Hello OwenLucid. Is it possible for you to go to bed a little earlier so your dad doesn't startle you awake? If you have time, go to bed a little earlier, and then wake up to an alarm or naturally so you have time to think about and jot down your dreams.

Since you have used MILD, have you noticed any recurring dream signs? I agree with Ophelia, it'd be nice to read what your first couple of experiences were like!