Okay, sort of got it. Just needed to be in REM, which obviously didn't happen the last couple of times. The images actually disappeared very quickly, that made me move my arm and the wrong time, nearly punched my girl friend.

the second time it kind of worked, though I had nothing to grab on. Just moved my hand forward in the dream world, but.. it disappeard as well..
What do you do when that happens? (Thought about getting out of bed, litterly, as in M-WILD, but.. couldn't, was on the wall side.)

Oh =\. Prolly take a week before i'll get another chance at it. will post any attempts.