My mom read my DJ once. It was the most embarassing thing I've ever had happen to me. xD

Anyways. Considering it can take months for some people, I'd say you're doing great. Although it does differ from person to person. For instance, it took me a few months to WILD but some people can do it on their first night after learning about it.

Work on your awareness, more than just doing routine reality checks. Trust me, it's the awareness and the constant 'hmm, I could be dreaming RIGHT NOW' that creates lucidity. Reality checks are just for making sure you're dreaming.

Congrads on the lucidity =D