Thread: 365 days w/o Jerking Off: A self control challenge

Originally Posted by Carrot

But I still think it's the thought of refraining that's making me crazy, not the actual act of doing it.

Hmm... But I still have no idea did I do it in my sleep.

Yes, if one stops thinking about it all the time, it definitely becomes easier. And doing it in your sleep doesn't mean failure. After all, even if you did, there is no way you could've stopped it, and you held back all the concious fapping for a month

Originally Posted by Spyguy

Yes, if one stops thinking about it all the time, it definitely becomes easier. And doing it in your sleep doesn't mean failure. After all, even if you did, there is no way you could've stopped it, and you held back all the concious fapping for a month

Well at least I know I didn't reach orgasm in my sleep.

What I meant about the thought of refraining was something that I've told you earlier in this thread. Where I sustained two weeks before coming to this thread and said I'm in this challenge. The mindset I had was to just go on as long as possible, no goal and anything, without proclaiming to anyone, that's why it was easier.

Originally Posted by Carrot

Well at least I know I didn't reach orgasm in my sleep.

What I meant about the thought of refraining was something that I've told you earlier in this thread. Where I sustained two weeks before coming to this thread and said I'm in this challenge. The mindset I had was to just go on as long as possible, no goal and anything, without proclaiming to anyone, that's why it was easier.

My theory was that setting a goal was the best way to go. I hate to see it proven wrong Suppose that's what happens to theories though, they get owned by better ones. Good going either way

Originally Posted by Spyguy

My theory was that setting a goal was the best way to go. I hate to see it proven wrong Suppose that's what happens to theories though, they get owned by better ones. Good going either way

Goals never work on me. Just gives me extra pressure. But that's just me.