Thread: If you see a hot girl...

That would really depend on the setting. If it was just a girl I saw on the side walk, I'd probably just let my eyes linger for a little while as I passed her. If I noticed at all.

Yeah, totally depends on the situation. Is she with family, friends, boyfriend? Just standing there being all hot and lonesome like something from a 1-900 commercial?


Not being a hot guy myself I'm not in the habit of trying to hit on hot girls (and in my case that's women, not girls). If we're in a situation where we're standing together and neither of us is already engaged in conversation I might say something but if she's really good looking I'll probably either keep my mouth shut or stumble over my words. But that sort of depends on how she presents herself - if she's like some club freak trying to look hot then forget it - but if she seems nice and friendly then I might make small talk.

Hello is often the best pick up line

Lol. I am sorry if this sounds... Idk how to describe it.. I know that many wouldn't say much but this is important xD. I know that some would be douchebags that would hit on her, and I am sure none of you are. I will just have to be creative. It is not really that important anyway, just setting the scene in an early chapter.

I would run like hell.

No dude, you don't have to be creative. Just say hi. It contains all the confidence that will attract her to you without any of the douchebaggery that would repel her. You don't need a plan, you don't need creativity, you need to greet her and be yourself. If she brushes you off, then fuck it at least you tried. If she says hi back, start making small talk. It's that simple. Don't overthink it.

If I saw a hot girl, I would just look at her for a while, but I wouldn't be so amazed at her to the point where I see her in slow-motion and her hair is floating in the air with sparkle sparkles. I would think that there's always going to be someone more beautiful than her.

Usually, if there's a girl who's really hot, smoking hot, omgmyjawisdropping hot, we would somehow just walk in opposite directions and she would give a really long stare at me, and when she realizes I'm listening to my music, she'll still use peripheral vision and then give up.

So in a University setting, like other people have stated before, it kind of depends. If you're in a situation where a hot girl is sitting next to you, or you're sitting next to one as you're coming into lecture because most seats are filled, and all the average looking guys are afraid to sit next to her, then it's really practical to start getting to know her better because we have the same class together.

There's so many workarounds just from that notion itself.

• She can start playing dumb while she's on her Mac or PC asking me silly questions to lure me in, and then it's just like (just one scenario)
  
• I go with it instead of saying "Hi" to her and introductions first, because as I'm talking things out with her, if I start saying my name in the middle of the conversation and she does the same, we'll both most likely have a better retention of that experience because we'll associate our names through that same conversation.
  
  Which means we'll get a conditioned response where she starts using the higher pitched tone of voice and I can gradually shift between the role of being dumb and reasonably intelligent, and she'll do the same.
  
  Then if she's willing to sit next to me the next day instead of her testing to see if I'll do it, I'll reward her by talking to her again throughout class (if it's a large class mind you). The reason being is, it's better to make her feel good because the other guys probably wouldn't dare speak to her because of anxiety. By that point, she'll worry less about her looks and focus more on seeing my personality, whether or not it's pretentious.
  
  Then if she starts making light gestures of body contact for no apparent reason, I would deduce she's slightly interested in me, and things get easier from that point. Then if I ask her if she wants to make a study group, or better yet, just between us somewhere in the University like the library, study halls etc., more room to talk things out with her.
  
  It's a lot better than going to a fast food place or eating area alone because it'll feel less awkward. Then if I wanted to get her number, I wouldn't ask her directly, I would just ask her if she wants to take a picture of us hanging out together somewhere that has the atmosphere of being "studious" so it won't look like it's a date. I would ask her if she can send me the picture, and bam.
  
  >Phone number.
  >Pic.
  >Post in on Facebook.
  >Lurkers look.
  >Add her on Facebook.
  >She accepts quickly.
  >Chat.
  >Hahahah giggle giggle, you're so cool! And you're so nice! Let's hang out again sometime!
  >Repeat until we know a fair bit about each other and one of us finally tries to ask the question of our friendship, and it'll be up to that person receiving the question to take a hint that she wants to go further.
  
  CRUCIAL POINT here:
  
  I either: Become naive and oblivious to her body language and hints in her speech and get friendzoned.
  
  OR
  
  Say yes, and other stuff
  Then:
  
  >Find time when we can hang out
  >Ask at some point if she wants a drawing of herself
  >>"Oh my god, really? Sure!!"
  >>She'll think I'm probably no good unless she stalked my drawing album on Facebook.
  >>>Ifshe thinks I am based on what she saw, she'll immediately say yes because any decent and competent woman wouldn't pass up a chance to have herself drawn to near perfection
  >>>If not, even better, surprise is always good.
  >Start making a portrait of her
  >She becomes amazed on how I spend 8 hours or more drawing her (spreading it out of course, not all on one day)
  >She starts using the drawing as an emotional attachment and has a deeper affinity
  >She tries to make it up somehow
  >>1. Bake cookies
  >>2. Hang out at a Starbucks, Yogurt Place, something that won't rape our wallets
  Either way,
  >>>a. We get deeper and deeper into the conversation, her personality now is the major factor while her looks just sustain my affection towards her.
  >>>> I haven't gotten that far yet, work in progress.
  
  
  
  

Of course, that's just one way, the easy way actually. But usually it branches off at some point.

I've done other ways, and they worked, until I was oblivious towards her question on our "friendship"

So yeah, that's what I would do if I saw a hot girl (one of many ways)

Most likely do some blunt and sincere looking at her. I have never concerned myself much if they see it or if it might be considered rude and if she opens up a conversation because of that stare, I'd gladly see which direction it will go.

Also it is worth mentioning that I sometimes have this kind of "bitch-sensor" that goes off if I see really hot girl, but if she appears to be having too much makeup or expensive outfit etc.. But if its naturally beautiful girl with peculiar clothes or that kind, I am always interested.

Wow, linkzelda O_O. I have never seen a response so long. Thanks!

I wish the guys that hit on me in middle school weren't so stupid... I guess it is that stage. In one class i could not bring my golden pencil pouch... It would always get stolen.... Or touched...

BTW, Brooke in my story is supposed to be abnormally perfect. Like, impossibly so. There is a strange reason for that, of course.


Any ideas why a guy would constantly say your name wrong when it is obvious he likes you? This has stumped me for years... Correcting didn't help. I avoided him like the plague since he was creepy...

Oh, and I am not trying to imply that I am hot at all. I had no clue why guys liked me... I think it was the contacts and putting on makeup (a normal amount).

She's perfect? Well then... Are you willing to be as full of shit as you have to be? If not, stop here.

It's not all about what you say. It's also about what you do.

Walk up to her general vicinity as if there is something else over there you are about to check out, and then look at her and say, "Aren't you going to the party?" Say it as if you are just in the mood to have fun and go to the party. Don't make it obvious you are trying to pick her up, but let the mystery be there. If she asks what party, make one up and say some stuff about it. For example, "Two of the guitarists in Atomic Assault are having that keg party." If nothing else, it will get the conversation going. Somewhere in the conversation, mention your own rock group. "Oh yeah, they're all right. I know them from when we played at Riot Fest a few years ago."

If you pick her up, take her to a party or else talk on your cell phone later and then say it got cancelled because the guy had to go out of town to see his girlfriend, or (if things are going really well) ask her if she wants just the two of you to go do something.

I don't care what anybody says. "Aren't you going to the party?" is the best pick up line in the universe. It gives her a reason to be interested in what you are saying, and it tells her that you already feel comfortable with her, even if it's because you might have her confused with somebody else, which knocks her off her pedestal a little bit, which is good.

Also, it's a plus to really be in a rock band and to really know of a party you can go to. If you are of age, alcohol is liquid courage, but if you overdo it, it becomes liquid buffoonery. If the girl is perfect, don't let her know you think that. You don't want her thinking, "Okay, Applicant #7,824, you're like most men. I'm ready for this conversation to end." Remember that you are the rock star and she is the groupie, so to speak.

How about advice from a woman who seen it all? loool, usually eye contact 1st is number one, not staring at the body but eye-to-eye contact is more of a deeper "i want to stare at your soul" type feel. Looking at my body don't appeal to me (and i got no self confidence issues) it's just not my type of acceptance from a man.

not much really. i pretty much like to let the conversation naturally take its course.
i currently work with 2 attractive women and engaged in a conversation with both of them. one of them already has a boyfriend while the other is very nice but isn't really my type "personality wise."

I don't think it's just level of hotness that determines how most guys will respond to the situation. You say she's 'perfect' but people have different ideas of what 'perfect' is.

Like what type of hotness? People will treat a beautiful, sophisticated and dignified woman differently than a 'slutty' woman wearing revealing clothing atop a voluptuous body.

Is she talkative and friendly or more on the quiet, reserved side? Or quiet but friendly? I'd imagine different reactions depending on this. If her personality suggests she isn't interested in meeting people then they'd be more likely to glance from afar, or on the other hand that might attract quieter guys as they'd find her less intimidating.

walk past her, make eye contct. if she looks at me and smiles I usually instantly say hi.

Ideally i would first try to notice my internal sensations, which are always interesting. so, my first step is usually self-analysis. i get a lot of insight from this.