Hey Jesslet sorry to hear you are having problems with your WILD's, it must be frustrating,
I'd recommend that you read gab's thread on http://www.dreamviews.com/wake-initi...into-wild.html it was really useful to me when I was starting out. Another option would be persistence (which in my mind is always the best option) just keep trying and keep reassuring yourself, you're bound to get it one day. I will also recommend mantras, you could chant a mantra like "I will calmly enter the dream tonight." when you wake up and before you go to bed, it could make a difference, although not commonly used in this way I could see it working.
Good luck and best wishes!