Thread: Gay Dreams?

Originally Posted by TaZeR

Well im pretty sure im not gay when I think about doing something gay in real life it doesnt feel right or good in anyway its more disgusting, I guess I was also more wondering why it was Commander Tuvok from Star Trek Voyager, I've been watching that series latley a few episodes a day so I see why I dreamt about one of the characters just strange that it was this one and in that sense, Tuvok is a vulcan a race of logical beings who show no emotion so maybe that is connected in some way. Id much rather have a sex dream about 7 of 9 the former borg drone (Jeri Ryan), that I would understand.

Dreams are just random somtimes. For example: you had incest with your sister in your dream, that doesn't mean you feel lust towards your sister so that doesn't mean you're gay if you had one weird dream. I had a homosexual dream once and it was disgusting but I'm very sure I'm straight. Don't worry, you know yourself better.

TaZer, you're 20 years old. You should be pretty certain about your sexuality, and if you think you're heterosexual, then you most likely are. If you were 12 years old, and getting these dreams, then you might want to be a bit more aware about it, but at the age of 20, nah.

Originally Posted by Tyler Durten

you dont know what the fuck your saying - so if a girl claims to be bisexual then she is, right? but if a guy says it then he's gay, right? fuck you and your idiotic thinking . It shits me.

Im not gay but i really hate how girls are so fucking lesbian like and dont even admit it and claim its only friendly yet when guys do something not even as bad as that - girls classify it as gay.

example - greetings methods
guy meets guy - hand shake, if they hug hello - girls says its gay
girl meets girl - hugs numerous times, kisses on cheeks and lips. Practically start finger fucking each other and sucking each other pussy and call it GOOD FRIENDS

Yeah is pretty shitty. But gay, lesbian - same shit.

Alright now, seriously. My cousin once told me he used to dream of me in a sexy way, and there was even a time whe nwe played sexy games. But I'm pretty sure he's not gay.


Dreaming you are gay doesn't mean anything. I'm atheist, but in most of my dreams I find myself going to church with my family: it's more like a childhood memory than anything else.

Don't get freaked out because of dreams, they are only dreams. But if you woke up feeling a crush in your heart and a desperate urge to fuck guys, then I could say you're slightly gay ;P

I say it's pretty normal. Every guy at sometime in is life is going to wonder what it is like to be with the same sex. Every woman is like that too. There is nothing wrong with that.

I think if fundementalist christianity didn't have such an influence on todays culture. The ratio of people coming out as gay or Bi would probably stagger todays standards.

I completely dis agree with mes. Some guys who are gay have absolutely no interest in women. A bisexual guy is sexually attracted to both. Just because he sleeps with a man and then sleeps with a woman doesn't necessarily make him completely gay.

And Tyler Durten. There's nothing wrong with bisexual or lesbian women. my advice is to make a few friends with bisexual or lebian women. They are cool to hang around, Some are just like guys except theya re women. you will find common ground in discussing what you find sexy in women. And if you are cool and relaxed around them it will open doors for you

This will be a useless reply since everyone else has already said it but:
It's just your dreams. They do not neccessarily display real life emotions. It may be a phase or a long period or it may occur frequently for a while. You know who you are so don't let some Goddamn subconcious scare you.

Originally Posted by ranma187

I say it's pretty normal. Every guy at sometime in is life is going to wonder what it is like to be with the same sex. Every woman is like that too. There is nothing wrong with that.

I think if fundementalist christianity didn't have such an influence on todays culture. The ratio of people coming out as gay or Bi would probably stagger todays standards.

I completely dis agree with mes. Some guys who are gay have absolutely no interest in women. A bisexual guy is sexually attracted to both. Just because he sleeps with a man and then sleeps with a woman doesn't necessarily make him completely gay.

And Tyler Durten. There's nothing wrong with bisexual or lesbian women. my advice is to make a few friends with bisexual or lebian women. They are cool to hang around, Some are just like guys except theya re women. you will find common ground in discussing what you find sexy in women. And if you are cool and relaxed around them it will open doors for you

Ya, see, I've never wondered what it's like without being completely disgusted. I think bisexual people are just horny mofos that don't care who they get some from. That has always been my opinion and I can't help that. I don't have anything against them, or homosexuals, but I've never thought it is "right". The reason we are on this planet is to reproduce... That's why we have dicks and pussies. It's not just for pleasure, it's to fuckin reproduce. The pleasure is there so we have more will to do it, because w/o pleasure we wouldn't wanna fuck.

And I hate the gay women that act like men, and the gay men that act like women. I just wanna beat the shit out of them. So, that wouldn't be good for me to try to make friends with that type.

I'm only straight with the homo's that act like their gender.

Michael, I always tell people "You might not like bisexuals, but ask yourself, is this because you're disgusted by them, or because they're most likely getting twice as much sex and love as you are?"

I'm not a bisexual because I want more sex, I'm a bisexual because apparently, I'm attracted to both genders. I made a lot of friends, with both normal and extreme homosexuals/bis, before I realized my own sexuality, and they are very nice people. Probably some of the nicest/funniest/most comfortable people I've ever meet.

I can only agree with you, that a gay person who is acting just like a girl, is confusing and weird, and I hate them for doing it, puts a bad name on the rest of us, but just like people who act like idiots, people with mental disorders, annnoying people, and all the people you don't like, you gotta live with them, and beating them up won't change them. The christians tried that, and it only caused suffering, hate, taboos and suicides.

There was this day of my life when I woek up and felt like being a girl. Then I had spanish classes with in a group of 20 girls and me and realised that being a boy is just for me. Girls are too complicated

That doesn't make me less gay though.


I do find some women attractive yeah, and I''ve no problem with being with girls... But I just prefer boys. So what?

i love lesbian dreams
(but also etero dreams)

i also had dreams where i was a guy having sex with a girl, but never a guy&guy sex dream. I don't think i would like that particular one.

.... i agree for the "experiment without shame" idea.

I've had these before. They aways start off as a hot woman i'm gonna have sex with then i look again and it's a man WTF!!!!!!! i've had worse, but i wont get into details because just thinking of it makes me feel bad and sick.

Originally Posted by Tyler Durten

you dont know what the fuck your saying - so if a girl claims to be bisexual then she is, right? but if a guy says it then he's gay, right? fuck you and your idiotic thinking . It shits me.

Im not gay but i really hate how girls are so fucking lesbian like and dont even admit it and claim its only friendly yet when guys do something not even as bad as that - girls classify it as gay.

example - greetings methods
guy meets guy - hand shake, if they hug hello - girls says its gay
girl meets girl - hugs numerous times, kisses on cheeks and lips. Practically start finger fucking each other and sucking each other pussy and call it GOOD FRIENDS

Watch your language on the boards, children posts here too as*hole

I once had an incestual dream... I also once had a dream where there were alot of snakes but they were dicks.

Originally Posted by Marvo

Michael, I always tell people "You might not like bisexuals, but ask yourself, is this because you're disgusted by them, or because they're most likely getting twice as much sex and love as you are?"

I'm not a bisexual because I want more sex, I'm a bisexual because apparently, I'm attracted to both genders. I made a lot of friends, with both normal and extreme homosexuals/bis, before I realized my own sexuality, and they are very nice people. Probably some of the nicest/funniest/most comfortable people I've ever meet.

I can only agree with you, that a gay person who is acting just like a girl, is confusing and weird, and I hate them for doing it, puts a bad name on the rest of us, but just like people who act like idiots, people with mental disorders, annnoying people, and all the people you don't like, you gotta live with them, and beating them up won't change them. The christians tried that, and it only caused suffering, hate, taboos and suicides.

See, then I have no problem with you. I ujst don't wanna imagine the things you do, that's all. I;m quite drunk right now so its hard to ype. But you got my point above. I honestly don't have any gay friends from either gender, so iono. And fuck that, yall arent gettin twice as much sex as me. sex is wht i live for.!

I've posted toom uch in this thresd.

I think people who are gay know that they are. It is hard to imagine somebody wanting to have sex with men in real life and never realizing it. It is not the type of thing that would show you a short peek in a dream. If you did it in a dream and liked it, it's because there are aspects of gay sex that you like even though you might be disgusted by the overall package. In a dream, the mind can concentrate on good aspects and ignore aversive aspects. There are a lot of parallels between heterosexual sex and homosexual sex. They both involve physical contact, penetration, friction, and all of that stuff. You probably liked those mere aspects while not having any mental experience involving the male hormone and male pheromone eroticism, and even if you did, it is because the brain can scramble things around during a dream and do stuff like make a character be three familiar people and two dogs as one character in four countries at the same time as you answer a ringing skyscraper and push a wall to make a tree stop singing with its clock house on the ocean prarie. I don't think your dream meant anything except that the mind is in a very strange blender during a dream.

The problem with people is that they think thay homosexuals are just normal heterosexuals who wanted to go against the flow. Most people don't realise gay people are actually attracted by the same gender the same way they are attracted by the opposite one.

If loving a same-gender person is wrong, then so is loving someone from the opposite gender.

hey ranma, i think you may have misunderstood what i wanted to say. I dont have anything against homo and bi ppl. im just saying how irratating it is for straight women to practically have an intercourse greeting method and not think anything strange by it, yet when straight guy does something as small as hug his best mate - girls call that gay.

and Oneiranaut, im sure kids could tell that FUCK and F*CK are the same thing. OH and a few Fuck words wouldnt really be anything bad compared to whats discussed here - guys dreaming of fucking their mum. so dont give me shit about it

I'm in favour of freedom of speech, as logn as no one is offended. If the "fuck" was not directed to anyone, then I don't ever see a problem with it. But that is just me.

Now back on topic..

hey ranma, i think you may have misunderstood what i wanted to say. I dont have anything against homo and bi ppl. im just saying how irratating it is for straight women to practically have an intercourse greeting method and not think anything strange by it, yet when straight guy does something as small as hug his best mate - girls call that gay.

I'm with you on this one. It's just like if a girl sleeps with a few guys in one month she's a whore, but if a guy sleeps with 20 in a week he's a pimp. What the fuuuck?

Girls could be so close that they experiment with eachother, yet if two guys wanted to blow eachother to experiment physical feeling then they're gay? Children, children... flesh is nothing but a vessel for what we really are. You are simply wasting your time with the insignificant and adolescent comformities of modern day human society. Just let it go and go with the flow.

If you want to be discrete about it, then be discrete so there's no worries. If you want to walk around telling everyone you swing both ways or the other, then by all means go ahead. The only thing that I do understand is the persecution of said people, because a lot of people who do go through differences in sexual attraction isn't always by choice - it can also be due to hormones. When kids are young and are feeling a wierd sexual attraction to specific people, be them the same gender or not, it is not their consciousness choosing to do it - it's their brain pumping hormones. No one understands it until they're aware that they can analyze the feelings. And for crying out loud - it's not going to damn you to hell. Don't waste your time with that brainwashing religous bullshit.

Originally Posted by Oneironaut_Jeff777

Watch your language on the boards, children posts here too as*hole

15 year old children? If you're in here, and you're 10 years old, it's your own fault.

=\ I heard that if you have gay sex in a dream and you're straight then in real life you're having insecurities about your masculinity...
OR you're just jealous of the body of the guy you're having sex with.

My first gay dream freaked me out, it was with my friend Chris, who I had a crush on.
Had two more dreams about him...but the 3rd one was more about love. He gave me a hug and it felt so real <sighs>
But I'm gay NOW so...I'm a bad example for you =P

But I've had a STRAIGHT dream once! It was interesting. It was with my exgirlfriend (b4 i knew i was gay duh). I guess we were trying to "ungay me" and Alicia wanted to have my babies.
Hehe, it was more like boring work than play, lol
"How to make a baby: step one, take dick out and jack off. Step two, place it in the girl's vagina." xD

Originally Posted by Armageddon_Heaven

=\ I heard that if you have gay sex in a dream and you're straight then in real life you're having insecurities about your masculinity...
OR you're just jealous of the body of the guy you're having sex with.

My first gay dream freaked me out, it was with my friend Chris, who I had a crush on.
Had two more dreams about him...but the 3rd one was more about love. He gave me a hug and it felt so real <sighs>
But I'm gay NOW so...I'm a bad example for you =P

But I've had a STRAIGHT dream once! It was interesting. It was with my exgirlfriend (b4 i was gay duh). I guess we were trying to "ungay me" and Alicia wanted to have my babies.
Hehe, it was more like boring work than play, lol
"How to make a baby: step one, take dick out and jack off. Step two, place it in the girl's vagina." xD

I have an honest question I want to know the answer to. How did you go from straight to gay? I don't see how this would work. You're straight..... then suddenly gay... explain? Are you still attracted to girls? If not, how did you lose the attraction? If you are, why aren't you "bi"

Originally Posted by Michael

I have an honest question I want to know the answer to. How did you go from straight to gay? I don't see how this would work. You're straight..... then suddenly gay... explain? Are you still attracted to girls? If not, how did you lose the attraction? If you are, why aren't you "bi"

There's this dark, hideously malicious place every gay guy starts out at:
The closet.

no I did not suddenly become gay - I just used to try and hide it by going out with a ton of chicks.
What's funny is that i always was the one that broke up with them, and for horrible reasons =P.
Alicia = "I love you as a sister"
Lauren = "We don't have any classes together..."
Kelsy = "You're really just not my type..."
Natalie = ...well actually I just broke up with her
Sierra = and it gets worse...we don't talk for 2 months...then she calls...and I tell her I'm sorry for not talking to her...and that yeah we should break up.

But yeah. no, I'm not attracted to females. I mean, I SEE a chick and say "Oh wow, how pretty" and shit but no, I don't think "oooh man I gotta bang that pussy!" or something gross like that.

But yeah, lots of gay guys start out by going out with chicks, mainly because
a) they have a wrong impression about what "going out" means =P
b) they want to prove to people that they're NOT gay because they're dumb and in the closet.

Armageddon got it right, though it could probably have been said with better words