Hey! Welcome to dv, you'll meet lots of cool people here. Don't worry about your WILD attempt, don't see it as a failure, see it as a learning experience.

Sleep cycles usually occur in 90 minute intervals, REM usually being the last part, so just add 10 minutes to when you go to bed (10 is the average it takes people to fall asleep, if you know how long it takes you to sleep, then use that number) after that go by 90 minute intervals. If you don't wake up from a dream cycle then, slightly adjust your time until you get it, 90 isn't a perfect number since all people are different, so chances are that you may need a bit of experimenting.

Sorry, I didn't quite understand your first question so I can't be of much help.

Being adopted is a great idea, finding someone to focus on you.

Overall, you seem off to a great start. Keeping up a dj is probably the most important part, so continue with that. My advice to you is to do reality checks whenever something seems off and stay positive!

I wish you the best of luck, and if you need any more help, feel free to ask- not just me but anyone here. I promise, most of us don't bite.