are worthy than you aren't.

NO, You do not have to work hard to get want you want, That's BS. Everyone only says that because they lack the faith in loa and have to take their destiny in their own hands to some degree.

Why else would people be born into wealthy families even though they didn't work for it? I hear stories all the times about how some guy visualized a random girl he liked and forgot about his desire, The next day he effortlessly attracted the girl into his life. This isn't just a single story either, This has happened to many people many times. Also, Why do some people just find 100$ just lying on the ground a few days after visualizing and forgetting about how they wanted it so badly?

The method you're advising could actually kill the manifestation because you're aren't placing enough trust and faith in the universe and instead misplacing it into your own hands. You're also focusing on not having the object of your desire either.

I don't disagree with this method because, Working for your desire can actually be another way of telling universe hat you have faith it. It's just not the only way and if you think so than you're try to harness greater power that beyond your can't control.

Truth is, I don't have a high opinion of myself when it comes to attracting women. I've never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl, I've spent much of my adolescent life (Currently 16) masturbating each friday, saturday, and sunday night when I could out making friends or getting a girlfriend. Socially, I thought I was set because I'm an African-american and I was led to believe that my 6-inch penis and blunt vocabulary would ensure the lost of my virginity by the time I reached 14....But I was wrong....

Everyone I come into contact with hates my guts within 5 minutes of each conversation. I've deduced this to a few reasons:

1. I'm black, Which automatically predisposes me to impulsive and lack any sort of gratification deterrence. This combined with an average black-american IQ of 85 doesn't equate to good combination. A few months ago, The girl at school I had fallen in love with over the 3 year period rejected because of the fact I was black.

Can't blame her, No girl wants a black guy. Not even a black girl.

2. I'm Insane with a few drips and drops psychopathy,The other kids deem me very strange and weird. Mainly because of the way I speak, The rest of my family speaks in ebonics and I'm constantly being called "Whitie-washed muhfugga" because of it. I don't dress like the other kids, And I despise main-stream rap. Sometimes I wonder if they're white maybe I do despise my race and wish to become Asian/ White/ arab, etc....Any race with a civilized culture and evolved mental capacity.

3. My social skills suck, This is a side-effect if being black. I lack the intelligence have an pro-longed intellectual conversation with anyone other than a border-line retard.

I've found 3 solutions to my problem: 1. Artificially increase my intelligence 2. You subliminal messaging to change the way I perceive myself, Perceive others, And perceive the world which will enable to manifest the things I want out of life. 3. I need to stop masturbating (Self-explanatory).

Originally Posted by Marvo

Thread title is boring. I hereby request that it is changed to "Can wizard magic hook me up with a girl?"

This isn't hairy ass potter, This is real factual catshit proven by science.

Originally Posted by yondaime109

This is real factual catshit proven by science.

No it's not.

Originally Posted by yondaime109

This isn't hairy ass potter, This is real factual catshit proven by science.

Where did you read that - on an LOA website?

Originally Posted by yondaime109

NO, You do not have to work hard to get want you want,

Why did you make this thread if what you desire requires no effort?

Why else would people be born into wealthy families even though they didn't work for it? I hear stories all the times about how some guy visualized a random girl he liked and forgot about his desire, The next day he effortlessly attracted the girl into his life. This isn't just a single story either, This has happened to many people many times. Also, Why do some people just find 100$ just lying on the ground a few days after visualizing and forgetting about how they wanted it so badly?

Random things happen, you could call it "luck". The idea you posted about earlier, the "Why am I me, and not you?" question is interesting, but it does not in any way prove destiny or the law of attraction or anything really, it's just an interesting philosophical idea. Everybody wants to find $100 lying on the ground, so if the law of attraction really works, we should all be finding dollar bills constantly. But this doesn't happen. In fact it's pretty damn rare and it would be considered incredibly lucky. Not to mention; the law of attraction would be a real prick to that one guy who dropped the $100?

I don't disagree with this method because, Working for your desire can actually be another way of telling universe hat you have faith it. It's just not the only way and if you think so than you're try to harness greater power that beyond your can't control.

Aren't you working for it by posting a thread about it?

What you've gotta do is cut the pseudo-science overly complicated unnecessary universe-bending and start trying to do things that make sense. Come down to Earth. The thing is, if you improve your social skills, if you get more confidence and stop thinking of yourself as a strange, insane and unintelligent person, then you'll be well on your way. The ironic thing about this is that in my head, doing whatever you can to improve your situation is the law of attraction. Don't you see that you can do both things at once? Actually working for it will put it in the very front of your mind, the focus will be so much clearer due to there being active goals and things you're working for. So go and do things and if you really must insist you can think to yourself "I might be actually working for it now but I'm still using loa at the same time."

Proper use of LOA includes effort it just reassigns that effort to your attitude more than your actions. Having an attitude where you feel grateful, completely at peace, secure, excited, etc takes effort. You have to wake up every morning and start counting things your grateful for, you have to sing in the shower, you have to eat real food, you have to see through daily frustrations and retain good feelings in spite of the problems surrounding you. Most importantly you have to know what it is you actually want, and most of us don't.

That's a lot of effort, there's no easy way about it. But it's effort put to much better use than working your ass off on actions while carrying a shitty attitude. Joy is the most efficient way to proceed.

Originally Posted by Original Poster

Proper use of LOA includes effort it just reassigns that effort to your attitude more than your actions. Having an attitude where you feel grateful, completely at peace, secure, excited, etc takes effort. You have to wake up every morning and start counting things your grateful for, you have to sing in the shower, you have to eat real food, you have to see through daily frustrations and retain good feelings in spite of the problems surrounding you. Most importantly you have to know what it is you actually want, and most of us don't.

That's a lot of effort, there's no easy way about it. But it's effort put to much better use than working your ass off on actions while carrying a shitty attitude. Joy is the most efficient way to proceed.

That doesn't sound like LOA. It just sounds like trying to be as positive as possible and being grateful. I don't know if I agree with the attitude that it's helpful to just "ignore" problems and being joyous regardlessly, but I do agree that knowing what you want is important. But that isn't really LOA is it? The OP already knows what he wants, he just doesn't want to do anything other than using the LOA.

I imagine that there has to be a balance. The attitude you're describing reminds me a bit of my dad's outlook, and there was a time where mine and his perspectives were direct contrasts: He felt, like you (if I understand correctly), that I needed to focus on the good things and try to see through the problems and just ride it out that way, while I felt like the problems had to be in focus in order for them to be fixed; something needed to happen or I needed to do something in order for it to change.

But now I just think we need to balance it out. Ignoring problems is bad and so is spending all your time ruing them. Just go do, try things, and try to be positive but if you feel sad then that's ok too.

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Just you wait fellas, One day I'll use these techniques to be the greatest genius that ever lived!!!

Originally Posted by Maeni

That doesn't sound like LOA. It just sounds like trying to be as positive as possible and being grateful. I don't know if I agree with the attitude that it's helpful to just "ignore" problems and being joyous regardlessly, but I do agree that knowing what you want is important. But that isn't really LOA is it? The OP already knows what he wants, he just doesn't want to do anything other than using the LOA.

I imagine that there has to be a balance. The attitude you're describing reminds me a bit of my dad's outlook, and there was a time where mine and his perspectives were direct contrasts: He felt, like you (if I understand correctly), that I needed to focus on the good things and try to see through the problems and just ride it out that way, while I felt like the problems had to be in focus in order for them to be fixed; something needed to happen or I needed to do something in order for it to change.

But now I just think we need to balance it out. Ignoring problems is bad and so is spending all your time ruing them. Just go do, try things, and try to be positive but if you feel sad then that's ok too.

It is actually LOA because LOA basically means circumstances will justify the way you feel. So if you stay positive, circumstances you like will recur more and circumstances you dislike will recur less.

But look at the philosophy behind it, because the philosophy is what I take to heart. One rule of thumb in LOA is that in 5 years your income will be the average of your 5 closest friends. If you surround yourself with people who have what you want, you will begin to obtain what you want. And you don't even need to believe in LOA, all you need to believe is that 90% of your learning is unconscious, you adapt to the habits of the people you see the most, so if you surround yourself with good examples you will slowly learn to do what they do, without even realizing it.

I'm still failing to capture the philosophy, please bear with me. I can identify that the person I was 5 years ago had certain wants and goals, as well as certain fears. All of these things transpired, and I realize that the things weren't what made me happy, the desire for those things did. Because the experiences themselves all had to end, amazing as they were. Even using the LOA to attract possessions, you'll still lose those possessions when you die.

Once you understand impermanence, then you can really start to use LOA to your advantage, because you can realize all your problems will go away 5-10 years down the line. By that time, if you choose to subscribe to the belief in LOA, you can choose to know that you will have gotten everything you want. It's not that difficult to stay positive when you go ahead and remove the pressure of wanting everything right now. You can just know you'll get it, and enjoy the inevitable ride to that place. You can see through your current tribulations knowing that they're temporary and imagining yourself however many years in the future you have to imagine to put yourself in the mindset where all your problems are over.

Then, on top of that, you can know that despite the fact that you'll get everything you wanted eventually, you can't keep any of those things or experiences. But you put up a big fuss right now because you feel the lack of those things. And yet you can't keep them anyways, and it's not like anything will really change after you experience or have them. You won't get to just turn on happy for the rest of your life, at least not if your happiness is dependent on things.

Then you realize the secret to life is to just be happy for no reason. Whether or not you should strive for action, all your actions can do is bring about some temporary satisfaction which will wane eventually. There isn't anything in particular to accomplish to give your life meaning. And that, in a nutshell, is absurdism. No meaning, no point, nothing left to get upset about, nothing left to feel the lack of. Because it's all just a ride and every single person's ride ends the same way. I'm not saying I don't do stuff at all except bask in happiness for the point of itself. It's really taught me to simply pursue things I enjoy doing, and once you get in that mindset suddenly things that should seem like work are not anymore, you can find joy in nearly everything. Even if the task at hand just bitterly sucks, you can still tap into a peaceful state of acceptance rather than add on frustration to an already frustrating predicament.

There are still actions to perform, one does not practice LOA in order to get something without doing anything. If you use LOA to get a girlfriend, you might find lots and lots of girls around that want your dick but you still have to talk to them and you're not saved any of the turbulence that comes from a relationship. If you want a good job, you may get great job offers and opportunities all around you but you still have to turn in the resume and do the duties required by that job. Some jobs require work, and while the LOA can keep the work flowing the work won't do itself.

But keeping a positive attitude makes it so it doesn't seem like work. As they say, do what you love and you won't work a day in your life. This positive attitude works like a snowball, and it builds up until you're excited to get up every morning just to cook breakfast for your shitty kids because it simply feels good to be alive. Things that used to suck no longer do.

And I do agree with your point about the OP's apparent intention. It's not that I don't think you can attract a mate with LOA, but a soulmate? What the fuck do you want a soulmate for? People like soulmates because they remove fear from the relationship. Because if you're soulmates, you're meant to be, so there's no way to fuck things up. But I like fear. It's there for a reason.

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I'm currently rereading Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. The PDF is easy to find online, and I recommend it.

Originally Posted by Original Poster

I'm currently rereading Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. The PDF is easy to find online, and I recommend it.

I bought the book a few weeks ago, It's very effective. Especially the sexual transmutation part. I really hate pdf's The have terrific content but you can only read it while on the computer and it's very easy to get distracted on the internet

If you don't have to will power to read how do you expect to cling to an idea long and hard enough to manifest it?

Originally Posted by Original Poster

If you don't have to will power to read how do you expect to cling to an idea long and hard enough to manifest it?

Why waste my willpower on something that I'm not even passionate about? That's hell. I only dedicate my willpower to my passions.

To each his own. I'm passionate about achieving my passions, so I'm passionate about doing things that increase my ability to achieve my passions.

Originally Posted by Original Poster

To each his own. I'm passionate about achieving my passions, so I'm passionate about doing things that increase my ability to achieve my passions.

How will reading a book on obtaining money help me obtain a girlfriend? I'm 16 so money isn't really a big deal for me. It could come in handy though, I do intend to read the book and apply it.

My current problem with loa is that I lack faith and trust in the concept, But I'm starting to finally notice some manifestations. I've been listening to this video

And I've really had some positive results. Today during chemisty I almost "unloaded" myself when a girl wouldn't stop trying to rub against me.

Dude - LOA might GET you a girlfriend, but if you want to keep her, you're gonna need the money..

Originally Posted by yondaime109

How will reading a book on obtaining money help me obtain a girlfriend? I'm 16 so money isn't really a big deal for me. It could come in handy though, I do intend to read the book and apply it.

My current problem with loa is that I lack faith and trust in the concept, But I'm starting to finally notice some manifestations. I've been listening to this video

And I've really had some positive results. Today during chemisty I almost "unloaded" myself when a girl wouldn't stop trying to rub against me.

Teachability, nigga. You need more of it. That's step one to LOA. You cannot keep thinking the way you've always thought, and you cannot continue acting the way you've always acted. If you desire it, the universe will provide you the lessons, but if you want to be a musician, you still have to learn to play the guitar.

EDIT: Also please don't be offended by my use of the word nigga. I was just going for a "diversify yo bonds nigga!" kind of thing.