So according to most tutorials on DILD, the key to it is to look for dream signs and always question reality, and that if you question reality enough, you'll start doing it in dreams too.

My problem with dream signs is that that I'm never conscious enough to realize that they're even in my dream while its happening. No matter how vivid a dream I have, it's always as if I'm just watching everything happen.


That being said, my only option to rely on is RCing and question ing reality. I've been doing so frequently during the day for the past 2-3 weeks. Not once has a RC showed up in my dream. This is causing me to lose enthusiasm, and therefore RC less in waking life.

About how long should it take for me to start questioning reality in my dreams? And waht should I do in real life to make myself better at it?