 Originally Posted by IAmCoder
I am sorry if I offended you with any of the questions.
Not at all, although I think they're biased a bit. (you ask if people were raised republican, for example. But you don't ask if they were raised liberal or democrat. A better question might be - what is your political background? That would be neutral. Even still, it's not appropriate because political background does not have to determine one's stance on pro-life or pro-choice matters. I actually know people who are pro-life democrats. It's also something personal that not everyone is going to want to answer.
Also, I think it's a great idea if you start the questions with yourself. 
 Originally Posted by IAmCoder
I wanted to point out that all the eggs in a women are produced while they are still in the womb and that women are born with millions of eggs. Men produce several million sperm per day. So there is no scarcity of either and a chance encounter of the two is not as rare as it may seem.
Yes.
And when they encounter, they make a new human being.
 Originally Posted by IAmCoder
If they were using contraceptive, then no - the activity was not intended or known to create the situation.
Yes it is known. Most people know that contraception is never 100%. In fact, when you get non-over-the-counter contraception, they tell you its exact effectiveness. It's also on the box of over-the-counter forms.
When you have sex, you understand that there is a RISK of pregnancy. Even with contraception. That is a risk you choose to take, knowing the potential consequences. I say it is wrong for us to put ourselves in that situation if we think we would get an abortion afterwards.
Abortion should never be used as a secondary form of contraception.
 Originally Posted by IAmCoder
This is amazing. I had meant to ask if your opinion had changed in any way since the start of the discussion, and this is great to hear.
What about your understanding that denying access to safe, legal abortions leads to more illegal, dangerous abortions - has your awareness on that changed? We had this exchange at the beginning:
No, because I don't think abortion is the correct solution to this problem. I think we can do better than that; better than legalizing killing our children just because some people will choose to put their lives in danger. We can do better than that.
Education would be a big help. I support sex ed, but we're not teaching our kids about abortion. We need to keep up efforts at educating everyone about the DANGERS of abortion; especially unregulated or self-inflicted abortion.
I am a middle school science teacher who teaches sex ed. And yet? NOT ONE THING in my curriculum, NOT ONE THING is about abortion. I am not allowed to stray from the curriculum in that regard.
Why don't we teach our children about what abortion is, and how, if performed unregulated or self-inflicted, it can be dangerous and deadly. We need to be teaching them this. That would go a long way to prevent people from attempting abortions illegally.
Free resources would be a big help. Making sure that pregnant people in stressful situations get the support they need. Pregnancy Crisis Centers around the nation make it their mission to do this. And yet, liberal Senators (Elizabeth Warren and Bob Menendez) are trying to shut them down [see my video posted earlier in response to Summerlander's first post]. They want to shut them down because to them, they are a threat to abortion clinics. They outnumber abortion clinics 3 to 1 (according to Elizabeth Warren). But I say they are part of the SOLUTION. They are trying to HELP women, GIVE women free services that they need, and give them an actual choice. Shutting these services down is not pro-choice. It is pro-abortion.
Changing the culture would also be a big help. We need to make it our mission to erase the stigma around being young and pregnant, or single and pregnant. We need to make it easier for pregnant women and mothers to continue their degrees and career paths. Although, I think we're in a really good place with this, so far, as most mothers can do both, but we do need more. More than that, we need to educate women about the idea that they CAN do both, to help alleviate their fears.
However, no matter what, there will be some people, that despite knowing the dangers, will attempt to give themselves an abortion. That is very sad, but it should not determine the law. Because it is a choice. No one HAS to give themselves a dangerous illegal abortion. No one has to do that. That's a choice. Just like murder, suicide, driving drunk, doing drugs, robbing a store, and anything else illegal, is also a choice. We don't change the laws because people will break them.
Now it's only fair that I ask you, since you asked me. Have you found areas that you have shifted?
 Originally Posted by IAmCoder
I'd like to highlight some stats from the WHO: ... Do you believe the World Health Organization?
I believe they have a bias, and it shows.
In Texas, where they enacted an abortion ban after heartbeat detection, the number of abortions decreased by half.
In Ireland, where they banned abortion for many years, number of abortions increased DRAMATICALLY when they legalized it again in 2018.
"Legal abortions in Ireland
Every year, the government publishes the number of pregnancies terminated. Those between 2014 and 2018 took place under the Protection of Life During Pregnancy Act 2013, with those taking place under the Health (Regulation of Termination of Pregnancy) Act 2018 being published from 2019:
Year Number of abortions
2014 26
2015 26
2016 25
2017 15
2018 32
2019 6,666 <--- (first year legalized is here. 6666, I find that really weird. Like, make me want to go to church and become a believer weird!)
2020 6,577
2021 4,577"
Source is wikipedia.
Remember, your WHO statistics are coming from all around the world, but especially, third would countries. Look at your sources from that site:
2. Ganatra B, Gerdts C, Rossier C, Johnson Jr B R, Tuncalp Ö, Assifi A et al. Global, regional, and subregional classification of abortions by safety, 2010–14: estimates from a Bayesian hierarchical model. The Lancet. 2017 Sep.
3. Say L, Chou D, Gemmill A, Tunçalp Ö, Moller AB, Daniels J et al. Global causes of maternal death: a WHO systematic analysis. Lancet Glob Health. 2014 Jun; 2(6):e323-33.
4. Singh S, Maddow-Zimet I. Facility-based treatment for medical complications resulting from unsafe pregnancy termination in the developing world, 2012: a review of evidence from 26 countries. BJOG 2015; published online Aug 19. DOI:10.1111/1471-0528.13552.
Of course they are more dangerous in the developing world. Illegal abortionists do as they will, it's not like in the U.S. where we police people [illegal abortionists with illegal clinics] who break the law. In many of these countries, illegal abortionists can do what they want. Additionally, you're talking about countries that don't have clean running water and proper medical care to begin with. Of course they're going to have more deaths.
But. To equate those numbers to what could *hypothetically* happen in the United States? That's not fair, or accurate. We're not a third world country. We DO have clean running water. We DO have good medical care for people in danger of losing their lives. We DO police and arrest people committing illegal acts, which would include illegal abortionists (just to clarify, I'm talking about illegal abortion clinics. Most illegal abortions are done through illegal clinics).
"A recent study estimated that banning abortion in the U.S. would lead to a 21% increase in the number of pregnancy-related deaths overall and a 33% increase among Black women, simply because staying pregnant is more dangerous than having an abortion. Increased deaths due to unsafe abortions or attempted abortions would be in addition to these estimates. "
"As of 2018, the US had an estimated 17.4 deaths per 100,000 live births" Source.
From what I could gather from Wikipedia, the risk of dying from pregnancy in the United States is currently 0.000174% (2018 data). That's very low. It's easy to manipulate statistics to look scarier than they really are.
Is that perfect? No. Nothing is 100% safe. Driving certainly isn't. And this is part of where I've shifted. If a woman, for example, does know about serious health issues that she has, than that's a case where early termination of the pregnancy might be necessary. That's not the case for most women, though. And if you don't have any serious health problems, it's not justifiable.
Just as an aside, if this is a risk you know you can't take, because you know you have health issues, then perhaps you (or your partner) should consider permanent sterilization. That also is an option. And it's probably more humane.
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 Originally Posted by IAmCoder
I'd also like to point out that we aren't pro-abortion. No one is. It is just about letting women and medical professionals have the choice.
I'll happily call you pro-choice rather than pro-abortion if you prefer. I don't mean to be offensive. Part of the reason I have been using that term is because I'm quite mad at Senators Elizabeth Warren and Bob Menendez for wanting to shut down Pregnancy Crisis Centers that help women. That is pro-abortion. Maybe you aren't. I hope not.
 Originally Posted by IAmCoder
What would it take to get you to watch Dirty Dancing and share your review here? Or re-watch it in light of everything that has come up in this discussion if you have already seen it? I would be very interested to hear how you feel when watching it.
Ehhh.. do I have to? (lol) No, but seriously, if there's a point that you wanted to bring up from the movie (which I have seen, but it was so long ago that I don't really remember much. I do remember something about an abortion), you can just type it out.
 Originally Posted by IAmCoder
I'd argue that you put a condition on it by requiring the egg to be fertilized. A just slightly more puritan view would be that a woman shouldn't be allowed to take any contraceptives...
This is not a problem of a "condition" being put on. This is a problem of when life begins; when a new human being has been created. Life does not begin before fertilization. Life begins after fertilization. And I don't make those rules. 
Seriously, though, this is basic science here. Not to sound condescending (sorry if I do). I teach science, I teach cells, I teach genetics and heredity...
Unfertilized eggs are not a separate organism yet. They do not grow, they do not develop, they are genetically of the mother only.
A fertilized egg is when new human life begins. Now we have a new human in the equation. At this point, the egg is now dividing, growing, has its own unique DNA, etc. Now this is a separate human being from the mother. Now human rights should be starting.
I don't have a problem with contraception. Contraception doesn't kill a human being that's already come into existence.
 Originally Posted by IAmCoder
Please stop likening this to the holocaust.
I'm not trying to make light of the Holocaust. And I'm not trying to offend anyone, either. I would never do that. That's not what I'm doing here, and you know that.
I am comparing abortion to ALL human rights violations, not just the Holocaust. That includes all forms of genocide, slavery, segregation, eugenics programs, etc. Anytime a human wasn't considered a person. My main point is not to insult or offend anyone. My main point is to show that HISTORY has a habit of turning a blind eye to human rights violations and atrocities. These things happen in our world, and people, masses of people, turn a blind eye, or simply don't see the evil right in front of them.
I ask you to try and relax a little bit. Understand that I'm trying to make a point. You don't have to agree with it, but don't take it out of context, or make it into something it's not.
 Originally Posted by IAmCoder
Your memes are offensive and should not be tolerated.
They are political statements. You don't have to look at them if you don't want to. I put them in a spoiler. Just don't click on them.
 Originally Posted by IAmCoder
Your intolerance of letting women choose what to do with their body and wipe out unwanted sperm is the slippery slope that is being abused for the rise of fascism:
It's not wiping out unwanted sperm. It's wiping out human beings. Yes. I am intolerant of people choosing to kill other people. That's not a slippery slope. What is a slippery slope is putting various conditions on human rights. What is a slippery slope is trying to determine a specific age or stage of development for when a child can no longer be killed.
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I want to point one other thing out. This whole time we've been so intensely focused on embryos. That's what you guys narrow in on - the very very very tip of my argument. But let's talk about some issues you might actually agree with. Let's talk about 2nd and 3rd trimester abortions. These are serious. Now we're not just talking about taking the life a human, but also adding cruelty and suffering on top of it.
You have dismemberment, live dismemberment. We're talking about forcefully pulling off the legs and arms of a fetus, crushing its skull, while it's still alive in the womb and able to feel pain. This is legal, guys. No pains meds for the baby. In the room next door? They're trying to save the baby who was just born at the exact same fetal age.
In the 3rd trimester, you have babies injected with lethal injection - digoxin. This causes the baby to go through extreme pain as it suffers a heart attack inside the womb, and then is delivered dead.
We have babies being born alive from failed abortions. LEGALLY, they are allowed to let these living viable babies lie unattended in metal dishes until they die of natural causes. It's not even humane. Even though the baby is born, it's not considered a human. It's considered "an abortion." Even though it's alive and born.
You have full term babies being born, and while their head is kept in the birth canal, and being suffocated, the abortionist drives a tool into its skull. OR, as the baby's head comes out, it is crushed with forceps. Then, and this has actually happened, sometimes the babies still survive! Then, these babies, born alive with their skulls partially crushed, have to endure up to 2-3 days of torture as they die slowly in a metal pan.
Guys, wake up. You wanna talk about embryos all day? For real. You think that's the biggest deal right now? I mean, yeah, I think they should be protected but, the big deal is 2nd and 3rd trimester abortions. These are cruel. Cruelty in action.
And we can do better than that. By the way, most of Europe bans abortions after the first trimester (with exceptions for medical issues).
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