Great Idea! I love my granny but sometimes she just doesn't 'get it'. Some ear plugs and a sleep mask will definitely do me some good lol. |
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I see! It sounds like your grandma's night owl habits are really becoming a bit of an obstacle to your sleep. I'm going to assume that this is a situation that won't resolve itself with a simple conversation, since I figure you'd have already gotten past it otherwise. |
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Great Idea! I love my granny but sometimes she just doesn't 'get it'. Some ear plugs and a sleep mask will definitely do me some good lol. |
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I am getting the hang of DEILD. I pulled it off today and would just like to explain how I do it now, but this is just my explanation and it may or may not work for you but it may help someone out. So first I wake up and I make sure I stay still. Then I start to take slightly deeper breaths but not enough to completely fill my lungs just a bit more air than usual. I then focus on just relaxing and NOT the vibrations that I usually feel. As I focus on relaxing I begin to feel the vibes coming, and as a few minutes go by they become more intense. My biggest mistake was focusing on these vibrations too much, instead focus on breathing and keeping your body relaxed however I believe it is ok to use these vibes as a guideline as to when to enter the dream state but don't place your focus on them. As you focus on relaxing and breathing, when you notice that these vibes have stopped or have significantly slowed down then I immedietly 'roll' out of my bed. |
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Your method is very close to what I do. The only difference is that I don't focus on breathing. For some reason I feel like I can't breath when I do that. Most of the time I go into a sort of relaxed meditation. Sometimes I "roll" but mostly I imagine my feet floating up on over the bed. When I feel my feet on the floor I am suddenly out of bed and walking. I don't really visualize during DEILD either. I think I am starting to change because I don't always have the vibrations. I have found that sometimes I completely bypass that and go into a dream. You are so right that you should never focus on the vibrations. Yes I do note it as a marker but nothing more. I think I may try the breathing thing because sometimes I think I get a bit hasty with getting out of my body; it doesn't always go smoothly. |
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Last edited by Xanous; 10-20-2012 at 12:06 AM.
"Oh, and everything is not what it seems
This life is but a dream"
Breakers Roar by Sturgill Simpson
Excellent discussion! First of all, congratulations Daredevilpwn on a great lucid and on zeroing in so well on what works for you in DEILD. I think you'll be glad you wrote these thoughts down later on when you're trying to fine tune your technique and remember how this felt. |
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To answer your question, it doesn't matter what the circumstance is when I wake up. If I wake up with a vivid recall I would try an do the technique, if I wake up with little to nothing of what I dreamed of I still do the technique, for me it doesn't really matter. Though I do believe dream recall helps with doing the DEILD since it helps maker a smoother transition from dreaming to waking life. |
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I had this very long non-lucid yesterday, I woke up and I was still but I was in an uncomfortable position so I couldn't DEILD, maybe it was for the best since I would've forgotten this interesting non lucid. Here it is That dream was from yesterday though. Here is the more recent one |
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I've found that if you can hold onto that dream feeling, you can move around and still be able to re-enter a dream. It is a bit tricky, and it also helps to have a simple image to focus on for re-entry. I'm no expert, but ive been attempting DIELD lately with increasingly positive results. Its a very strange state of mind to be in where you feel sleepy but you know you don't have to fall asleep. yeah.anyways. |
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I remembered quite a few dreams today. But the lucid one was pretty interesting. I had the idea of trying to speak to my inner awareness as Robert Waggoner explains in his book Gateway to the innerself the results were dissapointing. |
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I like the fact you tried to speak to you inner self. I have been meaning to try that as well. Too bad it didn't work out. |
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"Oh, and everything is not what it seems
This life is but a dream"
Breakers Roar by Sturgill Simpson
I tried to speak to my inner awareness again and I got slightly better results as well! |
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An idea, based on my own experiences: I remember things better when they are written down. Or rather, when I have read the words, versus just hearing them. I wonder what would happen if you asked your inner awareness to text you something. Or even just write the answer in the air. The point of all this is, it might be easier to remember the answer if you see it written somewhere. |
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I went to bed pretty late yesterday but I somehow managed to recall the dream in great detail, the only way I could explain this is that on that day I was doing more reality checks a lot more frequently. And by reality checks I mean sporadic awareness sessions. I used to make them two mins per session but do it every few hours but now I do them like 30 secs per session but more frequently coupled with self awareness. It's the only thing I could think of since it was the only thing that changed. It could've been something I ate or some other thing I overlooked. Anyway here is the entry |
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No, it probably wasn't something you ate. Practicing awareness during the day is THE single most important thing you can do to have a lucid. Just be careful not to wear yourself out mentally. |
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Wow I had this very long and interesting dream that was kinda lucid but not really. I think that doing the more frequent but shorter awareness sessions is already starting to manifest in my dreams. |
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It's always great to start seeing results from your efforts. That's very encouraging. GO AWARENESS WOOT! |
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Another low level lucid where I know I am dreaming but not enough to realize everyone is a part of me. This is another interesting dream. Enjoy! |
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I managed to chain 3 lucids today. I Feel pretty proud of myself today |
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Wow, nice! And that's a great tip, I never really pay attention to my positioning :O |
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Yeah, positioning is a great point DareDevilPwn...Especially if you keep the same position on a regular basis. Even knowing how you fell asleep is a good thing when those transitions come up. The last lucid I had started with me being in the opposite position that I was in reality. Although that was already in the dream so this is probably a bit more effective for transitions. Good stuff! |
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Yes! I realized I was dreaming two times today. So two DILDS! My practices are working nicely. For those that want to know. Earlier what I used to do was become aware of my senses and environment then do a reverse reality check, but a few days ago I decided that it would make more sense if I did the reverse reality check first (what am I doing, where am I, where am I going, etc). Before focusing on the senses and environment. Here are the two dreams. |
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Very smart thinking. I think I will incorporate this idea. Congrats on the lucids! |
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Thanks. Good luck to ya! |
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Sorry. I got a little lazy with updating this. Just wanted to let you know I haven't given up. |
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If I am not mistaken, learning lucid dreaming actually changes the brain. The same happens when we learn new things; neuroplasticity its called. That means our brains are changing shape. So don't be discouraged when your brain takes a break. |
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