 Originally Posted by Dthoughts
@Mastermind, You recommend starting with dream recall practices first before lucidity.. But aren't those a bit intertwined. How do you actually improve on dream recal? Overall I agree with ur points in this thread.
Yes they are essentially the same thing, based on dream awareness. But as a beginner lucidity is a bit risky to focus on in long term, because it takes time to cultivate that degree of awareness and effort.
However, with dream recall you have instant feedback on how you are doing. As a beginner you probably claim that you don't even dream or remember very little, as an intermediate you can write a book every day based on your dreams and you start noticing your micro-awakenings during the night because you are just so aware of yourself and you even remember lots of dreams and experience lucidity from time to time in the first REM period of the night. As an advanced, recalling your dreams is such a strange way of looking at it, "why wouldn't I remember my dreams? I experienced them just like I experience my daily life." Remember that you can fluctuate between these stages of dream recall though, but I wrote it to give you a general idea of the stages that I have gone through from my lowest lows to my highest highs. And strong recall is an indicator of strong awareness, so to go from there to lucidity isn't that big of a leap.
And the process between these stages of dream recall "mastery" (one can always improve) is what we enjoy. For example instead of being frustrated over not having lucid dreams this morning, I was motivated by the fact that I have learned to become aware of my unconscious mind and experience it as small dream scenes both nightly and daily. I trust that I will progress over time though as long as I stay in the process. 
A great quote by some unknown to live by is: "The master has failed more times than the beginner has even tried"
So actively EXPERIENCE, FAIL frequently, experience NEGATIVE EMOTIONS, but STAY IN THE PROCESS and you have already succeeded, just not right now. But in the future. We we do not live in the future, we live in the NOW.
You wouldn't let a baby take a pill that immediatelly gave him a sense of walking right? in order to learn to walk you first let the baby fall flat on it's face (figuratively of course) cry a few times until the baby learns to find the balance.
And by the way, why do you think children learn faster than adults? Because they aren't as strongly identified with a self-image or result thinking, they just play. Now imagine what's possible if adults learn to free their mind as a child and turn their work into play and creativity, instead of a frustrating struggle for success and ego ehancement.
I could talk about this forever, but in my experience I learn the most when I fail, because failure IS the lesson. Our brains are neuro-plastic which means that they ADAPT!
Also when failure is rejoiced and when fear is absent, what is left to stop you?
I'll have to stop myself, but I'll end this post by reminding you to just remember this: Love the process, stay in the process, trust the process!
Here is a video to hammer in this mindset: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y9chCv8Ighc
Also, there is nothing wrong with supplements. It's the mentality behind it, focus on what's naturally already in control for you like sleeping patterns, healthy diet, lowering stress response through meditation or other ways of relaxation, get physical exercise, do something challenging and an infinite of other things. Meditation is such a great test because if you can't sit on a chair and breathe without getting distracted by your own thoughts (a sign of stimulation addiction) well how do you think you will do in a dream? If the truh "The external world is a reflection of your internal world" bothers you because you realize that you have full responsability of your whole life, well sorry to say but your dream world not only reflects your internal world, it IS your internal world! And when ALL of this is handled well maybe a supplement can make you go 1% further but then again, you no longer need the supplement, you use it to an already balanced mind.
Save your money, use your will power. Because there is where the great power really is. So focus on seeing the potential that is already at your disposal (the small successes) not on what's currently out of reach (the big successes)
Peace!
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