Don't get stuck up on the thought of "Tonight I am going to have a lucid dream". I mean what happens after you have reasoned like this for a week?
You will think "Now I have tried doing this for 7 nights straight, oh no my dryspell is getting longer" I am not saying that you think in these ways now, but if keep track on how long you haven't had a lucid dream it is easy to get into this mindset.
Instead of having the perspective of if I do everything right now I will have a lucid dream, try to see it as a process and think what went well tonight?
Focus on the positve things instead of the negative, instead of thinking "I didn't had a lucid dream tonight and I don't know why..." focus on the what went well like "Tonight I was a little more aware than usual and it was because of the fact .... or Tonight I remembered more dreams and that was because....".
The definition of madness is doing the same thing and expecting a different result.
However you don't always do the same thing, but in the perspective on negatives it is easy to believe that you do and this will make you mad.
I hope that puts the mindset in perspective 
The way I see it, this perspective isn't only the ideal view of lucid dreaming to attain "happiness" but also the ideal perspective of life.
Namaste. Inlakesh
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