To have a belated piggyback, some studies says raging homophobes be denying their desire for penis. Also, Ted Haggard. |
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You didn't disprove anything. You just said it was ignorance. Well, how do you know that? |
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'What is war?...In a short sentence it may be summed up to be the combination and concentration of all the horrors, atrocities, crimes, and sufferings of which human nature on this globe is capable' - John Bright
To have a belated piggyback, some studies says raging homophobes be denying their desire for penis. Also, Ted Haggard. |
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BOW BOW! Wrong. |
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If you are being serious then no it doesn't make you a racist. You just have a set of certain aesthetics. |
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'What is war?...In a short sentence it may be summed up to be the combination and concentration of all the horrors, atrocities, crimes, and sufferings of which human nature on this globe is capable' - John Bright
Ok just saying "I proved it" doesn't mean you actually proved it. You keep saying it's ignorance yet give no examples of why this is true. Stop being an ignoramus. |
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'What is war?...In a short sentence it may be summed up to be the combination and concentration of all the horrors, atrocities, crimes, and sufferings of which human nature on this globe is capable' - John Bright
Again, I can see you honestly believe that. |
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Last edited by tommo; 05-16-2011 at 09:22 AM.
If it's a psychological defense mechanism, it is, as I stated, protecting someone from knowing that he wants to engage in spunky man sex. The cultural prejudices come from nasty things like not understanding people who are different or from prejudiced works like the Bible. |
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You guys are all proving other people wrong and making yourselves look good. |
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---o--- my DCs say I'm dreamy.
Because speaking illogically is an impossibility. |
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Last edited by Laughing Man; 05-17-2011 at 02:42 AM.
'What is war?...In a short sentence it may be summed up to be the combination and concentration of all the horrors, atrocities, crimes, and sufferings of which human nature on this globe is capable' - John Bright
So you think that homophobic people are really just homosexuals in denial? |
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Last edited by Laughing Man; 05-17-2011 at 02:41 AM.
'What is war?...In a short sentence it may be summed up to be the combination and concentration of all the horrors, atrocities, crimes, and sufferings of which human nature on this globe is capable' - John Bright
Not all, just some, hence my use of the conjunction "or" or the qualifier, "if." |
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"A Man convinced against his will is of the same opinion still." |
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Things are not as they seem
This a very interesting discussion. As for the answer to the authors questions: I think people do this in order to prove themselves that they are "right" which somehow proves that they are worth it to themselves. Hoenestly its a pathetic attempt at trying to make themselves happy. In my experience, the best way to get someone to change their view on something is to make them THINK. How do you do this? There are many ways but one one the best ways is to ask a REALLY good question that makes them think. |
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Another interesting question is Why do we get worked up when people try to proove us wrong. |
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Are you dreaming?
Lucid Goals
Astral Proyection [ ]
A lot of people take shit too personally. You've got to realize that everything that spews out of another person's mouth is simply their own expression. This also holds true for your perspective on any given matter. This is why it's ridiculous to defend a position and get all defensive about it rather than simply find the one that makes the most sense. As I've said before, I've realized this for quite some time and don't tie myself to any given perspective. |
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Last edited by MindGames; 05-17-2011 at 09:46 PM.
To answer the OP... in a very simple manner: The ego. The ego is the source of it. By being "right", we look smart. We win an argument, and we feel good because we are "better". Rather than supporting others first, we are inclined to support our ego first. |
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I don't know if anyone has said this because I didn't take time to read all the posts but.... |
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I honestly don't see how narcissism is a bad thing. |
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Yes, you probably don't because you don't know what it actually is. A little bit is necessary for people to be successful in life, it helps them overcome people and different mental obstacles. Thinking you are better than everyone else and driving everyone else away is a bad thing, this is documented as NPD and is quite a bad mental disorder to have. People often say Hitler had NPD, you already know he took it to the extreme and said his whole race was better than everyone else's and look where that ended up. And you are right in saying that narcissism itself isn't a bad thing, but as you'll see A LOT online people take it to an extreme just because they can and they think they are right. |
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Last edited by Reclypso; 05-25-2011 at 03:40 AM.
My post wasn't so much an argument as it was a statement... |
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Because other people are idiots, and therefor should accept my assertions as truth. Obviously. |
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April Ryan is my friend,
Every sorrow she can mend.
When i visit her dark realm,
Does it simply overwhelm.
^ Exactly, lol |
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I notice this as well. People do feel that an "attack" on their ideas is an attack on them. Take religion for example, their idea is pretty much who they are and determines how they live their life, so it is understandable that they would get defensive in that circumstance. I am pretty elusive when it comes to ideas, like you I don't necessarily strongly attach myself to any idea(nevermind I am vehemently attached to veganism) but really just try to entertain them so if some one contradicts me, it gives me a fresh perspective on the idea in question which I find to be very useful(one reason I post on DV). I don't remember who said it but someone talked about how being wrong on DV has helped them tremendously in being able to understand an idea better. I would say I subscribe to this view, I'm wrong quite a bit but DV has definitely polished my intellect and for that I thank everyone. |
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