Quote Originally Posted by sprada View Post
I can be really persistent when I want something so motivation is not an issue.
The thing is.. looking at my DJ I feel that by now a DILD should have worked. I mean, there's is so much weird stuff going on. It should be enough..
That bolded text above is why you will succeed. My first LD was accidental. After that, it took me two months of trying and trying and trying to LD to succeed. So there's rule #1, which I think you'll have covered: keep showing up.

Don't feel bad about missing dreamsigns. Even super experienced lucid dreamers miss dreamsigns all the time. Fortunately, our brains present us with hundreds and hundreds of potential dreamsigns throughout the night. All it takes is one!

The biggest LD breakthrough for me was WBTB. How do you currently have this structured? It sounds like you're using alarms. When the alarm goes off, what do you do? Do you immediately try to go back to sleep and induce? Or do you stay up for a while and quietly think about lucid dreaming? I got my best results with a WBTB of 30 minutes or more, although shorter can work too. I'd suggest experimenting with what works best for you and keeping good records for you to review later. You'll be glad that you did!

Good luck and keep us up to date on how you do!