I'm saying she has a right to feel however she likes, and that people getting mad at her just because she finds a situation like that awkward and doesn't want to go up to his room, even if they're not necessarily going to have sex, is absurd.

I'm not saying the issue is that people think that she's obligated to go, rather that the issue is that people really don't have a say in how she reacts to any kind of situation, casual, sexual, friendly, etc.

Of course people have a right to freedom of speech, but the fact that they're over-reacting to a woman expressing her own freedom of speech is just... silly. Especially when what she said isn't even controversial, and she's not even a celebrity or popular youtuber either.