Lucid dreaming To Do What You can't in Real Life, gives happiness

**voByJunior2013** · 11-29-2013 04:54 AM

I'm so happy about Lucid dreaming because it's a way to do what you can't ever have in Real life.

In my case i always feel sad when i go out in downtown or whatever because i'm disabled and i've never had a GF or female friend. ANd women are not interested in me and they will never be because that's how it is. Usually nondisabled women don't want relationships with disabled guys. And i'm not disabled just physical, i'm also cognitive and speech. So yea women my age with career lifes and mature and stuff, they will never ever like me. They think i'm a loser.I'm in my 30s by the way.

Anyways in dreaming and Lucid dreaming im able to have company of females , talk to them, share activities with them, and yes Sex too. In real life i can't even have sx because i'm disabled from the male parts too. But anyways, that's so nice i can get female friends in the dreamworld.

By the way, although i have never Had a Lucid dream , for some reason I have good INTENT power because i can say "I will meet girls in my dream" and it always works. always. I don't really know why but it seems my mind does like to listen to that command. I've had female dreams alot just by saying it prior to going to sleep in mantras.

But anyways not just Girls. I used to run and excersise when i had good knees. i can't do it anymore nor i can do fast action excersise but I'm looking forward to do some moves and Boxing matches in my Lucid dreams and Karate matches and stuff. That'd be cool.

Also i like to sing and perform some kind of stuff in front of an audience in my dream. I'm generally a quiet person and don't do public speaking but it would be cool if i could get the attention of an audience and they like what i do. Magic tricks or singing or whatever

That's what i wanted to say.

thanks

**gab** · 11-29-2013 06:46 AM

Don't think that. Love knows no boundaries. But if you project that attitude, that's all you will attract. I'm not gonna pretend I know your situation or how you feel. This is just my personal opinion. I have seen many couples, where one partner is disabled and the other one is not. Be optimistic and project happy thoughts, if you can. Again, I'm sorry if this sounds like a stupid advice. But same is true for everybody. If you have dark thoughts, that person is not attractive. People can feel your attitude.

And yeah, doing things in LDs that you can't in waking life is awesome. I love flying. happy dreams

**Sospiro** · 11-29-2013 07:07 AM

Thanks OP.....now I'm even sadder than i was upon entering this thread.

**Sivason** · 11-29-2013 07:41 AM

This does not make me sad! You are taking steps on a path that can provide all of the things you seek. You likely have lots of spare time. Use it for this. Do not give up. someday you will be able to fly, juggle cars, have adoring women and anything else. That, and it will often feel very real. Do it, you have to do this for your future happiness. do not be discouraged if it takes months to get started, you have yeaars to explore it.

**Baron Samedi** · 11-30-2013 08:25 PM

I am physically disabled from a car accident, but not mentally, though my severe chronic pain makes it hard for me to think and speak sometimes. I used to do a lot more before the accident, but now I can't do as much. I love dreams. Dreams have definitely improved my overall mental health and happiness, over time. Sometimes nice dreams depressed me when I woke up because of me wanting the dream to be like my waking life.
I personally think you can find love in dreams, have dream lovers that are real sentient spirits, maybe even people that you are sharing a dream with.
My wife is also physically disabled, and she understands my pain.

**voByJunior2013** · 11-30-2013 09:12 PM

Originally Posted by WakingNomad

I am physically disabled from a car accident, but not mentally, though my severe chronic pain makes it hard for me to think and speak sometimes. I used to do a lot more before the accident, but now I can't do as much. I love dreams. Dreams have definitely improved my overall mental health and happiness, over time. Sometimes nice dreams depressed me when I woke up because of me wanting the dream to be like my waking life.
I personally think you can find love in dreams, have dream lovers that are real sentient spirits, maybe even people that you are sharing a dream with.
My wife is also physically disabled, and she understands my pain.

Awesome. You're great. Thanks for your response. le'ts dream!!!! sadly plenty of my dreams so far tend to turn into nightmares. I'm trying to change that.