Thread: Want to learn how to LD for Sex Fantasy

You know your no different then me. I like to think of myself as being a good guy who does it when need be. Well your gonna have to learn the basics. Its not easy to have Sex in a dream. Holding the orgasm and what not can be tricky.


Edit: I love Monica Bullichi.

Meh, you're not a pervert, you're a human being. Welcome, by the way.

And yesh, dream sex is great. I can't say I've done it while lucid, and some people definitely struggle with lucid sex. One of the hardest things is remaining calm enough to not get thrown out of the dream. Practice is really your best teacher. While you go at it, focus on as many sensations as you can. Concentrating on, say, the tactile feeling of your partner's skin or the way she smells can really help anchor you in the dream. Perhaps the best thing you can do is take a sort of a casual hit-and-run approach. If you don't get too wrapped up in it (so to speak), it makes it easier to not get carried away and chucked back into waking land.

If you can manage to not wake up, then the hard part is done. Summoning someone and banging them after that is comparably quite simple. I personally prefer the "portal" style of summoning.

Footballgod, have you ever had a LD before?

What!? Who here DOESN'T have lucid dream sex? Taboo? Are you crazy or have you just not bothered to read any threads on this forum. I don't think I've ever seen anyone called a pervert here for sharing their sex dream.

And Mario, you're giving the guy advice about lucid dream sex, and you've never even had it!? Srsly?

Originally Posted by Aquanina

What!? Who here DOESN'T have lucid dream sex?

People who don't lucid dream.

And Mario, you're giving the guy advice about lucid dream sex, and you've never even had it!? Srsly?

Not sure if serious, but yes, those are the most common recommendations found on this site and others like it. Whoever said experience was the prerequisite to knowledge?

Originally Posted by Aquanina

What!? Who here DOESN'T have lucid dream sex? Taboo? Are you crazy or have you just not bothered to read any threads on this forum. I don't think I've ever seen anyone called a pervert here for sharing their sex dream.

And Mario, you're giving the guy advice about lucid dream sex, and you've never even had it!? Srsly?

Originally Posted by Aquanina

What!? Who here DOESN'T have lucid dream sex? Taboo? Are you crazy or have you just not bothered to read any threads on this forum. I don't think I've ever seen anyone called a pervert here for sharing their sex dream.

And Mario, you're giving the guy advice about lucid dream sex, and you've never even had it!? Srsly?

Actually when I first came across this forum I did a quick search and actually not that many threads about Lucid Sex dreams popped up. Even the thread about "tell about your lucid sex dreams" only had people typed a few lines but nobody really told in detailed. OH and yes I read quite a few people, not sure if they are women or not, say the pervert word or make it like it's a taboo after only the first day of searching this forum. Oh well, everyone is entitle to their opinion.

Money, power, and sex, lots and lots of it, that is fantasy and we all have thought about it. Love, family, goals, and career, that's real life.

Oh and NO, I have never had LD, never even attempted. I have always been one to have crazy dreams, and I remember them quite well too. I was talking to a coworker about the Movie Inception and he told me to google lucid dreaming. It may sound stupid, but I feel like a door has just opened up in my life after finding out about this. I believe I can do it if I practice enough, since I have always been a person that thinks deeply dreams. I tend to remember my dreams too. I've always joked about me day dreaming too much, even since a little kid. Now how cool would it be to take my day dreams, into a Lucid Dream.

I'm going to start studying this week and then hope to start practicing soon. Man I'm going bang my 9th grade teacher lol.

Welcome to DV!

Yay sex!

Originally Posted by Mario92

Not sure if serious, but yes, those are the most common recommendations found on this site and others like it. Whoever said experience was the prerequisite to knowledge?

This eventually creates the "I heard it from a guy who heard it from a guy who heard it from a guy who heard it from a guy"-problem:p And with that, the possible creation of misinformation, which is something people new to lucid dreaming don't need
No offense though, help is always appreciated, but I hope you see my point:p

On topic: Can't really say much about it since I haven't got enough LD's under my belt, but as the rest has said, I don't think there's anyone here that (well, in their dreams) can avoid the major temptations:p Including, but not limited to, sex. So no need to worry, the fact that you might find little about lucid dreaming sex is probably because it's something alot of people want to keep private But it's perfectly normal of you to want this, and perfectly understandable as well:p

Oh and also: YOU PERV!(j/k)

This eventually creates the "I heard it from a guy who heard it from a guy who heard it from a guy who heard it from a guy"-problem:p And with that, the possible creation of misinformation, which is something people new to lucid dreaming don't need

Heheh, you really want to go there? I've spent the last year and some months learning how to LD from dozens of sources, and certainly not the ones going "OMG dudez you gotta check this out, this one obscure method really worked for my friend!" No, these are from member-recommended, site-recommended tutorials from reputable sources and talented lucid dreamers. The principles applied in the techniques I supplied closely correlate to other standard, proven effective methods of dream control.

What's more, the basis of your argument is purely ad hominem. Your entire case against my points is that I don't have experience. You offer nothing to show that my points are wrong or misleading. All I did was essentially condense and paraphrase some key tutorials and valid points made by members who have experience. They were kind enough to share their experience and write it down so that others may learn from it. The experiences of these members overlap enough to establish some general points of advice, as listed above. Are they a complete picture of what lucid sex is and how to go about having it and controlling it? No. But, they are excellent starting points, especially for a new lucid dreamer.

Now, before you attack my qualifications again, know that experience is not the be-all, end-all of knowledge, nor is it something that qualifies one person to dispense advice more than another person. Under certain circumstances, it may be of advantage, but my post is no less valuable than one from a long-term LDer. Next time, consider who you are speaking to.

Oh boy, you totally got me there!

No srsly. Apparently you haven't gotten my point then

Originally Posted by Mario92

You offer nothing to show that my points are wrong or misleading.

That was not my intent either. Your points were probably valid, and correct. I wouldn't know because I haven't been there. I was merely pointing out that you should hand out (secondhand) knowledge with caution, especially if you haven't been able to but it into practice.

If my car breaks down, and I have the choice between someone who has been theoretically studying about cars for "the last year and some months", or a dude who has worked in a garage for years, I'm going to take it to the garage. The comparison doesn't work completely but again, I hope you get my point

No need to be condescending. We're all here for the same thing.

chill out guys, LOL, I don't want a LD of two guys going at it hahahahaha.

Anyways, some of the LD people are sharing doesn't seem like they have total control. Reading it, makes me believe it is not a true LD. Most stories I've read the dream starts out like a random dream, and then they see a hot chick and bang them. Some times they wake up or the hot chick suddenly leaves.

I'm hoping somebody here has the ability to create their own place, dream about a specific chick, and have the ability to control what they want to do. Have the ability to know they are dreaming and nothings off limits and just enjoy everything and anything they want to do.

Anyone here can do this? An expert as the call it.

Welcome to lucid dreaming, footballgod!

Lucid sex isn't taboo or looked down upon - it's great and a perfect way to live out your fantasies. No one's going to call you a pervert for having natural human instincts. The reason you don't see many people talking about lucid sex is that they've found better things to do. That may sound incomprehensible to you now, but you're coming from the perspective of real life, where sex is probably the best thing in the world. In lucid dreaming though, there's so much more.

You won't believe me now, but you're probably going to find after lucid dreaming for a while that there are better things to do than bang Monica Bellucci. That's definitely awesome and I bet everyone would love to do it, but if you think about it, you have the opportunity to ANYTHING. Why waste your dreamtime doing something you can do in real life (I'm assuming that your wife is at least tolerable, since you married her )? If sex with the most gorgeous women in the world is the best thing you can think of, by all means go at it. Do whatever makes you happy, man. But most people find something that's even more fun, like fighting a zombie apocalypse or murdering their boss or even vacationing on some tropical island. It's your dream and you can do WHATEVER you want.

And yes, it is possible to fully control your dream. It takes a lot of practice (months and maybe even years) but eventually you get to pick the location, people, time of day, weather, etc. You get to choose everything about the dream, but it takes time to learn the skill. Of course, it's definitely worth it. You can summon beautiful women who want you more than anything else and will bow to your every desire. The world is yours.

Welcome to lucid dreaming, man!

Pretty much anything is possible in lucids. But, I've had more realistic and better feeling sex in non lucids than I've had in lucids. That's because someone always wakes me up within a minute of me being lucid, so I try and rush everything which makes me panic. So don't rush, it's bad for controlling the environment and other pesky dream characters that will try and interfere. And also don't worry about people seeing you, just focus on and enjoy the experience. What you worry about tends to happen in dreams. Seriously I've had my whole family banging on the door trying to force it open while I've had lucid dream sex. not fun.

Do you want you wife to be in your dream? I think if you daydream about it right before you take a nap it'll continue into your dream.

Originally Posted by footballgod

I'm hoping somebody here has the ability to create their own place, dream about a specific chick, and have the ability to control what they want to do. Have the ability to know they are dreaming and nothings off limits and just enjoy everything and anything they want to do.

Of course. Many of us.

You seem to make a lot of assumptions based off of 1 or 2 threads you've read. If you're serious about learning to lucid dream, widen your gaze.

Originally Posted by footballgod

Anyways, some of the LD people are sharing doesn't seem like they have total control. Reading it, makes me believe it is not a true LD. Most stories I've read the dream starts out like a random dream, and then they see a hot chick and bang them. Some times they wake up or the hot chick suddenly leaves.

I'm hoping somebody here has the ability to create their own place, dream about a specific chick, and have the ability to control what they want to do. Have the ability to know they are dreaming and nothings off limits and just enjoy everything and anything they want to do.

Anyone here can do this? An expert as the call it.

Lucid dreaming dosn't imply dream control. Its a skill all by its self. Lucid dream just means that you know that it is a dream. Dream control is usualy hard when you are first starting out but it gets easier as you go. You can certainly do what ever you want in the dream and lucid sex is great but I find that it just becomes a distraction from the awesomness of lucid dreams. Whenever my hormons get the best of me in a lucid it usualy just makes me waste the dream. I agree with GMoney. There are many better things to do that Monica Bellucci.

I have read plenty of people telling the lucid sex stories, I think your just not finding them. I know there are many people who feel like keeping there sex dreams privat.

I hope it's not too late to leave my two cents on the matter. No, sex is definitely not taboo here, in fact it is somewhat encouraged seeing as there is dozens of threads about it. To answer your question, yes it is very possible to fulfill your fantasy's via lucid dreaming, one problem, it takes a lot of self control and a lot of practice. When we enter dreams we are in a comatose like state, meaning that your body reacts calmly and goes along for the ride. When we are lucid dreaming we take the comatose element out of the picture and substitute it with our emotions, fears, fantasy's, etc. This all sounds great but one problem, when a person begins to get excited (often in sex) their adrenaline levels increase tremendously and as Mario92 said we are thrown out of the dream and back into reality.

Do not be ashamed for having fantasy's or wanting to fulfill them, we are all human and all humans experience this. Now, as I said earlier, to perform such fantasy's takes a lot of practice, time, and determination. Do not have the mindset that you will be having sex instantly, you will first have to learn the basics of lucid dreaming (assuming you don't know them) and work your way up to advanced techniques. Lucid dreaming is something that takes a lot of time and perseverance. If you need help with anything feel free to ask or shoot me a private message. Good luck!

i just got here. hi everyone. i just got back into LD....... ive had no lucid sex, but ive had non lucid sex. it was fun, but only because she was the most attractive thing ive ever seen, i was like o.O. but ive been lucid with the forplay but got too distracted by the girl and lost lucidity. =[...... ill have to experiment with this more though....

P.S you should probably tell your wife. i told my girlfriend about a whole bunch of dream sex, followed by waking sex.=p

Originally Posted by Aquanina

And Mario, you're giving the guy advice about lucid dream sex, and you've never even had it!? Srsly?

What Mario said sums up exactly what I do when I have lucid dream sex. Don't belittle him if he's making a good point, which he was.

P.S you should probably tell your wife. i told my girlfriend about a whole bunch of dream sex, followed by waking sex.=p

Aw hell no. Bad idea, unless you tell her that you only have dream sex with her.

Originally Posted by Mario92

Aw hell no. Bad idea, unless you tell her that you only have dream sex with her.

My GF is cool with me banging dream chicks.

Aw hell no. Bad idea, unless you tell her that you only have dream sex with her.

mine is ok with it too, we have a lot of trust.. i think it turns her on. and also maybe she will be all "i gotta prove im sexier than his dreams" *gets all kinky*

Originally Posted by XeL

My GF is cool with me banging dream chicks.

i was wondering how to make the name pop up with the quote.=p i found it=D


But yeah.......Diddo