• Lucid Dreaming - Dream Views




    Results 1 to 25 of 296
    Like Tree59Likes

    Thread: Fear of death - A rational fear?

    Hybrid View

    1. #1
      I am become fish pear Abra's Avatar
      Join Date
      Mar 2007
      Location
      Doncha Know, Murka
      Posts
      3,816
      Likes
      542
      DJ Entries
      17
      Quote Originally Posted by Wolfwood View Post
      It's wishful thinking for anyone now to think they're going to live forever. There's clearly a far higher chance that we're going to face death (especially when factoring in disease/illness/accidents).
      I don't think it's in the realm of possibility for the next few generations. We need to change our mindset, however, before our actions will follow. If we act according to the philosophy that death is preventable, then we will search for a way to get there instead of sitting on our asses waiting for 'the inevitable.'
      Abraxas

      Quote Originally Posted by OldSparta
      I murdered someone, there was bloody everywhere. On the walls, on my hands. The air smelled metallic, like iron. My mouth... tasted metallic, like iron. The floor was metallic, probably iron

    2. #2
      Dreaming Shaman ZeraCook's Avatar
      Join Date
      Apr 2012
      LD Count
      21
      Gender
      Location
      Montana
      Posts
      796
      Likes
      814
      DJ Entries
      26
      Quote Originally Posted by Abra View Post
      I don't think it's in the realm of possibility for the next few generations. We need to change our mindset, however, before our actions will follow. If we act according to the philosophy that death is preventable, then we will search for a way to get there instead of sitting on our asses waiting for 'the inevitable.'
      It scares me that people would want to live forever, whats the point in a game you can't lose/or beat.


      " I couldn't stand her at first, But then I loved her so bad It Hurt "

    3. #3
      Member Photolysis's Avatar
      Join Date
      Dec 2007
      Gender
      Posts
      1,270
      Likes
      316
      Quote Originally Posted by ZeraCook View Post
      It scares me that people would want to live forever, whats the point in a game you can't lose/or beat.
      There's a large difference between "forever" and "as long as I want".

      Quote Originally Posted by Abra View Post
      I don't think it's in the realm of possibility for the next few generations. We need to change our mindset, however, before our actions will follow. If we act according to the philosophy that death is preventable, then we will search for a way to get there instead of sitting on our asses waiting for 'the inevitable.'
      It'll definitely take some time, but there's a fairly decent chance of today's generation being around to see it. Plus, given the ever increasing advances in stem cell research and tissue engineering I suspect that will dramatically reduce the effects of ageing. What can be done today is very promising, and it's the tip of the iceberg.

    4. #4
      I am become fish pear Abra's Avatar
      Join Date
      Mar 2007
      Location
      Doncha Know, Murka
      Posts
      3,816
      Likes
      542
      DJ Entries
      17
      Quote Originally Posted by Photolysis View Post
      There's a large difference between "forever" and "as long as I want".


      It'll definitely take some time, but there's a fairly decent chance of today's generation being around to see it. Plus, given the ever increasing advances in stem cell research and tissue engineering I suspect that will dramatically reduce the effects of ageing. What can be done today is very promising, and it's the tip of the iceberg.
      Just a question, but do you study anything? Are you actively participating in the endeavor in some way or plan to? I was seriously into artificial intelligence for a while, and before that, medicine, but in the end I decided helping preserve the environment will be more important to the current world (so I study chemistry--also because I like it).
      Abraxas

      Quote Originally Posted by OldSparta
      I murdered someone, there was bloody everywhere. On the walls, on my hands. The air smelled metallic, like iron. My mouth... tasted metallic, like iron. The floor was metallic, probably iron

    5. #5
      Member Photolysis's Avatar
      Join Date
      Dec 2007
      Gender
      Posts
      1,270
      Likes
      316
      Quote Originally Posted by Abra View Post
      Just a question, but do you study anything? Are you actively participating in the endeavor in some way or plan to? I was seriously into artificial intelligence for a while, and before that, medicine, but in the end I decided helping preserve the environment will be more important to the current world (so I study chemistry--also because I like it).
      I put my chemistry degree on hold several years ago, and I'm not actively involved in any scientific discipline at the moment. I do still have a strong interest in the subject however, and try to keep up to date with recent developments; knowing people in different fields helps.

    6. #6
      Dreaming Shaman ZeraCook's Avatar
      Join Date
      Apr 2012
      LD Count
      21
      Gender
      Location
      Montana
      Posts
      796
      Likes
      814
      DJ Entries
      26
      Quote Originally Posted by Photolysis View Post
      There's a large difference between "forever" and "as long as I want".
      I think the longer you lived the more you would fear death, and since you already abandoned your natural life cycle, it shows that you fear your death, and the more you grip to your life the more you will fear your death. Seems like a never ending cycle of fear.


      " I couldn't stand her at first, But then I loved her so bad It Hurt "

    7. #7
      D.V. Editor-in-Chief Original Poster's Avatar
      Join Date
      Jun 2006
      LD Count
      Lucid Now
      Gender
      Location
      3D
      Posts
      8,263
      Likes
      4140
      DJ Entries
      11
      Quote Originally Posted by Alric View Post
      It totally matters if you can't keep up with technology. Evolution builds on itself, and currently humans are moving past biological evolution and all our evolution is going to be based on technology. We will probably be able to alter our bodies and even our genes faster through technology than biological breeding. How does biological evolution effect anything if people can alter their bodies at will with technology?
      Again though, this approach is irrelevant, and speaks to your black and white views of evolution. Technology and evolution are mutually compatible. This is because technology is often a product of ethos. See my argument on ethos.

      The RPG's are a good example, because new programmers often recreate old video games when they are learning new things. They think they are being original and creating something new but its just repeating of old stuff. There are ton of new things that are just copies of old. New programmers generally suck, and don't create very original stuff. If you look at the people who are on the cutting edge, who are creating the original content, its the people with experience. People with a lot of experience. And even if you got a young team, there is always a very experienced person leading the group, and giving instructions on what to do.
      But to counter that example, look at the biggest companies in the world, who produce the same game every year, tweak it a little bit, and make money. They become too concentrated to put out original content, and we rely on the indie game companies to transform the game industry.

      Lets put it this way. Someone spends 26 years going through schooling to get an advanced degree in physics. They spend 5 years research in some area and then they die. A new person spends 26 years going through the same school and then picks off where the other guy left off. He spends 5 years researching then dies. This happens to 3 more people, for a total of 5 people. They have now spent a total of 25 years of doing original research.

      Now another person spends 26 years going through schooling to get an advanced degree in physics. He spends 129 years doing research in an area. Who is going to know more? Not only does this second person have 5 times the amount of time doing the research, but he can draw on all the data he learned to make his researching far more efficient. Even if you thought having a fresh perspective was important, he would simply take a five year vacation at several points during the process and come back with that new view and still be far ahead of the others.
      It's more like 26 years of schooling, 15 of which is spent researching and helping researchers, with another 30 to 40 spent leading research. And something fundamental happens during this schooling which is why I think you bring up a good example. People get concentrated. All you need to understand about my argument that people become more rigid as they develop can be seen in the school system. The more school you take, the more specific your focus becomes, the more you see the world through a specific set of lenses. Mathematicians that spend 20 years studying math see the world entirely differently than people that spend 20 years studying art, for example. And there's nothing wrong with specialization, just like there's nothing wrong with enjoying a juicy steak and mash potatoes separately rather than trying to put them in a blender and ingest them that way. Some things simply cannot be analyzed by the same set of criteria as other things. This is why it's good to have people who specialize and people who are more broad. This is why it's good to analyze both waves and particles rather than pretend one of the two holds no merit.

      So we're all a unique little snowflake, right? Why encase like a million snowflakes in glass and then turn off the clouds? Why suppress the constantly moving flow of life?

      To address your procrastination issue, that isn't an issue at all. Most people are really not motivated to seize the day because they think they will die. If you are motivated that way you are probably having a midlife crisis, and those don't last that long and are often not very productive. Most people simply do not think about death on a day to day biases. For the sake of argument however, lets say it does motivate people. Well it still doesn't matter because people would be motivated out of boredom any way. No one wants to sit around doing nothing at all day long, it is boring. Even if there was no death you would still feel compelled to do stuff.
      A midlife crisis is the opposite. People feel like they've been wasting time and attempt to figure out what they wish to do in order to feel fulfilled. Some cling to youth, thinking life is meant to be full of youthful experiences. Some attempt to work in their community, thinking life is meant to be an opportunity to serve others. There's a whole spectrum of possibilities.

      Your last point seems silly. There are people over a 100 and they are still having fun. People don't stop having fun when they age. Life is fun which is why I want it to keep going on. It is extremely unlikely you will ever run out of fun and interesting things to do. That point is basically saying that I should sacrifice my fun for the sake of others fun. Why should I give up my happiness for others? There isn't even any guarantee that my dying will even make it more fun. In fact if I die a lot of people will be very sad. So why would I sacrifice my fun in order to hurt others? It makes no logical sense.
      Would a rollercoaster still be fun if it went on forever? Wouldn't it be more fun if it stopped and you got to experience a different rollercoaster each time?

      Let me put it this way. If someone gives you the perfect gift, something you always wanted, something you love. Do you enjoy that gift because you one day think it will be taken away? Or do you enjoy the gift because it was a really great gift? Me, I would enjoy it because its a really great gift. Life is a gift, and so we should hold onto it forever. I don't throw out important items in my life, I don't discard gifts because it makes me like them more. Why would I throw away the most important gift I have ever received.
      I enjoy it at first until I take it for granted and the novelty wears off. In fact, it is because I have lost very important things that I know to take care of other things I hold important.

      If you got a huge diamond and gold watch that George Washington wore when he was sworn in as the first president of the US, you would hold on to that with everything. You would do everything in your power to keep that. And it's value doesn't come because you expect someone will one day steal it, it comes from the value of the gift itself.
      I would consider such a watch valuable because other people would want it so I could make a fortune by selling it. To me this metaphor works better considering a body of work. I consider my mind valuable because I can share it with others and positively influence the world.

      To me it sounds like you are taking your life for granted. You think if you die you can just replace your life with several others, and so dying is no big deal. That is the definition of taking things for granted. The view I hold is taking life extremely seriously.
      I find life to be best lived as a temporary experience. This doesn't mean I take it for granted. It simply means I don't live in fear of the fact that life is temporary, I don't think it's superior to live forever, and I don't think it would make me happier to live forever. I think life would be the most enjoyable gift it could possibly be because it's temporary. By your logic, people suffering on their death beds shouldn't have the option to commit suicide even if they've lived long, fulfilling lives and are currently feeling intense, chronic pain with no end in sight. Because they're alive. And if they chose to end it, they'd be taking life for granted. That simply isn't true.

      Quote Originally Posted by Abra View Post
      I'd be alright if reincarnation were true. It'd be awesome if everyone got to be everyone, or something.

      But basing a lifestyle on wishful thinking isn't always exactly useful. If it were ever somehow proven (say, by comparing the firing signals of newly developing brains, and seeing if the brain's 'initial conditions,' I'm talking signals and not atoms, were the same), then think of how different we'd behave towards, well, everything else!
      For one, your criteria to judge whether or not reincarnation is true is flawed already. These conditions would be removed, so there'd be no way to judge based on that criteria. The only way to judge would be to consider what the mind really is, as a separate concept than the brain. I am speculating on the continuation of consciousness and my argument was that it's irrelevant because you would lose your identity, so I already made your argument for you. But I have no problem losing my identity. It's a superficial sort of thing anyways, and it will survive in my body of work, so my identity will survive in the usefulness I provide for society. But time is infinite so inevitably even that usefulness is useless. Therefore the highest good I can see is the play.

      But for now, it's just wishful thinking. And the risk is greater than the reward. By believing in reincarnation, you detract attention from improving any one current life, since suicide is an easy and effective escape. If it were proven, you could expect a lot more suicides... But there's no proof. So believing in this is merely your comfort. Like believing you'll win the lottery eventually, that it's in the stars for you. To each his own, except you're opinion contributes to a culture that keeps me from ever getting my robotic immortal superbrain.
      You automatically pin me down as being an advocate that reincarnation exists for suggesting it... great job. I stated clearly that I don't believe nor disbelieve it, I simply think it is no less likely than the idea that consciousness ends when the body dies. And there is proof of this, if you like I'll even point you to the lecture on youtube but be warned, you may find it boring.
      Last edited by Omnis Dei; 05-22-2012 at 08:15 PM.

      Everything works out in the end, sometimes even badly.


    8. #8
      Deuteragonist Achievements:
      Made lots of Friends on DV Populated Wall 1000 Hall Points Referrer Bronze Veteran First Class
      Wolfwood's Avatar
      Join Date
      Nov 2010
      LD Count
      >50, <150
      Gender
      Location
      Sussex
      Posts
      2,337
      Likes
      3341
      Quote Originally Posted by Omnis Dei View Post

      You automatically pin me down as being an advocate that reincarnation exists for suggesting it... great job. I stated clearly that I don't believe nor disbelieve it, I simply think it is no less likely than the idea that consciousness ends when the body dies. And there is proof of this, if you like I'll even point you to the lecture on youtube but be warned, you may find it boring.
      Link me please, I'm interested.

      Who looks outside, dreams;
      who looks inside, awakes.

      - Carl Jung

    9. #9
      D.V. Editor-in-Chief Original Poster's Avatar
      Join Date
      Jun 2006
      LD Count
      Lucid Now
      Gender
      Location
      3D
      Posts
      8,263
      Likes
      4140
      DJ Entries
      11
      Quote Originally Posted by Wolfwood View Post
      Link me please, I'm interested.
      Wolfwood likes this.

      Everything works out in the end, sometimes even badly.


    10. #10
      Member
      Join Date
      Feb 2004
      Posts
      5,165
      Likes
      711
      I think you are misunderstanding me a little Zeracook. I think the immortal people are going to happily share their technology with the mortals, and that the mortals will keep on evolving. My point is that the the evolution is just going to be irrelevant.

      Someone might be different in the future, but if you can use something like gene therapy and reproduce the differences in another person, then those changes are not very important. It isn't like an immortal person is forever stuck with the body they have, they will be able to change their body with technology, and do it at far faster speeds than mortal people who evolved over time.

      As for the full cup thing that is just wrong. The brain grows and so it is never full. Unless you have some kind of brain disease(which you wouldn't be immortal if you had a disease slowly killing your brain), you are fully capable to keep learning for as long as you are alive, and you can keep learning new ways of viewing things the entire time as well.

      As for fearing death, if you have medicine and stuff to prevent it, then that removes a great amount of that fear. There is no constant worrying, because you know you can fix any problems that appear.

      As for IndieAnthias, how often do you wake up and say, "I have little time left to live so I better do something right now!" For most people, they never think that way. The only time people think that way is when they have some terminal or series diseases, or injury that might result in their death. Or they are having a midlife crisis, thinking that they will die soon and have not accomplished much. That most definitely is not a day to day line of thought.

    11. #11
      Deuteragonist Achievements:
      Made lots of Friends on DV Populated Wall 1000 Hall Points Referrer Bronze Veteran First Class
      Wolfwood's Avatar
      Join Date
      Nov 2010
      LD Count
      >50, <150
      Gender
      Location
      Sussex
      Posts
      2,337
      Likes
      3341
      An important aspect with living forever is forgotten memories (loss of your identity, some may say) - what do you think of that? Or is the assumption that living forever will mean ever-lasting memories too?

      Who looks outside, dreams;
      who looks inside, awakes.

      - Carl Jung

    12. #12
      Czar Salad IndieAnthias's Avatar
      Join Date
      Jul 2010
      Gender
      Location
      Texas
      Posts
      707
      Likes
      491
      Quote Originally Posted by Alric View Post
      As for IndieAnthias, how often do you wake up and say, "I have little time left to live so I better do something right now!" For most people, they never think that way. The only time people think that way is when they have some terminal or series diseases, or injury that might result in their death. Or they are having a midlife crisis, thinking that they will die soon and have not accomplished much. That most definitely is not a day to day line of thought.
      It's an ideal, but I do try. I think something along those lines (but not that exactly) at least once a day. Not with a sense of urgency, quite the opposite in fact. I know a few other people who cultivate this view as well. Most of my acquaintances don't seem to have much use for it, but whatever.

      I think you're projecting your outlook onto everyone here. Actually, from this thread, it seems you do that a lot. Your values are not universal human values. I only say this because you particularly seem like you could use this reminder. I wish you the best of luck and hopefully you do live forever and love every second of it.
      Last edited by IndieAnthias; 05-22-2012 at 10:21 PM.

    13. #13
      Dreaming Shaman ZeraCook's Avatar
      Join Date
      Apr 2012
      LD Count
      21
      Gender
      Location
      Montana
      Posts
      796
      Likes
      814
      DJ Entries
      26
      Quote Originally Posted by Alric View Post
      As for fearing death, if you have medicine and stuff to prevent it, then that removes a great amount of that fear. There is no constant worrying, because you know you can fix any problems that appear.
      by showing that you want to use medicine and stuff to prevent it then you are fearing it. You are not allowing your natural death to come into place by intervening so you are fearing it, and that is why you are prolonging it.


      " I couldn't stand her at first, But then I loved her so bad It Hurt "

    14. #14
      Dreaming Shaman ZeraCook's Avatar
      Join Date
      Apr 2012
      LD Count
      21
      Gender
      Location
      Montana
      Posts
      796
      Likes
      814
      DJ Entries
      26
      Quote Originally Posted by Alric View Post
      As for the full cup thing that is just wrong. The brain grows and so it is never full. Unless you have some kind of brain disease(which you wouldn't be immortal if you had a disease slowly killing your brain), you are fully capable to keep learning for as long as you are alive, and you can keep learning new ways of viewing things the entire time as well.
      It was a speculation. I don't think the brain keeps growing, because eventually with age it starts to deteriorate, and the fact that you are planning on making your body stop ageing you would be making your body stop growing too. but these are all theories really because we can't even make anyone live forever so who are we to say what would happen if we could, we can only speculate.


      " I couldn't stand her at first, But then I loved her so bad It Hurt "

    15. #15
      Member
      Join Date
      Feb 2004
      Posts
      5,165
      Likes
      711
      Aging and growing are not the same thing. The brain continues to grow because we can keep making new connections within our brain, while it deteriorate because of the accumulation of errors and junk in the cells of the brain. If you remove the accumulation of bad stuff, and allow the brain to continue to make new connections you can have a growing brain that doesn't age.

      As I said before, yea everyone should fear death and I think most people do. Though we don't have that disabling fear of death, we find ways to cope with it. If you are living forever, then it isn't going to be a stress factor in your life because you know you can overcome death. You might still fear it some times, but it isn't going to be that disabling fear and it isn't going to cause stress in your life.

      I find death very destructive, after all it kills people. I think life does bring renewal but you don't need death to have life. The problem I have is that you are basically saying that a persons life is meaningless because it becomes obsolete and so needs to be disposed of for the new to come in.

      I have to ask why you think that though. I agree that each individual person is unique but why is the newer views better than the older views? Why does the old views need to be thrown out? You can have both views, you can have the new and old at the same time. There is no reason to get rid of the old. Killing old people doesn't make the newer people any better.

      You can have a snowstorm of new snowflakes, without trampling all over the ones that have already fallen. You can be part of something greater without sacrificing yourself. That is my main problem with your line of thinking. You can have all these things without the death.

      Why do you need the death? What does the destruction of past memories and thoughts gain anyone? That is what I don't see, I don't see a benefit of people dying. People dying doesn't add anything, it only subtracts.

      It isn't like humans extract vital nutrients from the dead and we need dead bodies for the next generation to grow. We can still have new children and new ideas, we just need to pull back and do it more slowly if most people want to live forever. Give time for technology to increase the carrying capacity of the earth and then fill it as we go. You can have that increase in new life without the death.

    16. #16
      Deuteragonist Achievements:
      Made lots of Friends on DV Populated Wall 1000 Hall Points Referrer Bronze Veteran First Class
      Wolfwood's Avatar
      Join Date
      Nov 2010
      LD Count
      >50, <150
      Gender
      Location
      Sussex
      Posts
      2,337
      Likes
      3341
      Quote Originally Posted by Abra View Post
      I don't think it's in the realm of possibility for the next few generations. We need to change our mindset, however, before our actions will follow. If we act according to the philosophy that death is preventable, then we will search for a way to get there instead of sitting on our asses waiting for 'the inevitable.'
      I think our whole mindset is instinctively geared toward extending life. It's what we've been doing for eons.

      Though I still wonder if the progressive extension of our lives so far has been an epiphenomenon of our goal to simply be more healthy. And there's only so far that merely increasing health can extend life.
      Last edited by Wolfwood; 05-22-2012 at 06:11 PM.

      Who looks outside, dreams;
      who looks inside, awakes.

      - Carl Jung

    Similar Threads

    1. Fear of death...GONE!!!!!
      By wer in forum Beyond Dreaming
      Replies: 48
      Last Post: 08-18-2014, 09:02 AM
    2. A Fear of Death
      By sleepingto-dream in forum Nightmares and Recurring Dreams
      Replies: 1
      Last Post: 12-05-2010, 04:52 AM
    3. Can FEAR be a dream sign???? Many of my dreams are about fear
      By giogoMoget2 in forum Dream Signs and Recall
      Replies: 8
      Last Post: 11-26-2010, 04:05 AM
    4. Lucidity and Fear of Death
      By Aidrocsid in forum Lucid Experiences
      Replies: 2
      Last Post: 01-27-2010, 01:08 AM
    5. Fear Of Death
      By becomingagodo in forum Philosophy
      Replies: 47
      Last Post: 01-30-2007, 10:25 AM

    Tags for this Thread

    Bookmarks

    Posting Permissions

    • You may not post new threads
    • You may not post replies
    • You may not post attachments
    • You may not edit your posts
    •