One sentence can ruin your chances of a girl liking you. |
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I'm in college and I noticed this girl in one of my classes that always looks at me. Well I took that as a cue to go over and talk to her. Well, I sat next to her and she started the conversation, but it ended pretty fast. So i said something else and kept the conversation going, but I don't think I kept her interested. (Her arms were crossed as we spoke and I don't think I gave a good impression.) What do you guys think? |
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One sentence can ruin your chances of a girl liking you. |
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It certainly can, but I think you may have been too quick too assume that you lost this particular girl's interest (unless you said something really outrageous). Some people are just not big talkers. |
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Yes, the first impression is crucial. Say something funny. |
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Some girls like to give guys a run for their money, reguardless if they like you or not. We have a thing to try to figure out what we like about a guy and can he pull us in more. Just casual conversation is good, find out what she likes then ask her out. Worrying about if she has a boyfriend is out of the question, because some girls will be single and tell you yes. Just get comfortable talking to her then ask her out. |
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Na, I think that you are still okay- having her arms crossed is a defensive body language but not like looking at her watch every few seconds or stepping away from you. I cross my arms all the time, even around people I know, it just may be that she doesn't know you well enough to completely let her guard down. Crossing of the arms is typical and not a way of showing that you have lost your chance. I you really like her tell her that you were sorry if you came off as a weirdo or something but you have a hard time talking to her because she is so damn cute. I would be floored and then all of sudden very curious about you, I wouldn't be able to get that out of my mind! |
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We talked about our majors and and what kind of jobs we would want as we graduated. I got her to laugh a couple times and then I told her that I'd rather not even go to school and just start a band. I don't know if I ruined my chances, but if she sits next to me next class then I'll know if I can still build some rapport. |
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"i like your boobs" |
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Oh its spelled rapport? |
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Yeah, that came up in one of my classes. |
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Last edited by dajo; 02-05-2009 at 06:57 PM.
Can one conversation with any person ruin your chances of being liked as a person? Yes. |
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Being nervous isn't anything serious. Personally the only person who will really remember that you were nervous is you. Don't dwell on it, and just be less nervous next time. Find ways to feel comfortable when talking to her, and it will change the way you act drastically. |
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I don't think you've ruined it... |
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dude. don't be sneaky with rapport. She will only have rapport someone that she is attracted to. Building rapport is just like getting to know someone. get her to tell about herself to you. what her passions are, what she's looking for in a guy etc. don't offer advice and just listen to her - you keep eye contact when she's talking. she'll feel closer to you, she'll feel safe that she can talk to you. Be warm and genuine. That's how you build rapport. If you sneakily try to force rapport through trying to hyptnotise her, you will come off as a creep. |
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Besides... Isn't it better to, in stead of going into rapport with her, you get her to go into rapport with you? |
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