Crap dude that sucks. How old is your son? |
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So i just lost the custody battle for my son, i was fighting for joint and she wanted full. |
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Crap dude that sucks. How old is your son? |
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2 |
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Is she reasonable? What can you do that will make her more likely to let you visit your son regularly? |
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Hmmm, I guess you could always appeal you case, or be sneaky like i would be and force her so you are able to see your son when you like. For example saying to her that anytime she has a new partner you will complain to the judge that he is unsuitable to be around children etc. Then again this would be petty. |
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I don't know that it would be petty. I mean, I can see myself lowering to pretty underhanded tactics in this situation. The biggest problem I see with this is a harassment suit which could remove MM's visitation rights completely. These kinds of solutions... blackmail and such... I doubt that they are true options. |
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That sucks man. |
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I don't know, my mom and dad were divorced when I was 5 or 6, and I went to visit my dad every second weekend. I know kids who stay one week at their dad's and one week at their mom's, but that really just seems very unreasonable. I'm not siding with your son's mom, I'm just saying that you have to consider what your kid needs over what you want, and constantly moving from parent to parent is not what a kid needs. |
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Stick it out and do what you can for son, and don't let any feelings (negative or otherwise) effect your parenting. Running away, isn't going to help the situation at all. Theres a really good chance that she's doing it because she feels that's the absolute best for the child, however she may not always feel that way. Especially if you stick around and see him, and support him as much as possible. My best advise would overlook the possibility of not seeing your child as much as you would like, and maximize the time you actually get. |
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That's rough, man. Believe me, I know how you feel. |
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Thank you all, i appreciate all of your comments, i honestly wasn't ready for the results of the custody battle and was left in shock for a while |
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"MementoMori, the lucid machine"
"There's nothing better than knowing what it's like to fly like superman. Being fully aware of the air whipping by you, controlling every movement of every single atom in your body with a single thought. It's real freedom, and there's not a word good enough to describe it, so I'll just call it dreamy for now."
(((((Memento))))) |
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Thanks Zhaylin, i really appreciate it. I've been meditating on and off of it for a bit and i'm coming to an insight it feels like. I'm usually able to work through anything but this is hell, it's probably the hardest thing i've ever had to go through. |
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You're all much better people than I am, apparently. I'm not sure I'd be able to keep myself from resorting to murder. I'm not a violent guy by nature, but I think that kind of ultimate separation would push me over the edge, leading me to gut that woman like a trout. (I'm pretty sure I would also bomb the judge's house, just for good measure.) I've already got a little taste of parenthood, with all the time I spend with my baby nephew...and let me just say, that feeling is something I would never give up willingly. Especially not to some gold-digging thundercunt who enjoys to see me suffer, and sure as hell not to a broken judicial system that crucifies the penis because "the woman is always the victim" in divorce and child custody cases. |
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Aw man, no way. I am so sorry. I can't imagine... |
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thanks Lezen, i might have if it was any earlier in my life... not as intense but would've done something stupid. |
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The circumstances of my life have made it so that I honestly can not relate to this in any way at all. That being said, I feel bad for you, man. My suggestion is don't do anything illegal with regards to seeing your son, that'll only make things harder. You might want to consider trying an appeal for at least some custody. If all else fails, like Zhaylin said, you should send him postcards and the like. I'd not suggest running away from this as it'll only make it worse in the long run. I think. |
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Well, if there really is still hope to change her mind, then in that case, if I were you, I wouldn't give up trying to change her mind. |
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that's the plan i think i'm going with, to stick it out for a bit more and see if things change. If not then i'll for sure be heading to Skye definitely. Life here without my son is worthless to me, i only stayed here for my son after we separated because i thought i would get partial custody. But without getting to see him, this town the state and the country really hold no appeal to me at all. |
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"MementoMori, the lucid machine"
"There's nothing better than knowing what it's like to fly like superman. Being fully aware of the air whipping by you, controlling every movement of every single atom in your body with a single thought. It's real freedom, and there's not a word good enough to describe it, so I'll just call it dreamy for now."
Your kid will want to be with you a lot at 18, specially if his mother doesn't let him see you like he should be able to. Also taking out anger on people in Lucid dreams is fun. |
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