365 days w/o Jerking Off: A self control challenge

**Carrot** · 05-21-2012 07:00 PM

Originally Posted by Wolfwood

I think you just told me with that.

I'm different from them.

Or maybe they do know.

A friend of mine wasn't sure whether she likes a guy, although friend told her to imagine herself kissing him and her cheeks went red. I wanted to tell her to imagine having sex with him but I doubt she understands.

**Wolfwood** · 05-21-2012 07:06 PM

I was referring to men. Men are into it from a very early age. Also, as you've all said: a man potentially 2-3 times a day, and a woman 2-3 times a week. Equivalently, in a month that is 8-12 times a month you've gotta abstain, and for a man that is abstaining from 54 to 84 times. So adjusted... you should abstain for around 6 months...

**Carrot** · 05-21-2012 07:08 PM

Originally Posted by Wolfwood

I was referring to men. As you've all said: a man potentially 2-3 times a day, and a woman 2-3 times a week. Equivalently, in a month that is 8-12 times a month you've gotta abstain, and for a man that is abstaining from 54 to 84 times. So adjusted... you should abstain for around 6 months...

I wouldn't feel like doing it ever again if I abstained for so long. That's why I didn't.

Imagine one month of abstain had me cut down to once per week/2 weeks, what would 6 months do.

**Wolfwood** · 05-21-2012 07:09 PM

I'm just being deliberately facetious. Though it's quite mad when you calculate how many times a month I'd do it...damn.

**~~Alyzarin~~** · 05-21-2012 07:10 PM

Originally Posted by Wolfwood

I was referring to men. Men are into it from a very early age. Also, as you've all said: a man potentially 2-3 times a day, and a woman 2-3 times a week. Equivalently, in a month that is 8-12 times a month you've gotta abstain, and for a man that is abstaining from 54 to 84 times. So adjusted... you should abstain for around 6 months...

**Wolfwood** · 05-21-2012 07:14 PM

Originally Posted by Alyzarin

lol or adjusted, I should abstain for 4 days.

**Carrot** · 05-21-2012 07:15 PM

Originally Posted by Wolfwood

lol or adjusted, I should abstain for 4 days.

Not much of a challenger huh?

**Wolfwood** · 05-21-2012 07:16 PM

Originally Posted by Carrot

Not much of a challenger huh?

Hey hey, I'm on the 7th day and counting here. 14-21 sessions aborted. So let's see first.

**Phion** · 05-21-2012 07:18 PM

Originally Posted by Wolfwood

aborted

ouch

**Wolfwood** · 05-21-2012 07:19 PM

Originally Posted by Phion

ouch

Haha, nice insight.

**littlezoe** · 05-21-2012 07:21 PM

Originally Posted by Wolfwood

I was referring to men. Men are into it from a very early age. Also, as you've all said: a man potentially 2-3 times a day, and a woman 2-3 times a week. Equivalently, in a month that is 8-12 times a month you've gotta abstain, and for a man that is abstaining from 54 to 84 times. So adjusted... you should abstain for around 6 months...

Is 1/day bad for a girl? xD

**Wolfwood** · 05-21-2012 07:26 PM

Originally Posted by littlezoe

Is 1/day bad for a girl? xD

You absolute sex fiend.

**Carrot** · 05-21-2012 07:28 PM

Originally Posted by Wolfwood

You absolute sex fiend.

You just repeated that twice lols.

**littlezoe** · 05-21-2012 07:28 PM

Originally Posted by Wolfwood

You absolute sex fiend.

Um...

This challenge might do good to me if i can keep it up

I feel like it's too much... but it's mostly because i used it to relieve stress...

**Wolfwood** · 05-21-2012 07:31 PM

Originally Posted by littlezoe

Um...

This challenge might do good to me if i can keep it up

Naa, I've not the faintest idea about the frequency of female masturbation. I like how you asked me though lol.

Just checking, apparently, in a general sense (for male and female) - 3-5 times a week is considered 'normal'.

**littlezoe** · 05-21-2012 07:32 PM

Originally Posted by Wolfwood

Naa, I've not the faintest idea about the frequency of female masturbation. I like how you asked me though lol.

Just checking, apparently, in a general sense (for male and female) - 3-5 times a week is considered 'normal'.

Well i quoted you because you were the one bringing up frequencies xD

**Wolfwood** · 05-21-2012 07:37 PM

I think I'm gonna be the last man standing. *ooo fight talk from Wolfwod in the red corner*

**Arra** · 05-21-2012 07:38 PM

I'm sure it will depend on the girl, time of month, stress level, etc.

Whenever I've tried to do anything like this my productivity has plummeted. After a certain point, it's almost impossible to keep my mind from going back to sexual stuff while I'm supposed to be doing other things and that can waste hours, so it doesn't seem worth it. Does no one else find this?

**littlezoe** · 05-21-2012 07:40 PM

Originally Posted by Dianeva

I'm sure it will depend on the girl, time of month, stress level, etc.

Whenever I've tried to do anything like this my productivity has plummeted. After a certain point, it's almost impossible to keep my mind from going back to sexual stuff while I'm supposed to be doing other things and that can waste hours, so it doesn't seem worth it. Does no one else find this?

I got that feeling too after a while, but i try to fight it o.o Maybe it'll be better later...

**~~Alyzarin~~** · 05-21-2012 07:45 PM

Originally Posted by Dianeva

I'm sure it will depend on the girl, time of month, stress level, etc.

Whenever I've tried to do anything like this my productivity has plummeted. After a certain point, it's almost impossible to keep my mind from going back to sexual stuff while I'm supposed to be doing other things and that can waste hours, so it doesn't seem worth it. Does no one else find this?

How long have you kept it up for? That just sounds like the initial dopamine withdrawal, which you'd have to get past to get to the positive benefits.

**Wolfwood** · 05-21-2012 07:48 PM

Originally Posted by Alyzarin

How long have you kept it up for? That just sounds like the initial dopamine withdrawal, which you'd have to get past to get to the positive benefits.

I get a surging energy in my abdomen.

**Spyguy** · 05-21-2012 10:02 PM

Ofcourse abstaining will get you sexual thoughts, but I never had them so bad that I can't focus on other stuff. Abstaining actually makes me more focussed, yet much fuller of energy at the same time. It's amazing IMO.
And by the way, I don't think 2-3 times per day is normal for a male. I'd put the average around 3-4 per week

Doing it much more than that is unhealthy. It's not uncommon nowadays though, thanks to certain websites

**Wolfwood** · 05-21-2012 10:37 PM

Yeah, 3-5 times a week is normal for both genders apparently. Clearly I was...or am, addicted. Let's see how this goes first.

I really must get rid of the websites on my iPhone. Damn technology making it even easier.

**Carrot** · 05-21-2012 10:40 PM

Originally Posted by Wolfwood

Yeah, 3-5 times a week is normal for both genders apparently. Clearly I was...or am, addicted. Let's see how this goes first.

I really must get rid of the websites on my iPhone. Damn technology making it even easier.

*Takes iPhone and throws it away*

There problem solved. Don't try getting yourself another smartphone or tablet.

**Spyguy** · 05-22-2012 12:25 PM

Originally Posted by Wolfwood

Yeah, 3-5 times a week is normal for both genders apparently. Clearly I was...or am, addicted. Let's see how this goes first.

I really must get rid of the websites on my iPhone. Damn technology making it even easier.

Haha, perhaps it's a good thing you were addicted. It makes this challenge more interesting and intense for you

I kind of sound like a freak when I talk about the amazingness of this stuff lol.
By the way, it's kind of funny how this challenge is long since over and we totally hijacked this thread