I figured it would be worth mentioning from the perspective of someone who's done this myself for a while, how I feel this is best accomplished for a beginner. I started doing this as a result of the fact that I meditate multiple times a day every day, practice yoga, qigong, and various routines and ritual practices that demand constant mindful awareness, and when this first began affecting my dreams it was mostly just as a result of the awareness I put into these exercises. It was later on that through my practices I decided to devote more of my day to maintaining such a level of awareness, and as that grew, dream clarity, recall, and DILD went up significantly. It's nice to see someone has written a guide to doing this, since it's one of those things I just did automatically through my practice and would probably normally forget to suggest to people, despite how much it helped me.
Anyway, if you're just beginning, the idea of being aware of every moment of your day sounds like a chore. The trick is to understand why awareness helps your dreams first of all. If you know how to drive, or work a repetitive job, or have done long school work before, you know how good the subconscious is at automating our processes. The first time you drive a car, it's hard, you have to do everything manually, and you make mistakes, but once you've done it a few times, your subconscious just takes over, and you don't really "think" about the process of driving the times you do it after that. This is how most of our routine each day goes, our subconscious takes control, and leads us about like a bit of a machine - however, we still have our conscious thinking happening on top, so if something astoundingly weird were to happen that breaks the routine, we'll question it.
In our dreams however, you go about like a machine on autopilot, but your conscious mind is asleep, so when a giant flying dinosaur comes through the window and takes a dump on your friend's head, it doesn't trigger any reason to break autopilot, and you continue being blissfully unaware. So essentially what this technique is about, is about reclaiming yourself from autopilot in your day to day life, so that you stop being in autopilot in your dreams, when you're not in autopilot, you take actions slowly (increasing dream length), you pay attention to your surroundings (noticing things and becoming lucid more often), and you recall the events afterwards much easier.
So really, the easiest way to get started is simple. What are you doing right now? Reading my post. How are you reading it though? You were probably just aware of yourself reading it, but were you aware of the feeling of each of your fingers on your keyboard? Of the background sounds happening outside your house? Of the flashing of your Skype window beneath the post? Pause right now, and take a moment to engage each of your senses. First, what do you see? Your monitor, your keyboard, now look around the room, take it all in, examine things. Now what do you hear? Listen to the sounds, explore where they're coming from mentally, i.e. if you hear your neighbour, try and picture where exactly outside they'd be to be making those noises etc. Next up, touch, how does the keyboard feel, how does your body feel? Is your back aching from being in a strained position? Well sit up and straighten up a bit, get comfortable. Now what about smell? Forgot the deodorant today? Or can you perhaps smell your parents cooking downstairs - why not go ask them what's cooking! Taste? Grab a snack, enjoy it, take your time to eat it slowly instead of rushing to get back to what you were doing.
If you'll notice, all you've really done in this process is SLOW DOWN. Instead of focusing so intently on your task that you ignore everything else, you've taken the time to pause, slow down, and take in what's really happening in all five of your primary senses. So the easiest way to get started, is just to do things more slowly and carefully during your day. An easy one is meals - instead of rushing to finish, while watching TV at the same time. Take time for your meal, eat it while doing nothing else, focus on the taste, the texture, the smell, and really enjoy it - if nothing else, you get to enjoy your food better, and eating slower aids your digestion, so its good for you, but it also starts to get you used to a heightened awareness of your senses. Now what else do you automate each day? Do you walk to school in the morning and find yourself marching along a bit like an ant? Slow down, leave earlier in the morning if you're worried about being late, and take the time to walk there slowly - take in the sights. What's going on at the building sight across the road? Where's that tweeting coming from, which tree? Try and spot the bird! What can you smell? Hear? See? Go touch a tree on your way past it, feel the warm sunlight on the bark.
You get to school, and you've not really taken any effort or time out of your day, but you've enjoyed your walk to school a lot more, you've enjoyed your meals a lot more. Now start doing it elsewhere. Having a quick bath or shower? Instead of rushing through it, take the time, look at the parts of yourself you're washing, check your teeth and see if they look/feel healthy, maybe get out a tape measure and see if you've grown any if you're not too old, or perhaps weigh yourself and see if you've put on any muscle in that extra time you've devoted to your morning walks!
Take your day slowly, reclaim your senses, and get yourself back from being a slave to autopilot. Both your waking life, and your dreaming life will improve massively as a result. You'll start to see the world more beautifully like you did as a kid, because instead of focusing on your destination 24/7, you're present in the NOW, in this moment, enjoying what's there in front of you 
You literally don't have to take ANY extra time out of your day for this, instead you're just reclaiming the time you already let go by in a blur to slow down and enjoy the day!
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