Wow, lol! And I thought I was anti people. I stick to myself and trust no one..I find it's best this way, less disappointment. I feel for your wife and think it's admirable that you seem to genuinely love and care for her well being. Good for you. Most people are just too selfish to look beyond themselves to genuinely care for another the way they should. I've decided that maybe the reason why certain things in my life aren't so great is maybe I'm paying off karma. I try and treat others well but I always end up with them thinking it's fake or they can walk all over me. So I have to be a bitch too just so assholes don't take advantage of my nice side and use me. I do care about people but I keep my distance emotionally from most. Those I let in isually just hurt me, I feel like I give and give and get crapped on for all my effort. Depressing actually. Life's a bitch and so are most people.