 Originally Posted by dolphin
That's true that self-awareness is essential, but I've noticed in many people that even when their self-awareness seems low, it still has the ability to spike when something noticeable happens. For example, I've tried a few times standing in the path of people walking around with their heads down on their smart phones, seeing if they collide with me to test their self awareness.  Surprisingly, they always seem to notice my presence in accordance to theirs well before a collision, even as they seem to be absorbed in their phones, totally lacking self awareness. I've also noticed drivers texting while waiting for a red light that still are also apparently aware of what's happening around them as they are sufficiently ready most of the time when the light turns green, even with their heads buried in their phones.
Noticeable things often happen in dreams, so given this seemingly natural ability for self awareness to spike high enough to take action, even when low most of the time, I believe attaining it to become lucid is less of a problem than most make it out to be.
But these are not instances of self-awareness, they seem (to me) to clearly be "operating on auto-pilot," reacting minimally by habit/instinct, which is very much the opposite of self-awareness and paying attention mindfully.
Well, I've moved my stuff to another pile. Improving awareness and being present is good and all, but I now think improving in-dream memory is a vastly bigger and more common hurdle to attaining lucidity so it therefore should be focused on more.
This looks very familiar -- I feel like I've been here before myself, a number of times, on a sort of continual merry-go-round of "what is really important for lucidity." I think I'm probably still riding it in fact . I call it a merry-go-round because with multiple interacting aspects (awareness, memory, intention, and so on), you can never IMHO single out one as most important.
Without presence/attention/self-awareness in and of the dream, there is no "you" (or no "strong enough you") there to get lucid in the first place.
Without reflection, the dream scenarios may pass by as do scenes from a movie or TV show, without you recognizing them as clues as to your state.
Without memory / intention, you may be present and reflecting, but forget your goal to become lucid or just not care enough to become lucid.
And then there are other considerations: brain chemistry, timing, general mental state, and so on. All these things must align properly in order for lucidity to result, which is why I like to say that it takes a "perfect storm" to result in a lucid dream.
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