Thread: Rant and Rave, Cry and Complain

Originally Posted by brokedownheart

I am freaking out about this stupid wedding I'm supposed to be going to next month. I want to go...but I feel like it's going to be such a waste of money to buy a dress/shoes/get my hair done/wedding gift all to see people for a couple of hours who wrote me off years ago. There's so many other things I could do with that money...would it be totally horrible to just get him a card and not put any cash in it? =/ I am so undecided.

If they wrote you off years ago and your not that close in the past few years then No getting just a card is not horrible.

Anyways, Went to sign up for Emergency Hire today and I got that done so I was filling good, and I started to grab apps from all around to fill out and once I was done, and I started to fill them out, I didn't qualify for all of them, either due to the fact that I got a Reckless Driving ticket six months ago, or my Dad holding my academic papers hostage.

Originally Posted by brokedownheart

I am freaking out about this stupid wedding I'm supposed to be going to next month. I want to go...but I feel like it's going to be such a waste of money to buy a dress/shoes/get my hair done/wedding gift all to see people for a couple of hours who wrote me off years ago. There's so many other things I could do with that money...would it be totally horrible to just get him a card and not put any cash in it? =/ I am so undecided.

I don't get what "wrote me off" means but I doubt it's anything good.

If I were in your shoes, I will most likely not go for the wedding. I know it's not something nice to do but they are not your close friends, they wouldn't miss one person. And it's alright to say "No" sometimes, you're not obliged to be nice all the times.

I agree with those above me. I wouldn't go either just to be nice to people that i didn't even like back then.

Originally Posted by brokedownheart

I am freaking out about this stupid wedding I'm supposed to be going to next month. I want to go...but I feel like it's going to be such a waste of money to buy a dress/shoes/get my hair done/wedding gift all to see people for a couple of hours who wrote me off years ago. There's so many other things I could do with that money...would it be totally horrible to just get him a card and not put any cash in it? =/ I am so undecided.

I have to go to a wedding too in a few weeks, and am also not looking forward to spending money on a dress or whatever else I need to get done. What do I even need to get done? I've never been to an entire wedding before, only a couple of the main ceremonies when I was little. My boyfriend is the best man. I only just started thinking about the actual preparation after reading your post and have realized I have no idea what to do. (Side: does anyone know if regular bachelor parties usually have strippers, or is that just something from movies? He doesn't know whether to plan them or not. Ahh Ishould probably make a 'tell me about' thread, or just google it like the regular non-ridiculously-lazy person I used to be...)

Originally Posted by Dianeva

(Side: does anyone know if regular bachelor parties usually have strippers, or is that just something from movies? He doesn't know whether to plan them or not. Ahh Ishould probably make a 'tell me about' thread, or just google it like the regular non-ridiculously-lazy person I used to be...)

I don't think it's a must, it's probably just to add in to the craziness. But I don't like the idea of strippers just a day before your marriage.

I feel bad for my brother. He has a horrible diet with a capital H. Granted mine isn't much better, but at least I am not getting overweight from it. He just eats it all up and asks for more of the same crap.

Still feel like Scrooge today.

Originally Posted by brokedownheart

I am freaking out about this stupid wedding I'm supposed to be going to next month. I want to go...but I feel like it's going to be such a waste of money to buy a dress/shoes/get my hair done/wedding gift all to see people for a couple of hours who wrote me off years ago. There's so many other things I could do with that money...would it be totally horrible to just get him a card and not put any cash in it? =/ I am so undecided.

Are the two getting married the ones who wrote you off, or the people who'll be attending? Bit confused. If the former, I wouldn't even bother with anything at all. But then I'm a bastard like that.

Originally Posted by Wolfwood

Are the two getting married the ones who wrote you off, or the people who'll be attending? Bit confused. If the former, I wouldn't even bother with anything at all. But then I'm a bastard like that.

Exactly, wouldn't even go. In fact, I didn't go to a wedding last year because of basically that reason.

They might have to glue my left lung to the chest wall to stop it from constantly collapsing. Ew.

I'm terrified of people I guess. I was just playing WoW alone, on my account and my boyfriend's (two computers), just getting him to follow me on quests and leveling us both up. Then, one of his friends, or someone from our party showed up and started helping me kill stuff. He said hi, what's up, and I got so scared I just exited the game. I didn't know what to say, how to tell him his friend (if it was) isn't even online, and I was just generally getting nervous. All on a game and I was panicking, that's pathetic.... And now I feel bad that the person probably came there especially for us, just trying to help, and I just left without a word.

I'm starting to drink some beer. My throat hurts and I think I'm getting sick. After not sending me an e-mail in months, my ex-bf sent me one last night, a couple hours after I wrote something about him in this thread, which I also haven't done in a few months. I hope it was a coincidence.

Originally Posted by Dianeva

I'm terrified of people I guess. I was just playing WoW alone, on my account and my boyfriend's (two computers), just getting him to follow me on quests and leveling us both up. Then, one of his friends, or someone from our party showed up and started helping me kill stuff. He said hi, what's up, and I got so scared I just exited the game. I didn't know what to say, how to tell him his friend (if it was) isn't even online, and I was just generally getting nervous. All on a game and I was panicking, that's pathetic.... And now I feel bad that the person probably came there especially for us, just trying to help, and I just left without a word.

I do that too when I play MMOs, I never talk to anyone but the people I actually know. :T I don't know why... it just makes me really anxious thinking about talking to those random people. I usually just keep running or act like I went AFK, or log off.

Originally Posted by Dianeva

I'm terrified of people I guess. I was just playing WoW alone, on my account and my boyfriend's (two computers), just getting him to follow me on quests and leveling us both up. Then, one of his friends, or someone from our party showed up and started helping me kill stuff. He said hi, what's up, and I got so scared I just exited the game. I didn't know what to say, how to tell him his friend (if it was) isn't even online, and I was just generally getting nervous. All on a game and I was panicking, that's pathetic.... And now I feel bad that the person probably came there especially for us, just trying to help, and I just left without a word.

I'm starting to drink some beer. My throat hurts and I think I'm getting sick. After not sending me an e-mail in months, my ex-bf sent me one last night, a couple hours after I wrote something about him in this thread, which I also haven't done in a few months. I hope it was a coincidence.

Bum Deal I do the same thing, only in real life too. I have trouble talking to people I don't know very well. Like every time I meet one of my friends friends there like why you so quite, and I think it might just be because I need to know if I'm gonna be comfortable around them or not... Seems to stem from trust issues.

On a less serious note, you know what grinds my gears, when I click on a link and it opens a new window and doesn't redirect me or open a new tab, what the hell is the point of opening a new window.

I hope my boyfriend's coworker's/long time friend's son makes it. It looks so bleak. I just, don't do this kind of thing ordinarily.

I guess it would be cool if the prayer people did their thing.

Some sort of smashy spine/face motorcycle thing. Happened last thursday. Surgery yesterday.

Originally Posted by ZeraCook

Bum Deal I do the same thing, only in real life too. I have trouble talking to people I don't know very well. Like every time I meet one of my friends friends there like why you so quite, and I think it might just be because I need to know if I'm gonna be comfortable around them or not... Seems to stem from trust issues.

On a less serious note, you know what grinds my gears, when I click on a link and it opens a new window and doesn't redirect me or open a new tab, what the hell is the point of opening a new window.

I hate when it just redirects me, in instances when I'll need to go back to the first window eventually. Then I have to go back, right click and go 'open new tab'.

yeah i do that too, but the one that just infuriates me is when it opens a new window, they both suck though.

Two days till holidays, fuck yeah!
Wait, never mind, that just means there's no restriction of my working hours, and I still have no social life
No, I'm looking forward to it
Should be able to chill with some friends, and just act like a mushroom infront of the TV, like I've craved to have back every since I started work

Originally Posted by Alyzarin

I do that too when I play MMOs, I never talk to anyone but the people I actually know. :T I don't know why... it just makes me really anxious thinking about talking to those random people. I usually just keep running or act like I went AFK, or log off.

Haha, I avoid speaking to people because they always want to group/party.....then I end up leveling much slower. So being a solo mute works for me. No interesting MMOs for me atm though.

Originally Posted by Dianeva

I hate when it just redirects me, in instances when I'll need to go back to the first window eventually. Then I have to go back, right click and go 'open new tab'.

I CTRL + Left Click pretty much everything. ^_^

Okay... i have no idea what happened. There is a bruise on the top of my head and i got it during the night... I have nothing around my bed that i could've hit it to, so i have no idea at all o.o It constantly hurts :/

Originally Posted by littlezoe

Okay... i have no idea what happened. There is a bruise on the top of my head and i got it during the night... I have nothing around my bed that i could've hit it to, so i have no idea at all o.o It constantly hurts :/

The boogey man!

Originally Posted by Wolfwood

The boogey man!

But i have no closet in my room

Spent the last 3 hours trying to gt in to a DayZ server.

Australian servers fucking suck balls. I had an awesome day planned out.

Go mountain bike riding in the morning, come home and play dayz the rest of the day.

God is just like "AAHAHA no."

Oh and there was a 5.2 earthquake here just now. Not really a rant but it was cool.
I thought shit was gonna go to hell real fast, but it just faded off.

Originally Posted by OpheliaBlue

I hope my boyfriend's coworker's/long time friend's son makes it. It looks so bleak. I just, don't do this kind of thing ordinarily.

I guess it would be cool if the prayer people did their thing.

Some sort of smashy spine/face motorcycle thing. Happened last thursday. Surgery yesterday.

I hope he does, too. My heart goes out to him, and you.

Originally Posted by GavinGill

They might have to glue my left lung to the chest wall to stop it from constantly collapsing. Ew.

OMF are you ok?!