You should definitely check out the Beyond Dreaming forum:
Beyond Dreaming

I haven't had any luck controlling reality the way I would control a dream, but that doesn't mean I will ever stop trying As Iamfivebyfive said, the increased awareness of our relationship with the world gives us more control over life. We are influencing the world around us every moment of every day. It is easy to forget, but lucid dreaming helps remind us. Anything that encourages mindfulness and awareness will give us more power over life. Be aware of the decisions you make, your actions, and how they alter the world.