 Originally Posted by 1234567
Great thread, Sageous. Do you think you could expand a little bit on what you mean by 'memory' in the context of dreaming? I'm not quite sure I understand.
Sure. In the simplest of terms, memory in the context of dreaming is the same as memory in the context of waking... sorry; that sounded way cooler in my head.
But it's still true. When I speak of memory, I'm talking about remembering, during the dream,* that you have a waking life existence, that you consciously stepped away from that existence a few minutes ago, and that you still have a sleeping body right where you left it. This might seem a little silly at first glance, but it is critical toward drawing your waking-life awareness into your dream. This is the case for two major reasons (and plenty more, most likely):
First, the core of non-lucid dreaming consciousness is that you cannot remember that the dream started a few minutes ago (most non-lucids have a built-in assurance that the current dream scene is both real and has always been there), and that you are sure that your DC body is the real thing. Remembering that stuff I said above should free you from this core, and allow your self-awareness to assert itself with proper waking-life awareness. This action will redefine the “reality” of the dream, the rules of the dream, and perhaps even the dream itself. So, you can't have true -- or strong -- waking-life awareness in your dream if you do not remember that the DC body you are currently occupying is not your physical body.
Second, once you’ve passed this initial hurdle, you likely will have switched your memory circuits back to the “on” position, from the “off” position that is naturally set during sleep. This will allow you to remember your current dream goals, prolonging techniques, the waking-world histories of the DC’s populating your dream (giving you opportunity to wonder/explain what they’re doing there), and a host of other things. Basically, you will be truly awake in the dream when memory is turned on, and waking-life awareness (aka: lucidity) will have opportunity to prosper.
It is possible to have low-level LD’s without memory switched on, but you’ll never get much further than that initial feeling of “knowing” this is a dream. For instance, you’ll still be surprised by events around you because your dreaming mind is still in control, you’ll have a lot of trouble doing things like flying because you still believe your DC body is real, and you might for the same reason have a tendency to believe that the other DC’s around you are the real things, and not just avatars of people you know (or don’t, as it were)... now for the dream-sharers out there, there’s no reason not to believe that those avatars represent actual people trying to contact you, but you must remember that they are just representations and not the real thing; there is a difference.
It is also possible, with memory absent, to have a non-lucid dream in which you think you are lucid. I get these "False Lucids" all the time, as my dreaming mind obliges my expectations and gives me all the things it thinks I want to fulfill my current LD fantasy. So I do all the cool stuff without a grain of waking-life awareness or control, all because I failed to remember my true nature and condition -- and the fact that this whole world was created just moments earlier.
Bottom line: the memory I speak of here is, I suppose, nothing more -- and nothing less -- than the memory you access during waking life. That it must be present during a LD seems to me to be a no-brainer -- while I’m awake. When I’m asleep, and memory is turned off, the story is much different, and it can take real effort, and strong self-awareness, to access waking-life memory.
Here is one quick hopefully helpful hint to ease that effort: it is a good thing to always include some mention of memory during your RC’s and when you set your intention before sleep. For instance, when practicing RC’s during waking life (and everyone should be doing that!), don’t just confirm that the clock didn’t change, or that your hand still has five fingers, but also confirm that you remember exactly what you were doing say, fifteen minutes earlier. And when you set your intention, add a simple “I will remember” to your stated plans.
As usual, I see that I went on for far too long, and I’m not sure if anything I said is unclear. If it is, let me know and I’ll take another shot…
* Note that the memory I speak of has nothing to do with dream recall. Dream recall is important in general, but for different reasons.
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