It's a door. It's three seconds out of your life. You do nice things because it's right, not because you expect people to return the favor. Get over it. |
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Today on my way into the stupid bank, I held the door open for a young women. |
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Even though I agree with you, Mario, these kinds of things do irk me a little bit as well. I mean, I'm not surprised by it, by any means - and I certainly don't expect it out of everyone - but it is one of those things that just makes me shake my head. |
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Well... she certainly wasn't obligated to return the favor, and because she violated that in which you perceived as a folkway, doesn't mean the nature of men, in a sense, is getting worse (whatever that means), if that is what you're implying. |
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Last edited by malac; 09-11-2010 at 02:28 AM.
I stomp on your ideas.
What would be the point of her holding the second door open for you? You, by opening the first door, are giving her the right to go before you. If you did not really want to let her go before you, then you shouldn't have held the door open for her. |
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I don't know but normally you just can't expect anything back. |
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My older sister and I were picking up pizza. A man was standing next to us in line along with several other customers, and there was confusion as to who should go next. My sister stepped back, and told the man that he could go in front of us. |
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John 3:16
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
Organic spaceship? |
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Goodness, people are so easily offended these days. Of all the silly insignificant arbitrary crap to get upset over, why something so small? This kind of thing happens to me every so often, but I don't get upset over it or let it bother me. I don't know what's going on in that person's life, and I'm not going to judge them for not saying thank you. |
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It's just the nature of people. Some are jerks, some are nice. You don't always get what you give. |
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Last edited by Noogah; 09-12-2010 at 09:11 PM.
John 3:16
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
We all live in a kind of continuous dream. When we wake, it is because something,
some event, some pinprick even, disturbs the edges of what we have taken as reality.
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Have questions about lucid dreaming? DM me.
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I have struggled to restrain myself from further pressing this debate, but I can't help but ask: |
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John 3:16
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
Noogah, my beef is this: a person could be going through god knows what, and you can't suck it up for five seconds. You get so caught up in silly little social mores that you can't see the grander problem. You get worked up, yet do nothing. You fail to see that there are other people with other ways of life that may have a different concept of what is socially acceptable. Take a step back and view the big picture of things. This man caused you no harm, physically, psychologically, or emotionally. You are judging him based on a single encounter. Now correct me if I'm wrong, but I'm pretty dang sure I remember Jesus saying exactly not to do that. Now please, step off your moral high horse and consider that the world does not come to a screeching halt when someone, for whatever reason, breaks an insignificant cultural more. You can suck it up and deal with it. Be the bigger person. This applies to the OP, too. |
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John 3:16
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
It was rude by your standards. Perhaps he knew it was, too. But perhaps he had suffered a very long, hard day, and wanted nothing more than to get his pizza and go home. Or perhaps he was on some form of medication, or intoxicated. Maybe he was just zoning out. I'm just saying...it isn't worth worrying about it. |
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I would say it's a social norm... |
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John 3:16
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
That particular situation is a hard one to judge though. |
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Actually, yeah - with the double doors thing, it's kind of hard to judge. I mean, if I held the door open for someone, I would expect them to go first. But at the double door - though I may not expect them to stand back with the door open and let ME go first, I might at least expect a gesture to hold the door open, after they've already walked through it. I mean, it's just a matter of mutual respect. |
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