Quote Originally Posted by juroara View Post
Let's change the situation.

It's 4am and she's in the elevator with co-worker that she's known for years and she trusts him. He's like "hey let's have a drink at my place and chat" and she's like "no."

I say, she has a right to say "no" to who ever she wants to say "no" to, stranger or not.
Nobody is saying she HAS to say yes lol
She definitely does not have to tell the world though.
And DEFINITELY should not be telling guys not to ask girls that.
As if it's not hard enough already to ask girls out.

Plenty of girls I'm not attracted to have asked me similar things, I don't go tell all my friends "OH MY GOD, that chick just asked me for sex! I FELT SO AWKWARD! OMGZ!"