If a guy who I was just getting to know suddenly started making sexual jokes, and I could sense he was basically just trying to get a feel for whether or not I want to date him or whatever, I'd be really bothered. |
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What? Flirted with you? Or were you not replying to me? |
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If a guy who I was just getting to know suddenly started making sexual jokes, and I could sense he was basically just trying to get a feel for whether or not I want to date him or whatever, I'd be really bothered. |
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You're probably correct. One should have confidence first also. |
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Everything works out in the end, sometimes even badly.
I prefer a more direct approach, such as: |
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Dave, you confused everybody with your title!! |
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When you talk. Look them in the eyes. But don't give them a bad look. Or a perverted creepy look. Just an understanding kind look. And when they talk. Listen..... like really listen |
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Our truest life is when we are in dreams awake
Just get a giant paper area map, unfold it, and put your penis on top of it and go around asking for directions, pointing to places right next to your penis. |
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Lucid Dream goals: (O=done, could be better. X=done.)» (Fly -X)» (Talk to my DC friend - ) (Have a WILD - ) (Have sex - ) (Meet my DG - ) (Go through a wall or window -X) (Go to space - ) (Go to Pandora - ) (Conjure things -O ) (Complete a task of the month - )
When I say to tell sexual jokes, That's like after you've gotten past the stage where you wouldn't be considered a freak for telling them. If she tells sexual jokes back, you may have gotten somewhere. Also another thing i forget to mention, share secrets with her. You need to build up trust, after all, your partner is meant to be one of the most closest people in your life. If she shares secrets with you, you may have also gotten somewhere. |
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They say dreaming is dead, no one does it anymore.
It's not dead it's just that it's been forgotten, removed from our language.
Nobody teaches it so nobody knows it exists.
The dreamer is banished to obscurity.
Well, I'm trying to change all that, and I hope you are too.
By dreaming, every day.
Just refer to the "Pleasing Women" manual and follow each step in order. It's a sure-fire WIN! |
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All that touchy feely crap is borne out of emotional desperation and fear of lonliness. Women aren't interested in real romance. Truthfully, what a woman likes and what she finds attractive are not the same thing. You want to be somebody's boyfriend, don't be their lapdog. Women are attracted to firm confidence, a man who knows who he is and doesn't need anyone to help him figure it out. Sensitive men have a harder time at this because they actually care what the woman thinks of them. This is foolish. Be courteous, obviously, but depend on no one for your own self-assurance. If you want to choose your spouse out of a handful of fine options, drop your balls and let them hang. If you want to cling to the one bitch nice enough to give you her number that one time, keep thinking about things "romantically." |
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Everything works out in the end, sometimes even badly.
Very un-PC, but it has the harsh ring of truth. Take it from the guy girls would cry to about how badly their boyfriends treat them. |
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If a mod wants to change the word Bitch then go for it but I'm just trying to talk some sense into these kids before they walk down the same road I did, thinking you could some how please a woman or earn her love. Women are attracted to that which retreats from them. Women are so insecure they need a guy who's secure and self-assured enough for them to follow. But sensitive guys are always repulsing them by refusing to take the lead. Why? Because they get that sensation of resistance and they turn into cowards. They put too much weight on the girl in front of them as if soul-mates were a scientific law. The fact is, your chances are greater at being with a total stranger than with a girl you faltered in front of. |
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Everything works out in the end, sometimes even badly.
Keep in mind there's a difference between confidence and being a jerk. Don't start treating women like crap just because somebody told you that they like it. Any girl you get that way probably doesn't deserve to be respected, and probably isn't worth pursuing, unless you are literally just looking to get laid. |
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Also, confidence isn't really a choice so much as something you either have or you don't - or I guess it's fair to say we all have different levels of it. There are some guys who might be right on the borderline and can step up without trying to be somebody they're not, but most of us either have that kind of confidence or we don't. |
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Last edited by Darkmatters; 09-23-2011 at 08:32 PM. Reason: people are not rats
Most people are rats. |
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