There is a correlation, yeah. But like I said, there's no physiological reason for waking from dream sex. |
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So there's a well known link between RL engorgement (gals & guys) during REM, but does that tend to coincide with dreams about sex, or is it not necessarily related? |
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There is a correlation, yeah. But like I said, there's no physiological reason for waking from dream sex. |
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My Lucid Dreaming Articles/Tutorials:
Mindfulness - An Alternative Approach to ADA
Intent in Lucid Dreaming; Break that Dry-Spell, Escape the Technique Rut
Always, no sometimes think it's me,
But you know I know when it's a dream
I think I know I mean a yes
But it's all wrong
That is I think I disagree
-John Lennon
From my experience in normal dreams, the longer the chase/foreplay goes on for, the worse the chances of going all the way get... which is why in my lucids so far I haven't wasted any time with that. Maybe I will try though and see what happens. I just hate waking up with that blue balls feeling lmao. Of course it's great spank material for the shower in the morning either way because even though dreams end imagination continues! |
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FryingMan's Unified Theory of Lucid Dreaming: Pay Attention, Reflect, Recall -- Both Day and Night[link]
FryingMan's Dream Recall Tips -- Awesome Links
“No amount of security is worth the suffering of a mediocre life chained to a routine that has killed your dreams.”
"...develop stability in awareness and your dreams will change in extraordinary ways" -- TYoDaS
My Lucid Dreaming Articles/Tutorials:
Mindfulness - An Alternative Approach to ADA
Intent in Lucid Dreaming; Break that Dry-Spell, Escape the Technique Rut
Always, no sometimes think it's me,
But you know I know when it's a dream
I think I know I mean a yes
But it's all wrong
That is I think I disagree
-John Lennon
Well there may be average/typical, then there may be *me*. I remember, particularly early on in my first LDs, reaching for a girl and having the dream instantly vanish and I'm there wide awake in bed with a racing heart. However, that may have been an isolated event. |
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FryingMan's Unified Theory of Lucid Dreaming: Pay Attention, Reflect, Recall -- Both Day and Night[link]
FryingMan's Dream Recall Tips -- Awesome Links
“No amount of security is worth the suffering of a mediocre life chained to a routine that has killed your dreams.”
"...develop stability in awareness and your dreams will change in extraordinary ways" -- TYoDaS
I used to have dream sex fine but later on I started waking up just before orgasm. |
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Good to see this thread revived. Dream sex is my LD profession and if it required a license, i would be highly qualified and certified as a trainer. I have trained myself for years and after learning to DEILD about a year ago, it has reached new heights. I know all the crap about caveman mode, fight / flight, but it's my dream and it's what i choose to do. Hell, I have even created several exotic brothels that i frequently visit. Yea I have had periods where I done other cool stuff ( travel to space, vaproize buildings, fly across the atlaitic ocean), but it does not compare to a good sex DEILD chain that leaves me buzzing for days. |
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FryingMan's Unified Theory of Lucid Dreaming: Pay Attention, Reflect, Recall -- Both Day and Night[link]
FryingMan's Dream Recall Tips -- Awesome Links
“No amount of security is worth the suffering of a mediocre life chained to a routine that has killed your dreams.”
"...develop stability in awareness and your dreams will change in extraordinary ways" -- TYoDaS
I will try that the next time around. The three experiences I have had have not lasted anywhere near as long as I would've liked. It's like trying to bust too quick... Just take your mind out of it a bit and lessen the excitement lol. I just want finish in a dream and see how I feel. |
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It would appear that I used my necro powers to revive this thread. Anyways, in recent news - |
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The bird breaks free of the egg.
The egg is the world.
Who would to be born must first destroy a world.
fun stuff. i cant believe how vivd our minds can put things in our dreams. cool stuff really. our life away from waking life is mysterious. |
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New goals TBA
DILD: 8 WILD: 2 DEILD: 1
I've had lucid sex. To me it's awesome because I have total control over my partner. It's like they're puppets to my bidding. But I can never orgasm during the dream. I wake up and finish myself off, or let it go. |
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Can you shapeshift your body in lucid dreams, ss it rather physical-like compared to astral projection? |
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I can shape shift my partner easier than my dream self, for some reason. But I'm still new to this and the things I've been able to do seem really remarkable. I'm working on shapeshifting my dream self. Lucid masturbation? Haven't tried it. Why would I if I can conjure a partner? |
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Damn I'm curious to try lucid masturbation now just to see... I don't plan on doing it for long because hey i can do that whenever... but hey you never know maybe you add a little warming gel and shapeshift some extra hands and really go to town with it haha |
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Not ashamed to say that I have done it... I mean c'mon, lol. I've never had sex before but damn son it still felt good! haha |
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Good deal. I have read other explanations that say that zooming in your focus on an object for too long can cause the dream to crumble so this may be a factor as well (in addition to calming your excitement). I think it is likely both factors, since it's well established that even getting exciting about being lucid (without doing anything) can wake you up. The other techniques proposed by various authors propose connecting on a romantic level, use of consent, and various (non-sexual foreplay) to increase stability by working "with" your subconscious nature but this seems rather to subjective to say that "everyone" desires romance and connection deep down. This seems more of a religious precept -- not to say I necessarily disagree -- but not sure where this is derived from unless it is some psychology theory. I have never been able to properly test these ideas as of yet (although I am in the process of doing so). They can also backfire since you tend to waste time doing them, but I would imagine if your dream was really stable, the time needed would be negligible since you would hopefully have at least 10-30 minutes of lucidity. |
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Last edited by kingofhypocrites; 04-21-2015 at 01:21 PM.
In my experience, as long as no DCs interrupt me or barge in on my and ruin my mood (which they most often do), dream masturbation feels TEN TIMES better than any kind of real life masturbation. Bar none. It's like what you're supposed to feel in life during an orgasm. One time it was so powerful it woke me up, and my cat was sitting at the foot of my bed looking at me, but I needed to "finish the job", so he looked at me a bit funny as the bed was shaking for a moment. Lucid attempts at any kind of sex or masturbation, though... pathetic failure. |
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