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My 'ego' talk to me, does anyone else notice this? |
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Last edited by Dthoughts; 11-19-2014 at 04:54 PM.
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You are not your thoughts...
I can definitely relate to this, and I think everyone does experience it from time to time. For me, a big part of my life is becoming a musician, so its not surprising that this ego stuff makes its appearance to me the most when I'm pursuing music. It can be through cello practice, performance, or just talking or interacting with other musicians. Also happened sometimes in class whenever my thoughts would drift. |
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Very interesting topic! What I have noticed over time is that when I was younger, I had no REAL idea what ego was. Therefore, most of the time what I said or did really didn't have a whiplashing effect on me. I rarely reflected on things much. Now, I notice when I'm around people who I don't know very well I sometimes feel like I need to let them know WHO I am or what I am about. Before I do this I always get the memo from my brain to keep quiet, lol. The times I don't, I know before I speak I will regret it. And sometime's I still go on with saying what I wanted the person to know about me. I usually immediately feel the pain from this choice. I try to be humble, but fear of rejection usually kicks my ego into full gear. Usually it's all work related. But, it is truly funny how your true self will give you warnings before you open your mouth, and how you know you should listen. But for me a good majority of the time I don't. Shame on me! lol |
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If the ego is a program, it's a strange one. When I was in a horrible state of mind in my later teen years my ego seemed to have malfunctioned and worked against me. When I believed in Christianity and was horrified of hell and the selling one's soul thing in particular, I used to have horrible battles with that source of thoughts in my head. It was always thinking to me to sell my soul, and then with the thoughts I could control I had to start ridiculous chants to try to block it out. But then the chants effects would start to fade over time so I would have to find new chants. I felt like I was always on the edge of selling my soul like the ego was thinking for me to do, so I had to resort to bigger distractions, and when the cat scratched me that made it stop for a day so I got the delusion that I was possessed and that opening my skin up sucked the demon out of my skin like a vacuum. So I took up scratching my legs with a razor if my ego got too bad. But of course I had to do worse and worse since the effects fade like drugs so you have to do more drugs to get the same effect as the first time. So It ended up I was scratching my skin open all the way around both my entire shins and calves. One night my mom did something stupid that threw me into I guess an episode by bringing a man I hated into the house to have sex with less than 2 months after my dad got kicked out the house from the police because he tortured us and wouldn't let us leave the house. Man I was in my room, laying on my bed and I could hear everything so loud and tunneled directly to me, so I put my mp3 player headphones on to try to blast out the noise but my ego was louder so I took them off and then the my room, my entire room started swaying back and forth and I felt sick and dizzy so I had to sit on the floor and try to rock back and forth to counter act the rooms violent swaying and say lalallallalal over and over to try to stop how badly my ego was trying to get me to sell my soul. So then I grabbed the razor, scratched every bit of lower leg I could, panicked even more because for the first time it had absolutely no effect on my ego for shutting up. So I went into the living room and my mom was out there and she said something horrible, so I got mad and ran to my room blacked out and I remember I grabbed the razor and made 3 huge slashing movements on my left arm and the 3rd one made my arm split open huge all butterflied and that put me in shock and woke me up from the black out because I never cut myself, just scratched, and it didn't bleed at all, I just asked my sister if she could get me a band-aid. That's when it all stopped, my ego never acted up again, but I thought in my delusion I rid all demons and wasn't possessed anymore. It never bled so I had a delusion that the man brought his own demons that were huge and they all went into to me and attacked me, and the scratches weren't big enough openings to suck them out, but the huge cut on my arm sucked them right out and they burned my flesh upon leaving and that's why it didn't bleed. I remember I was horrified that it didn't bleed. Look what my ego did because of my beliefs and state of thoughts. I created my own hell. Now my ego seems to function as everyone elses, it turns everything I get into, into an identity. I'm not sure of the purpose of that. If I recall correctly, a research paper that said the majority of mentally ill people are extremely religious and their hallucinations and delusions relate to such. I wonder if their problem is as mine was, their ego reacting to the thoughts of fear from religion, and the trigger of creating a hell being a big negative experience. |
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Last edited by Narwhal; 11-21-2014 at 08:01 PM.
Your whole mind is made in a special way,
We share the same glow.
I've noticed this since I was a child, on certain drugs (namely dissociatives and psychedelics, especially the former) I can actually have conversations with myself and different parts of my brain, or rather a single different part. In that state it can communicate in whatever manner it chooses, thought forms, concepts, images, intuitive feelings, scenarios, and even using my own thought language to converse back with me. Otherwise, I've always been very aware of my thought processes and feelings and have been able to easily separate myself from them and analyze them. |
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ha,ha,ha,. I get it from time to time. I call it my Angel side or devil side. depending on what advice I get. one time it seemed like they were arguing about something I should or should not do, and "I" had to tell them both to shut up. LOL |
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Last edited by kadie; 11-28-2014 at 08:59 AM.
Your ego didn't malfunction, you just had conflicting paradigms/world-views. The downward spiral led you toward introspection and even to doing something (like cutting yourself) that allowed you to believe that you had been healed. As long as it makes sense to you, you are healed. Whatever (rather large, I'm guessing--not trying to be condescending though, I've been there too man) problem(s) you had were taken care of, at least for the time being, so honestly your mind devised a way to help yourself, and it worked. |
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