Deery At least you know. As I've stated before, I still have dreams about my favorite cat and I no longer recall just how many years ago he ran away. And last night, I dreamed about some other pets who have disappeared over the years. Part of the reason is not truly knowing what became of them. I like that you've found some peace
everyone else.
I went to sleep yesterday at 3PM. I was just going to take a short nap before hanging up laundry. I slept until 8PM, spoke with my youngest daughter, fell back to sleep. I woke next at around 3AM. I stayed awake for maybe an hour then crashed again. Woke for the last time at 7:30
I sweat a ton in my sleep and I'm in dire need of a shower, but I'm more hungry than (?) vain isn't quite the right word I'm about to go to Walmart and get some goods, I'll eat, drink and then shower.
And yes, I CAN shower. The pipes froze but did not burst
I had a short lucid dream last night, but (as always) awareness tried to wake me completely so I let go of lucidity.
I took my youngest son to the Farm yesterday. Before that, we stopped at Goodwill so I could buy a couple pairs of pants for him. He REFUSED to try them on. He brought up my issues and I lashed out and told him he needs to see the shrink- not me, because he has some serious issues going on I apologized but used a "but" which diminished it "I'm sorry for being such a bitch BUT you could have at least TRIED to try them on."
THen he went on to say he CANNOT do some things like looking like an idiot or speaking to strangers etc. That lead to a good conversation. I become more and more certain that boy has Aspbergers (sp!!!)
As we spoke I started to cry, but didn't let him see. My baby is leaving and I'm never going to see him again. Seriously. He's going into independent living- most likely in the big city 3 hours away. I cannot afford to drive there. And as much as I love the boy, he's not quite right in the head. He's 17 years old but still dreams of being an international bounty hunter, of building a super computer, of doing all these outstanding things, but he can't even spell properly.... basically, his education sucks. He's slightly learning disabled.
We talked some more and he said he wants to learn all the different languages in order to find the FIRST language. I explained that's impossible. He said parents are supposed to be supportive I told him learning languages is something he could do, but it's simply impossible to learn the very first one. There's that BUT word again.
To make matters worse, he has the mindset of "I'm just going to start walking." Really? To where? No car, no education, no job experience. I told him to be careful while hitchhiking because men can be raped too.
He doesn't even remember his address.
Oh well, time to go to the store....
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