Woohoo! Since I’m experiencing boredom and finally have a chance to sit down, I just realized I have more I’d like to add
Originally Posted by ZeraCook
Maybe she came up with the conclusion that she did Staring in REM wakes you up, because it happens to here every time, or maybe its because thats her belief, and because she thinks that, in involuntarily makes her wake up.
I love how this first half,
Could be responded to with this half, only by replace Littlezoe with your name, If your gonna tell someone how they should go about something, it usually holds more persuasion and makes more sense if you practice it yourself. In other words I think you should practice what you preach.
True. It does seem to be her experience. This is great! I have no qualms with what she, or others, experience.
In regards to practicing what I preach… if I ever lead others down a path of knowledge which might put them at a disadvantage, I would hope, pray even, that others would step in and tell me so. God forbid I hinder the development of unsuspecting individuals.
Originally Posted by littlezoe
@Kaomea: ZeraCook had a good point, if you gonna tell me how to behave, you should keep yourself to that too
About the staring thing: I frequent the hungarian lucid dreaming site since 2 years now, ever since i started LDing. We had tests about this on there and it turned out that anyone who tried to stare woke up soon. It's not a made up thing.
Maybe before you tell me that it's stupid, try it yourself and see.
People that say they were staring in the dreams and didn't wake up weren't truly staring imo, their eyes were still moving... even if they didn't notice... but i mentioned this already above.
@Mzzkc: I'm gonna just disregard your post, because you are trying to troll me ever since we first argued on here... it would be time to get over it
You’re right! I should behave how I instructed you too; I will do that.
I didn’t say it was a made up thing. What I said was this is not a common occurrence. If you or others experienced this, then you did. Who am I to say what you have or have not experienced. If you say you did, you did.
I also did not say it was stupid. Please forgive me if that is what you assumed.
As for your suggestion of trying it, I have! In fact, I’ve tried it before I managed to read your suggestion you mentioned here. Unfortunately I didn’t experience what you did. That’s ok though because we all experience things differently right? If I thought it would be a helpful skill I might even attempt to develop this further so that I might be able to experience what you have. Except I actually really enjoy not waking up when I stare at things in dreaming.
In any case, thank you for the invitation and suggestion
I notice you mentioned that you didn’t think I was staring properly. Well, not me personally, just anyone who stated they were staring and didn’t wake. I’d like to mention that I was. I’d like to think I know myself better than you, although, I might be wrong? I might not be the smartest but I’m decently sure I’m aware of what staring is and that my assessment of how I experience various sensations would most accurately be judge by myself (or maybe with the introduction of biometrics in some fashion.)
Originally Posted by dms111
I don't see how you can tout the "belief is everything" idea and at the same time say that the act of staring always wakes you up. Did it never occur to you that you're waking up because you believe staring will wake you up? It's the belief, not the actual act of staring, that wakes you up. Why was this test on the Hungarian site being run in the first place? Why was it orchestrated? Did it start because some one said staring in a dream wakes them up? If anyone mentioned that before the test was run then the test was already corrupted and your results are worthless. It doesn't matter how many people were involved.
Never tell a person that doing something specific will wake them up. Never. It does not help them in any way. It can only be harmful. If you really follow the belief is everything idea you should know better.
THANK YOU.
Originally Posted by littlezoe
But yeah, i don't really feel like continuing to argue about this... it's getting really boring saying the exact same things over and over on both sides. If you still don't believe then read what i wrote before... if you still don't, then do it again. I can't say much more than this.
I know, it is boring to say the same thing over and over again and not get the point across.
Originally Posted by dms111
Note that I didn't say anything against the belief system. I...*cough* believe in it. Mostly. Sorry if that's what my post appeared to imply.
Yeah I know this and am not disagreeing. Move your eyes in a dream and they move in reality. Nobody has disagreed with this. We disagree with you because you say the physical movement of the eyes some how affects the stability of a dream, but you haven't given any reason for why other than that test you did on the other forum.
It's not weird. Nobody on this forum discusses that problem because no one here has it.(Although now I'm sure it will show up) It shows up on your forum because people there already believe the problem exists. Don't you see what I'm saying here? It's the belief. There's still no reason to believe holding your physical eyes still will force you to wake up.
It's not that simple. If a person were to try and run this test after reading this thread they will already have a predetermined conclusion. You say when we stare in a dream that something will happen (Will wake up). Others in this thread say that when we stare in a dream nothing will happen (Won't wake up). Given the inherent instability of dreams our minds will naturally lean towards the something happening result. This type of test is still worthless unless it's controlled to eliminate any preconceived ideas.
There has already been a couple people say they have been able to stare in a dream without waking up. And they did it before this idea was ever mentioned so there were no preconceived ideas. Their conclusions are already more reliable than yours. But you immediately dismissed them as somehow not staring properly.
If what you say is true, and the stability of a dream is actually tied to the physical movement of our eyes then it should be true for everyone, right? If one person is able to stare in a dream without waking up then your theory is bunk. Your waking up is easily explained by your beliefs and expectations.
Just… thank you for saying this.
Originally Posted by Sageous
LittleZoe and ZeraCook:
Yes, your eyes are moving during REM, and might even be following the action. But they are not, by any measure, doing any "seeing" during the dream.
All seeing, staring, etc, is being done by your dreaming mind and, in the case of LD'ing, your conscious input. Not your physical eyes. Yes, when lucid you can bat your dream character eyes around all you want, or hold them still, and yes, your physical eyes will move in concert with the action of the dream. But, given that your physical eyes are sealed behind closed lids in a dark room, and given that your vision receptors have been superseded by dream perception, your physical eyes are not seeing anything, so they are not doing any actual "staring" when you stare in a dream. That is all I was trying to say; sorry it took so many words..
That said, I do tend to agree that if you find yourself concentrating on getting your physical eyes to do anything during a dream, you'll likely either wake up or lose lucidity simply because you've shifted your awareness away from the dream and onto a physical reality-based activity.
ZeraCook, in that experiment the subjects were likely looking around at things in their dream, and thus making their physical eyes follow along because that is what physical eyes do. This has nothing to do with holding a stare, and everything to do with just looking around, or not, in the dream. Again, keep in mind that the subjects in the experiments were looking around in the dream, and not directly trying to move their physical eyes.
Again, LittleZoe, you are never seeing with your physical eyes in a dream. Yes, your physical eyes may follow the "movements" of your dreaming vision reflexively, but they are not looking at anything because there is no light entering them. So it is entirely true that your real eyes are not involved in the dream, not from the dreamer's perspective, anyway. You can believe or not believe that you’re looking around with real eyes all you want, but in the end your real eyes are locked behind closed lids doing nothing but pantomiming sight.
If you're still with me, here's another thought: I think if you can learn to accept during the dream that you are definitely not using eyes to see, you may be able to open new doors to perception and visual discovery that take you to places far different than “looking around.” The opposite of that is also true: as long as you are sure you are looking at things with your eyes and not your mind, your dreamworld is just as visually limited a your physical world. You might want to consider this next time you're in a dream lending "physical" credence to the way you are perceiving your dreamworld.
And finally back to where I came in: LittleZoe, I have done your “prove it for yourself” experiment many, many times and have held my gaze, and no doubt my physical eyes as well, quite still and steady for far longer than a few seconds without losing lucidity, much less waking up; how can that be?
I am already tired of this conversation, I feel like I’m repeating myself into oblivion, and none of this has a thing to do with the very interesting OP, so I think I’ll stop. I hope you guys understand what I was trying to say, and are not offended or (too) annoyed by anything I said -- that was not intended!
Awesome.
My final thoughts on the matter are just that everyone will experience whatever they experience. To tell someone that they are not experiencing it correctly or that their experiences are invalid or are being done wrong because they don’t provide a specific response is Pish Posh.
I respect your experiences, Littlezoe. I might not experience things the way you do and I think that alone is awesome. Everyone here is a melting pot of experience… which also means just because we don’t experience things the same way you do, does not mean we are doing it wrong. It means we are doing them differently.
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