+1 (+1000) for not spreading mental viruses. This is not a laughing matter, many of us work really really hard for each single LD and it is not an easy gift for us, so Percy please respect that. Sivason is the exact opposite in fact, when he feels the dream collapsing, he concentrates/stares at one simple thing up close until his brain finishes "rebooting." So this notion is false. |
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“No amount of security is worth the suffering of a mediocre life chained to a routine that has killed your dreams.”
"...develop stability in awareness and your dreams will change in extraordinary ways" -- TYoDaS
Time is relative in dreams though! I have assisted many newbies with dream sex and staring has been their main reason of premature awakening, including myself that I naturally lucid dream! |
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for me part of the fun of trying to lucid dream is for the sex, or at least as much eye candy as I can visualize. Occasionally I do come across someone who simply doesn't want it, and I find that often times that's the point where my lucid dream starts turning into a regular dream, were I have no control and everything is strange. Most of the times when I dont accidently wake myself up it feels amazing, just like the real thing, and sometimes much better than the real thing. One obstacle i have yet to overcome when having sex in a lucid dream is waking myself up worrying if I might ctually be going through the motions in real life while in my dream. Of course I only worry about that because I'm afraid of my grilfriend being woke up to me moving around like I'm having sex with someone. |
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Hey percy, sorry if it seemed I was dissing you and people stopped believing you. You are quite a talented LDer, and I do agree that this could be a problem for some people and it might be the problem for some people, but if it isn't a problem yet, it could become a problem by them reading it here. Sometimes we have certain parts of our body that is more connected to the dream body than the waking body and vice versa. Think about when you are a child and you have a dream about peeing, your body follows. When I pee in dreams now (any time I feel the urge) my dream body has the sense of relief, but I still don't wet the bed. I think that it is the same. Think about dreams where you don't have eyes (transcend, take them out, expand consciousness, close eyes, transform), your eyes are not moving then, and you do not wake up. When looking at the problem of waking during lucid sex, it is a good idea to keep eyes moving, changing focus and things, but if you have no problem, then it would be bad to hear this I think. |
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Percy, it is not "offending", it is downright bordering on mean to go about stating "doing XYZ wakes you up / causes you to lose the dream", I have NEVER had any notion of (what you said, I do NOT want to repeat it!) being true, and even if it has become part of your mental schema, that is a *very* different thing than saying "it is true" publicly on this forum. And now, it's buried in my (and everybody's) SC who read this. I can only hope it won't surface. |
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“No amount of security is worth the suffering of a mediocre life chained to a routine that has killed your dreams.”
"...develop stability in awareness and your dreams will change in extraordinary ways" -- TYoDaS
Yup, it does make sense... I would not think it would impact in a negative way, just giving my advice. Staring has been a killer for me and for others, reason I shared it, maybe I could choose different words I have had dreams where I had no eyes or I transformed into something weird (or an old ToTM, very old, that you needed to take your head off and stand over it) but I believe that even if you have no eyes, you still have some sort of vision and/or your eyes (physical ones) are still moving. I also read many times that in a dream, our body is paralyzed except for our eyes which move as we move them in the dream (or better said, as we look around in the dream, even if we are just a body-less piece of consciousness during a transcendent experience.) |
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I am not trying to be disrespectful, it is not my intention, and I think you are being too sensitive and not thinking clearly about this. I am being quite objective, and I think you are the one starting to take it to the personal level ("beloved Sivason"). |
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Last edited by FryingMan; 10-10-2014 at 09:53 PM.
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FryingMan's Dream Recall Tips -- Awesome Links
“No amount of security is worth the suffering of a mediocre life chained to a routine that has killed your dreams.”
"...develop stability in awareness and your dreams will change in extraordinary ways" -- TYoDaS
Okay, I see what you mean now... I just felt it personal the way you worded everything, this is why through a screen is easier to pick it up the wrong way |
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Yes I was just coming back to the thread the erase my message and to apologize, because bad feelings are not worth it. So, sorry that it came out as personal. The internet really sucks sometimes. |
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FryingMan's Unified Theory of Lucid Dreaming: Pay Attention, Reflect, Recall -- Both Day and Night[link]
FryingMan's Dream Recall Tips -- Awesome Links
“No amount of security is worth the suffering of a mediocre life chained to a routine that has killed your dreams.”
"...develop stability in awareness and your dreams will change in extraordinary ways" -- TYoDaS
Don't worry -- eye action in REM is uncorrelated to the visual field in the dream. This was scientifically studied: |
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Good luck |
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Speaking of dares, I think Percy you can guess what mine for you is going to be |
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FryingMan's Unified Theory of Lucid Dreaming: Pay Attention, Reflect, Recall -- Both Day and Night[link]
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“No amount of security is worth the suffering of a mediocre life chained to a routine that has killed your dreams.”
"...develop stability in awareness and your dreams will change in extraordinary ways" -- TYoDaS
Hahahaha... Yup... LOL. |
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I did a lot of staring in this one and it fits the thread topics theme. i wrote the sexual scenes little bit graphic and pretty detailed, but hey the more detailed the dream journal the better right? they are under spoilers for a reason. just giving you early notice if you click the link. i think i overdid the descriptions a bit, i like the read a lot and enjoyed typing it, but it may sound a bit too overdone as far as use of adjectives to other readers. |
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New goals TBA
DILD: 8 WILD: 2 DEILD: 1
Going to agree with this, throw this out of your mind before you start believing it and create self-fulfillment; I often stop to look intently at things. |
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That may in fact be true, but I'd like to have a few hundred 15-30 minute start-to-finish fully lucid vivid sex dreams to decide for myself . That's not so much to ask, is it? Heck, even a few dozen would more than take care of my "list." Why not combine them? Flying over a dreamscape while doing the deed, best of both. |
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FryingMan's Unified Theory of Lucid Dreaming: Pay Attention, Reflect, Recall -- Both Day and Night[link]
FryingMan's Dream Recall Tips -- Awesome Links
“No amount of security is worth the suffering of a mediocre life chained to a routine that has killed your dreams.”
"...develop stability in awareness and your dreams will change in extraordinary ways" -- TYoDaS
Those lucids in which you just waste your time by finding a good room . |
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I used to spend 4 out of 7 DEILDs on sex, or looking for it, or declining it. Lucid sex is damn good, but I was missing out on so much more. All because of the strongest urge I was not able to squash once lucid. |
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I can't believe I missed this thread until now bouncing through this forum for several months. Reading some of the posts, I respond that LD sex can be a sort of exploring of the dreamscape! It is also very possible to explore a celebrity for long periods! |
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Here's my theory on why sex leads to waking up. But first we have to note that there is nothing to support the idea that there is anything physiological happening when you have sex in a dream that would lead you to wake up. This fact is supported by studies carried out on sex dreams. |
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My Lucid Dreaming Articles/Tutorials:
Mindfulness - An Alternative Approach to ADA
Intent in Lucid Dreaming; Break that Dry-Spell, Escape the Technique Rut
Always, no sometimes think it's me,
But you know I know when it's a dream
I think I know I mean a yes
But it's all wrong
That is I think I disagree
-John Lennon
I like the "disruption of the narrative" theory. So rather than necessarily taking it slow, coming up with a pretend-memory narrative redirection may be the way to go, ala sivason's sex marathon from last year: "oh, right, we're here for a porn shoot!" may be even more important. |
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"...develop stability in awareness and your dreams will change in extraordinary ways" -- TYoDaS
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