I just found this site too and I was wondering why it seems so difficult for most people to Lucid dream...I've been doing it since I was a kid, I cant even begin to count how many i've had. I've also been able to control everything for the most part since I was maybe 11 or 12...like telekinesis, flying, meeting whoever I want and I never thought it was a big deal until I started researching lucid dreaming. I wonder what is different about those of us who do it naturally? I know that my dad has always had lucid dreams. Wanting, have you ever seen if any of your relatives lucid dream regularly?