We all have advice to contribute...so here's mine. I'm going to tell you some of my experiences to make this relatable.
On those RCs...make sure they mean something to you, that you will really recognize them and be able to remember them in a dream. If it's not personal it won't work. The tutorials have several options for RCs but they can fail just as much as they can succeed. If you don't connect to them try one that works for you.
Example: For me, the color blue is a common dream sign that I recognize. Many significant objects or detailed items are blue in my dream. I can look at vivid blue objects when I'm awake and touch them or examine them. This often helps me become lucid.
WBTB is a great way to achieve lucidity, and I found more success with that method than any other. This works well for me because I like to stay up late, and during the months between September and June I have to stay on a weekly schedule to get my kids up and to school on time. When they go to school I go back to sleep in my living room chair in a reclined position. This works great for WBTB and on a few occasions it has led me to WILD. Some of that may come from the different location for sleeping.
With my WBTB schedule and potentially yours it shouldn't be too difficult to set yourself up for an occasional REM-rebound, skipping out on a sleep period on some mornings to give yourself a better opportunity to make the WBTB work the following day.
WILD can be elusive though I find that having a lot of external stimuli that you're not accustomed to can really help your chances. For me, I sleep late during the summer, but noisy contractors and yard workers often begin work between 7 and 8A.M. I don't always feel like getting up when I hear their noises disturb my slumber, but I do manage to become aware enough for either DEILD or WILD. Though I frequently despise their early-morning activities they do provide the stimulus I need to exit sleep, become aware and then move into a new dream cycle.
So, how long should you stay awake for your WBTB? The typical answer is 5 to 60 minutes. I think it may vary by the person and what motivates you towards sleep. I achieve mine by staying awake anywhere from 5 minutes to nearly 90 minutes, depending on the time of year and my schedule. What you do is up to you. You need to maintain awareness but not become so involved in staying awake that you can't go back to sleep at all. Are you the type of person that instantly becomes aware when you awake, or do you find it difficult to become alert unless you get out of bed and engage in activity? The more you have to work at awareness the harder it likely will be to achieve your WBTB and WILD.
You want one thing that you can do right now to increase chances of lucidity? Believe you will have a lucid dream...KNOW that you will have a lucid dream, and keep this thought in mind day and night. It's very common not to have a lucid dream, but the more you think about what you want to experience and how to achieve it the greater your chances are of succeeding, and this can only happen if you keep up a positive attitude.
I wish you success.
Welcome to the forum, and happy dreaming! If you have any questions about this or other dream issues please feel free to send me a private message by clicking on my profile picture.
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