Considering I wasn't trying to produce one you could be waiting a while. |
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Not once did Xei say sex should be limited to people above the age of 18 or that people below that age are somehow magically unable to give consent. All he said was that a range or sliding scale should be used rather than a strict 18+ rule. |
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Last edited by GavinGill; 07-23-2012 at 08:28 AM.
Don't tell me what to do. |
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Exactly. In our society. That's what this thread's about, how society views sex, and why it's fucking retarded. |
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Last edited by Jesus of Suburbia; 07-23-2012 at 04:46 AM.
I definitely see the point in having a sliding age scale for extremely young cases, below 16 etc. I think kids younger than 10 often fuck around in inappropriate ways and that as long as they're the same age it shouldn't be viewed as some sort of heinous act. But I think 16 is an appropriate age to consent to sex with anyone. And I'm not saying that for any personal inclination for younger girls, I simply think prohibiting under aged sex won't stop them from sexing and that a sexual partner their own age is no more likely to be responsible about it than someone older. |
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Everything works out in the end, sometimes even badly.
As far as I can tell, casual sex is pretty much accepted in today's society. It's generally not viewed as the "sacred" kind of important decision it once was. |
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Tell that to one of the kids that have been labeled sex offenders for the rest of their lives because they forwarded, sent or received a nude picture |
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Everything works out in the end, sometimes even badly.
That's kind of what I was getting at, it is a big deal. Sex is like the biggest deal since... since the Wu Tang Clan managed to get the group signed to Def Jam and then had solo contracts for each individual member drawn up for competing labels. shit was mad tight yo, na'msayin g, ?? [/word] |
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Last edited by GavinGill; 07-23-2012 at 09:17 AM.
Without being taboo, no, it's really not that big a deal. Those implications only exist because we let them exist. |
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Oh no, you posted while I was editing my post. D: |
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Last edited by GavinGill; 07-23-2012 at 09:25 AM.
Will reread. Expect this post to be edited in response to your newly edited post. |
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Last edited by Jesus of Suburbia; 07-23-2012 at 09:31 AM.
I think there should be less stigmatization of sex, but I don't think the aspect of sex being "special" or "important" should be erased. |
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Last edited by Savy; 07-24-2012 at 02:17 AM.
It's not a great idea for school kids to have kids - it screws up lots of lives. You shouldn't be encouraged to have kids until you're no longer a dependent yourself and have some way of supporting a family. If a high school sophmore gets pregnant who's going to take responsibility, both for childrearing and financially? It's kind of forced onto the parents. Most 16 year olds aren't mature enough to think these things through - just listen to how they argue with parents. It's quite common for teenagers to make impulse decisions - especially since their hormones are raging - without taking the right precautions. |
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Last edited by Darkmatters; 07-24-2012 at 03:00 AM.
That's why birth control exists. Like Savy said, abstinence is no longer the only form of birth control (not that it ever has been, but birth control is a lot more plentiful nowadays). The problem is that we still have people who tell our kids that condoms are sin, or that they "don't protect the heart", or that sex in itself is sin, because they think sex is Bad/Criminal/Unacceptable/Degrading/Sinful/Immoral. |
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If birth control could be 100% effective, then it would be absolutely no problem to encourage kids to have sex all they want. But it isn't. Women can forget to take their pills or lose them (or not take them on purpose), condoms break, and sometimes you just want to go bareback. Feels so much better - and if alcohol is involved, who wants to worry about consequences? Fuck it - let's just do it - nothing's gonna happen, right? |
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What is the actual effectiveness rate of condoms? |
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Two things: |
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