Thread: Boy ask Girl/Girl ask Boy

Originally Posted by Adam

WTF? Since when has it been the guys responsibility?? Damn that's a pretty stupid view lol - For a start how is the girl, or the guy for that matter to know the other one is interested? If a girl is interested in a guy she should ask him!

Finally someone agrees with me on this forum!

Originally Posted by aceofspades

if hes too shy than the guy is simply SOL.

If you want a girl just go for it. Whats the worst that can happen. Learn to take rejection. If you ask 30 girls out and one says yes your still ahead of the guy that has noone.

I mean its not like a girl is going do anything to you. I asked a girl out a year ago and to this day we are still best friends. I got her to go out with my best friend and she just introduced me to her best friend and now we are just starting a relationship.

Besides I enjoy freindship with girls. I text her all the time and we just talk about how ADD we are and how hilarious it is. We may not have never worked out but we turned out to be better off as friends.

All this just because I was brave enough to ask her out and brave enough to brush off her rejection. And now i just asked out her best friend. SO like i said all worked out.

Easy for you to say, it's hard for an average guy to understand what it feels like to some of those few guys who just find it pretty much impossible sometimes.

Originally Posted by Xaqaria

To be honest, I turn the tables on a lot of women. I'm not shy, I just know that any girl that is worth my time would be willing to just come and talk to me if she wants to. I rarely approach girls and I am rarely dissapointed. I don't need to be cocky, because I can be honestly confident that women will come up and talk to me. If a girl smiles at me and then turns back to her friends, I know she is the exact type of girl that I don't want anything to do with.

I wouldnt care if you were Brad Pitt, i still wouldnt make the first move,
so i guess you and i just arent meant for each other.

and btw, confidence has nothing to do with it at all because i have enough confidence for
ten women. As a matter of fact, its probably my confidence that stops me from going up
to a guy....but you know, im mostly talking about being in a bar...in a bar i wont ask
a guy to dance or whatever, but at a party ill talk to anyone, im not adverse to that. Most
times i want to talk to the guy who isnt talking much, see if he wants to talk, but as far
as hitting on a guy....id never do it.

Originally Posted by Everlong

Damn right. I've fallen for too many of those chicks that make you think that you can have them, but in reality, its never going to happen.

God damn, the feeling of rejection is like being shut in a freezer after being stabbed in the heart.

Well what is it exactly that you call rejection? Is it that the girl wont even
talk to you, or dance with you, or doesnt end up going home with you?
Maybe youre too young for the latter but id like to know exactly what is
rejection in your experience?

Originally Posted by aceofspades

you know i don't completely agree with you but your probobly in a different situation than I am...me being in younger.

But you do make a very good point. Rejection is definitely not anything to be feared.

It shouldnt be at all! If you ask a girl out for coffee or whatever and she
says no she cant...well there could be a very good reason for that, sometimes
a girl will explain. If the girl is mean about it then shes a bitch anyway.
Never be afraid to 'hunt', sooner or later youll find what youre looking for.
If youre not the big, handsome, dangerous-type kind of guy that most girls
stupidly want, then use your sense of humor...you guys are all pretty funny
in here...im mean dont act stupid or anything...just relax and be yourself!
I always love to talk to a guy who can make me laugh!

btw where did puppycat go? Maybe you have other feelings on these matters.

ok I have a question for guys......Is it easy for a guy who is in love with his
girlfriend/wife to cheat on her, if a pretty, willing girl hits on him?

Originally Posted by Adam

WTF? Since when has it been the guys responsibility?? Damn that's a pretty stupid view lol - For a start how is the girl, or the guy for that matter to know the other one is interested? If a girl is interested in a guy she should ask him!

I agree 100%!! She should if she wants to! Theres nothing wrong with that.
I myself wont, but thats just me.
Most girls nowadays are more forward though, but what if a girl you like
doesnt come up to you....its either do or dont...

supreme, there is no need to multi-post.

It's pretty sad if it's an attempt to increase your post count.

You earn respect on this forum - you don't get it free for a high post count.

Just edit your post if you want to say something else.

Sorry....i was just answering different posts. Believe me...i couldnt give
two flying fks about post count....Does anyone....really?? And if you
dont respect me then what can i do about it anyway?

Originally Posted by supreme

Sorry....i was just answering different posts. Believe me...i couldnt give
two flying fks about post count....Does anyone....really?? And if you
dont respect me then what can i do about it anyway?

Pay us ten easy payments of $19.99 and we'll respect you.

Originally Posted by supreme

You think it has something to do with sexual pleasure, but it really has
something to do with a mans 'unconscious' need for as many offspring as
possible. Shapes and sizes mean healthy child-bearing women. lol

Actually, we have an unconscious and conscious desire to have sex as many times as possible with women we find attractive. If we had a desire to have as many offspring as possible, then we wouldn't use protection quite so often.

Because we evolved with an image of features we find attractive that supposedly indicate a healthy woman, we choose these features more often. So even though they are useless, they will become more prominent.

To reproduce, we have sex. We evolved so we would desire sexual pleasure and proceed to have sex. As a result we have babies. A lot of women hit a period in their life when they really, really want babies. I'd call that an unconscious desire to have children.

The problem with your logic is that you're making connections between two things (desire for offspring and desire for sex) that are completely separate but have the same result. Basically saying that "humans desire sex therefore humans desire offspring because both end with babies" is a false analogy...but something tells me that's not what you'd call it XD

Originally Posted by CoLd BlooDed

Someone's not very comfortable with themselves. Those could be tighter as well there, young buck.

I've always been an assman, my whole life, I don't know why or how it developed - I just love behinds.

That was a joke. Honestly though, those look uncomfortable.

Originally Posted by Adam

Fixed.

Generally speaking.

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And about all this "Which sex asks who?" crap: Whatever works, works. Everyone is different. Some guys let girls come to them, others go hunting. It's fine if you've made the personal choice not to chase girls. Just realize that you are limiting yourself to a very narrow group of girls who have the guts to ask you out instead. A lot of the girls here at my highschool are way too shy or insecure to chase a guy.

This is how modern relationships work: You try out a girl/guy. If it doesn't work for you, you break it off and find someone who is better to you. You do this over and over and over until you find someone you really like and want to marry. If they like you back, they will marry you and you'll live happily ever after.

Originally Posted by Xaqaria

To be honest, I turn the tables on a lot of women. I'm not shy, I just know that any girl that is worth my time would be willing to just come and talk to me if she wants to. I rarely approach girls and I am rarely dissapointed. I don't need to be cocky, because I can be honestly confident that women will come up and talk to me. If a girl smiles at me and then turns back to her friends, I know she is the exact type of girl that I don't want anything to do with.

But don't you see? That's the exact type of reasoning females employ when searching for males.

I think that neither of the sexes should be afraid of going up to each other. Both men and women should take the initiative and go for it.

Lawl. This thread is getting pretty popular. Usually when I go up to a guy and tell him I like him, he laughs or pretends he doesn't like me.

Question- Is it hot for a girl to make out with a girl? Why?
Question- Where can you watch porn w/o downloading it :3

Originally Posted by puppycat

Lawl. This thread is getting pretty popular. Usually when I go up to a guy and tell him I like him, he laughs or pretends he doesn't like me.

Question- Is it hot for a girl to make out with a girl? Why?
Question- Where can you watch porn w/o downloading it :3

I wouldn't laugh. Believe me.

Answer - Yes. Because it's taboo. Actually, two guys also turn me on.
Answer - I'll pm you because I think this goes against the rules.

Originally Posted by puppycat

Lawl. This thread is getting pretty popular. Usually when I go up to a guy and tell him I like him, he laughs or pretends he doesn't like me.

Question- Is it hot for a girl to make out with a girl? Why?
Question- Where can you watch porn w/o downloading it :3

In my case for the first question, if I see a guy and a girl make out, or do it, I can either enjoy the fact that the woman is sexually stimulating the male, which I'd be getting turned on by a male being sexually stimulated, or I can look at the female being turned on (and I hardly do that because I'm sadly not one of those guys who think it is hot just to see a woman stimulated), which is like enjoying male given pleasure, or I can just enjoy the fact that the girl is naked, but there is a naked guy right next to her. So it helps to remove all that trouble by just putting another girl in the guys place, and then I can actually enjoy the fact that the woman is actually being turned on, because it is from a female.

Oh and another question

I know there is guys who get turned on by the sight of a woman getting an orgasm, but do girls get turned on when I guy has one? I had a friend who liked the idea a lot of just giving a girl an orgasm, and I was the total opposite (probably because it usualy comes from a male, and I think very deeply into this stuff ).

Queastion - "Why do i feel superior to everyone."

Answer - "Because only you are cool enough to Answer your own question, Oh hell yeah your awsome, Stay Beautiful!"

Originally Posted by puppycat

Lawl. This thread is getting pretty popular. Usually when I go up to a guy and tell him I like him, he laughs or pretends he doesn't like me.

Question- Is it hot for a girl to make out with a girl? Why?
Question- Where can you watch porn w/o downloading it :3

Q: Don't ask me.
Q: How old are you? lol

Question- Is it hot for a girl to make out with a girl? Why?
Question- Where can you watch porn w/o downloading it :3

1. Naw. Because I can't relate to it. I could never get that, it's just discouraging. I need to relate somewhat to be turned on. Maybe that's why German chicks turn me on more than most other Europeans. 'Cause I speak some German. I don't know. Anyway, for me that's a no.

I know some people don't like another guy being there, so they can more fully appreciate the girl(s.) Well, I say just remove the 2nd party entirley and have the girl do a hot strip routine.

Sex is kind of personal for me anyway. It's awkward to watc other people do it. Better to just see her naked. (Though my ethics prohibit me form soliciting either. Dang...)

2. Couldn't say. Last time I googled something even mildly sexual I got hit with AV09.

~

I suppose I'm a little old fashion when it comes to the whole asking out thing. I still believe in a moderate level of chivalry. (And whilst many girls in theory say they don't like it, most everyone I practice it on appreciates it. With exceptions. And for those, I respect her wishes.) I won't talk down about a girl ask boy if they are both cool with it. Personally, I'd feel more comfortable asking her. I've been asked out a couple times. for something small, I don't mind much. But for something bigger, I think 'Dang. People say that it sucks for a guy to have to make the first move. But this is worse!' (That is when you aren't up to it.) Maybe I'm selfish. I don'y like feeling like that. And even if the date or whatever is a go, I'd feel better about it and about myself if I asked her.

Originally Posted by puppycat

Lawl. This thread is getting pretty popular. Usually when I go up to a guy and tell him I like him, he laughs or pretends he doesn't like me.

Question- Is it hot for a girl to make out with a girl? Why?
Question- Where can you watch porn w/o downloading it :3

1. If both girls are good looking, yes. Because it's two hot girls, kissing.
2. Redtube.com, it's like Youtube, but with porn. And don't give me shit for knowing that, if you guys don't know the site, you fucking suck.

Originally Posted by supreme

Sorry....i was just answering different posts. Believe me...i couldnt give
two flying fks about post count....Does anyone....really?? And if you
dont respect me then what can i do about it anyway?

No, no, I wasn't saying I don't respect you. In fact, you seem worthy of a lot more respect than I would give a lot of people on this forum. Thanks for taking in my comment anyway.

Originally Posted by puppycat

Lawl. This thread is getting pretty popular. Usually when I go up to a guy and tell him I like him, he laughs or pretends he doesn't like me.

Question- Is it hot for a girl to make out with a girl? Why?
Question- Where can you watch porn w/o downloading it :3

1 - Yes - Because girls/women are beautiful in general, and seeing two women is twice the beautifulness
2 - Uuuuuuuuurm....

this mightve already been asked but idc
Are girl into guys as much as guys are into girls?

Originally Posted by capoopy

this mightve already been asked but idc
Are girl into guys as much as guys are into girls?

I don't think it takes a girl to answer this, it's just human chemistry. Yes. Girls may not show it as much, or brag on it like guys do, but yes.

Um. I think just seeing a stimulated penis would turn a girl on. But yeah. If I saw a guy jacking off, I would get pretty horny.

Originally Posted by Pensive Patrick

No, no, I wasn't saying I don't respect you. In fact, you seem worthy of a lot more respect than I would give a lot of people on this forum. Thanks for taking in my comment anyway.

shucks thanks!
and i didnt mean to sound so bitchy either, i just didnt know i should be
combining posts in one post....its so bothersome! lol and i wanted to try
and answer some of the questions since no other girl was commenting at
the time.
btw why hasnt someone answered my question...is it too taboo?

Also Black Eagle, youre probably right about the ass-shaped boobs but i
know im right about what i said as well....ive read it many times, but ill
look for a source to show you first before i say anymore on it. To me its
all theory anyway. But i have to admit that i surely hate to admit that
my boobs were evolved...beside the obvious....strictly for a mans pleasure!
Although it does seem to be the rule of thumb with mammals. Except for
humans tho, in the animal kingdom its usually the male who is the more....
pleasing to the eye, or more...flamboyant, shall we say.