Am I the only one here who cannot WILD?

**NakedAlbino** · 07-31-2011 05:33 PM

I am wondering if there is anyone else here who cannot WILD? Is there anyone else here who has the same problem? I can DILD so I am going to just stick to that instead.

**Mancon** · 07-31-2011 05:39 PM

Trust me, I know plenty of people who attempt WILDing but fail each time.

I think you just need the right mindset for it, be more confident, relax more, etc. Thanks to Naiya, I can WILD almost every night now. If you want, I would be willing to help you with WILDing, just send a PM!

**Bobblehat** · 07-31-2011 05:57 PM

I'm fairly sure there's no way I can WILD after 100s of attempts. Fortunately many DILDs resulted from the "failures". I've accidentally WILDed on a handful of occasions so maybe there is a way but it's not worth that amount of effort for so little chance of return. Might sound negative, but sometimes you've got to know when to give up.

**NakedAlbino** · 07-31-2011 06:38 PM

Originally Posted by Bobblehat

I'm fairly sure there's no way I can WILD after 100s of attempts. Fortunately many DILDs resulted from the "failures". I've accidentally WILDed on a handful of occasions so maybe there is a way but it's not worth that amount of effort for so little chance of return. Might sound negative, but sometimes you've got to know when to give up.

Well your not the only one, welcome to the club

**pusga** · 07-31-2011 08:16 PM

You are not alone.
No matter what I do, I cannot WILD.
But KingYoshi's WILD Technique helped me a lot.
I didn't WILD, but I got the vibrations!

**Bobblehat** · 07-31-2011 10:14 PM

Originally Posted by NakedAlbino

Well your not the only one, welcome to the club

I think you may still be in the early stages of your lucid journey NakedAlbino so there's a lot to try yet before you give up!

**siuol** · 07-31-2011 10:39 PM

yes. you are the only person i have ever known of who cannot wild.

**Puffin** · 07-31-2011 10:41 PM

I have trouble with WILD too - I've gotten SP a lot but haven't succeeded in entering a dream since last year. Then again, it's never been my strong suit.

**Taffy** · 07-31-2011 10:43 PM

You CAN WILD, you just don't WANT to.

**Puffin** · 07-31-2011 11:03 PM

Originally Posted by Anthonyyy0

You CAN WILD, you just don't WANT to.

I want to.

**ty4TheAdventure** · 07-31-2011 11:17 PM

I used to believe I couldn't WILD. But that was when I made the initial newbie mistake of attempting WILDs before getting any sleep.

You gotta find that balance after a proper WBTB. The balance between being ever-so-slightly aware and total unconsciousness. The biggest mistake you can make during a WILD is to not even try to fall asleep. Just lying still isn't enough. You can lay still on your back for hours and nothing will happen if you don't fall asleep. That's why it's so much more successful after a WBTB. You're in a state conducive to longer dreams, relaxation, and dipping into unconsciousness.

I, myself, am struggling with two problems when it comes to WILDing. The first manifests itself when I do a WBTB. For whatever reason, I tend to not be relaxed, or extremely impatient. Not good. The only way I can relax is to completely forget about the WBTB and just go to sleep. So I usually do a MILD. I wanna find a way to solve this impatience. The second is when I actually get to the dream, but then it becomes a dream control issue. lol

If you don't like WILDing, you don't have to do it. There are tons of other techniques. But if you stop trying simply because you think you CAN'T, know that you can. You just need to find the way WILDs work for you.