Thread: What does it feel like to be...straight?

Originally Posted by Myke Gregory

I find my girlfriend sexually attractive (VERY sexually attractive, even thinking about it makes me want to her. lol).

Man, I never knew there was an emoticon for that! Shame on you, internet lol.

Originally Posted by ColdCrisis

Im offensive and i find this hetero...

wat is this i dont even.

I think I'm a heterophobe. Even the thought of a vagina makes me nauseous.

I prefer it banana style.

Originally Posted by Carrot

You aren't the only one. But mine is mostly for the reason of fitting in into the crowd. To have lesser people telling you everyday you're too young to know. Ironic when it's the scenario of a girl telling others she has a crush on a guy, and all the adults will give her suggestions on what to do.

Now I'm stuck in a contradictory fix, I find being heterosexual uncomfortable and I find being homosexual uncomfortable because I don't dare to face my feelings, knowing very well if I sink too deep into it, it will lead me into another round of depression. But I roughly know how being a heterosexual feels like for girls; girls usually they like being protected by their guy and it seems most girls will accept a guy if the guy treats her well. Just seem that the guy treating girls well seem to be the main reason why girls are attracted to them. There's the good-looking factor too but it applies for every sexuality usually.

Don't let the haters get you down. If you're old enough to be attracted to someone, you're old enough to figure out your sexuality. (How old are you if you don't mind me asking?) In fact, some people would envy you. It took me many years to figure out and accept my sexuality. I didn't come out to my parents until I was 27! I wish I had it all figured out and was open with everyone about it from an early age.

Why do you have trouble facing your feelings? Do you live somewhere that is really unaccepting of your homosexuality?

Originally Posted by anderj101

Hahaha, I didn't notice the scared banana at first, that totally made my night.

Originally Posted by hermine_hesse

Don't let the haters get you down. If you're old enough to be attracted to someone, you're old enough to figure out your sexuality. (How old are you if you don't mind me asking?) In fact, some people would envy you. It took me many years to figure out and accept my sexuality. I didn't come out to my parents until I was 27! I wish I had it all figured out and was open with everyone about it from an early age.

Why do you have trouble facing your feelings? Do you live somewhere that is really unaccepting of your homosexuality?

20 this year. I decided to accept it when I was 19.

I live in an Asian country. That probably explains why it's not so acceptable. Most people are pretending they are cool with it here but I believe they still lack understanding of it.

Originally Posted by greenhavoc

You said you were a bi-mo, though. This to me suggest that your only use for any woman you've ever been with was sex. Are you admitting to everyone here at DV that you only use women for pleasure?

I don't know, maybe it's that you just have a problem controlling your sexual impulses. I mean, you're obviously a fairy, so why would have sex with a woman?

For your health!

youre bad at forums

Originally Posted by ♥Mark

youre bad at forums

I don't understand, is Moose a chick?

Originally Posted by greenhavoc

You said you were a bi-mo, though

I used to think so. And @ your later post, nah I'm a male physically, and sorta both mentally. But mostly just a gay guy, that has the occaisonal strong feminine feeling, I just like the both genders symbol I'm also a virgin, so no impulses were fulfilled.

Originally Posted by mooseantlers

I'm also a virgin, so no impulses were fulfilled.

oops, sorry bout that. i was only half serious

Originally Posted by mooseantlers

I used to think so. And @ your later post, nah I'm a male physically, and sorta both mentally. But mostly just a gay guy, that has the occaisonal strong feminine feeling, I just like the both genders symbol I'm also a virgin, so no impulses were fulfilled.

Now I know! I thought you were a transgender.

Is it weird that it feels like there's disproportionate number of homosexual people replying to this thread? I would think more straight people would reply since there are more straight people in the world....

You find it hard to describe what you like about men, and in the same way, we find it hard to explain what we like about women. I would love to explain it to you, but I'm afraid that I can't.

Originally Posted by Spyguy

You find it hard to describe what you like about men, and in the same way, we find it hard to explain what we like about women. I would love to explain it to you, but I'm afraid that I can't.

You mean other than sex?

Originally Posted by DestFinis

Is it weird that it feels like there's disproportionate number of homosexual people replying to this thread? I would think more straight people would reply since there are more straight people in the world....

>Implying Dreamviews is part of the world.

But yeah, it's a little strange. Maybe it's because straight people don't think about it. They haven't faced haters because of their heterosexuality, so it's probably a lot more rare for a heterosexual to have reflected deeply over their own attractions, so maybe that's why so few of them actually want to go into the thread in the first place.
Maybe?

Or maybe DV's just super gay <3

Well, DV does have a high percentage of homo- and bisexuals, as can be seen HERE

Originally Posted by Taosaur

Or maybe DV's just super gay <3

Originally Posted by Spyguy

Well, DV does have a high percentage of homo- and bisexuals, as can be seen HERE

I feel left out when I can't place my vote anywhere
It's pretty cool though, to me it feels like Dreamviews just has a bit of everything. And not just limited to sexualities either, just a lot of different kinds of people.

<3

You're all so cute, with your "only boys" and "only girls" stuff. Must suck.

you're gross

Originally Posted by DestFinis

Gay guy here. I just CANNOT for the life of me find women sexually attractive. No matter how much I look at them, pictures, videos, real life, etc., I just can't find myself having a girlfriend/wife. ...I can't even jerk-off to women. For as long as I've known, I've only found men sexually attractive. There's no way else I can describe it.

I'm just asking how YOU, straight guys, can find it possible to like women. Don't be afraid to be specific either.

Girls are welcome to contribute, obviously.

Just think of the inverse of what you said. There is no how, no thought between the observer and the object of attraction. A woman is an unconditioned provocative stimulus. Why? She just is.

A loud bang is an equally unconditioned provocative stimulus. Why? It just is.

Spoiler for Unless...:

Unless you wish to venture into evolutionary ad-hoc, inductive arguments, of course. Though these arguments are anthropic and 'just-so'...

I don't really see the issue here - you're attracted to men, and I to women. Does how and why matter? No possible answer will change the fact that I like women, and you like men. ^_^

Pretty silly question. The answer why straight guys like women is the same answer as to why you like men.

Originally Posted by Grod

Pretty silly question. The answer why straight guys like women is the same answer as to why you like men.

Which is no reason at all.