 Originally Posted by sivason
Besides Sageous, what excuse would you choose to use, if accepting evolution and history before humans is not an option? Given the absolute need to be correct, how would you teach your child "the truth" in the face of all these seemingly contrary facts, that clearly are false, because you NEED to be correct?
I think poofing is a bit silly, but may have been coined by uneducated. It becomes harder when your child will receive a public education or have access to the internet. Then you probably have to claim God is testing the faithful, by allowing Satan to manufacture false evidence. Any suggestions on what we can teach our children, in light of such clearly false evidence (since clearly our religion CAN NOT be wrong)?
Though I assumed these questions were rhetoric, I couldn't get them out of my head all night (slow night, I guess). My trouble with them is I had no answers because even though I was raised by devout Catholic parents, I have never been exposed to the kind of affected ignorance that has been thriving in the religious right in recent years. I simply cannot understand how a parent, who knows that a fossil will not turn to dust upon exhumation, can then teach their children something that they have had proven to them as false (the fossils), or something that they know was proven and accepted science when they were children themselves (age of the earth, evolution, global warming, etc.). In the U.S., there was little to no talk about Satan's hand in fossils, the "real" age of the earth, the incorrectness of evolution, etc, as little as twenty years ago (and what talk there was came from a generally ignored lunatic fringe -- and Kansas, for some reason). In other words, discussions like this would have been almost universally absurd (at least in the West) within the lifetimes of most parents; they have the capacity to remember that the things they are arguing against now were once just fine in their world, and within their patterns and choices of belief.
Given that, there is no reason parents cannot simply grow up, gather some inner strength, and teach their kids what they once understood in a very no-brainer manner as well-established truths (or at least acceptable theory) things like evolution, the age of the earth, and that fossils come from dead animals, and not Satan. It did not used to be that difficult to incorporate all this stuff into a religion's tenets -- even the Catholic Church itself broke down and did so some time ago -- and it would not be too hard to do so now, if people would just grow a spine and stand up to the nonsense with which their are being browbeaten by the far-right media, their churches, and some governments/schools. Faith is one thing; dogged adherence to nonsense recently handed down by authorities with more interest in political gains and rabble-rousing than in helping elevate their followers is another thing altogether. In other words, parents can remember that the crap they are teaching their kids is wrong, but choose not to do so. Instead they are choosing to teach their kids the fundamentalist B.S. for whatever reasons they have given themselves (or more likely had given to them) ... they do not need to do this, and they know they do not need to do this. Screwing up their kids heads is a choice they make, and one they make out of things like fear, brainwashing, herding mentality, or fantastically misguided but actual faith, but never Truth.
To teach their kids obvious truths parents really do not need to defy their religion, only the angry idiots driving the earthly organizations of their religion, and their own fears or selfish needs. I highly doubt that God, Allah, and all their celestial associates really give a crap what anyone thinks about the age of the earth, or what some well-meaning but very ignorant fellows put in a book in His name a few short millennia ago. Parents need only grow up and face truths a little higher than the dogma they are being force-fed.
Sadly, Louai, I don't think any of this will help you in Lebanon -- though if I remember properly Lebanon (or at least Beirut) was a very modern place just 40 years ago, before this current wave of fundamentalism hit it, and hit it hard. So there is a chance that some parents or grandparents will come to remember what they once knew as true, and did so without losing a bit of their faith.
tl;dr: Sivason, I have no answer for those parents if they will not allow themselves to remember what they once knew as true. But if they grow up, or grow brave enough to defy their churches' doctrine, they can teach their children that evolution etc exists, and does so in concert with their God, and not in spite of their God. It's up to them.
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